The family does not agree to get married, but the two people don t want to break up, what should I d

First, ask yourself if you like him enough, both physically and mentally.

Second, you have to prepare for two things, one is the best and the other is the worst. The best plan is that although you have a lot of obstacles, no matter what you grind or stay together, until you are old, you still have that grinding and loving, this is the most enviable love marriage; The worst plan is: you also mentioned that he does not have a formal job, that is to say, he is still in an unstable stage, maybe he will work hard and achieve something, maybe he will work hard but not have much achievement, but one step at a time is very solid, which makes people's hearts collapse; In the end, there is a series of unsatisfactory performances such as no work, idleness, etc.! I think your parents are afraid that their daughter will marry someone else by mistake, and they are afraid that you will regret it!

If you are not afraid of any result, you are determined to be with him, and you will not regret it in the future, then go according to your heart's desire; If you feel uncertain about the future, and don't know whether you choose a potential stock or a waste stock, then listen to your parents.

I think the words of my parents are credible, they are from the past, and some young people who are tempted by their hearts may not be able to see it, and their parents will care about these and help you pay attention!

I hope my words can help you and wish you happiness!

This sentiment is understandable because it is the same situation as mine. We have been together for two years, during this time, I have been working as a parent, and I often go home to accompany them, making them happy, intentionally or unintentionally, mentioning me and my boyfriend. At first, my parents didn't agree, but later, I felt that the two of us seemed to be inseparable, so I didn't have anything to say.

So, don't be afraid, as long as the hearts of the two of you are tight, as long as you confirm that he is the happiness you have been pursuing all your life, your parents' side is secondary, and work hard to do their work. Convince your parents with your promises. In addition, it is very important to find a job, so don't let these things affect your life progress.

Finally, I hope you are happy, and there are lovers who will eventually become married.

In fact, height is not a problem, now you choose your husband, not your family's choice of husband.

Just because you don't have a regular job now doesn't mean you won't have a job in the future! It takes some time to find a job. The most important thing now is to get your boyfriend to find a suitable job as soon as possible.

Although your family does not approve of your marriage now, you can both prove to your parents that you can work hard for your own happiness and earn a little more money first. I'm sure your parents will change their opinion of your boyfriend.

See if your boyfriend is a competitive man! If so, then you don't have to worry about the eyes of your family, it's important to settle down in your heart, and getting married is just a proof! If you only think about getting married and don't think about how you will live in the future, you may not be happy when you get married, and when you think of the opposition of your family, it will be too late, hey!

I suggest you divide it. Follow him what to eat and drink. Can you live the next day?

My boyfriend used to be like this.,I'm also a family who doesn't want to divide it.。。 It was very uncomfortable.

Thinking about it later. The family is right. Marriage is about living, not when you are in love.

Think for yourself. What kind of life do you want? What can he give you.

I've got a boyfriend now.,It's better than before.。。 Hey..

Bless you ... Women, be kind to yourself.

I went to get the marriage certificate first, and then told my parents that the raw rice had been cooked and cooked.

I just think that life is short, and it is rare to get a lover, if you love each other very much, what is the external problem? There is still work, as long as you work hard, are you afraid that you won't be able to find it? I wish you all happiness! Everything will be fine, be brave and face it!

It's easy to do, and when his job is set, there will be hope, or you will have to think about what you will eat if you don't have income? How do you live your daily life, eating your parents all day?

Everyone has a scripture that is difficult to read, and I wish you happiness.

If your parents are not optimistic, it's better to break up!

1. In my country, although people's sense of marriage is not as good as before, the rule that falling in love is to finally come together and enter the palace of marriage has not changed. The two simply live together, without the reality of marriage, such a relationship is still not accepted in our country. So, either be together and get married, or just choose to break up without a middle choice route.

2. Since he doesn't want to marry you, what is the purpose of his stay with you? Is it love, is it sympathy? Don't think about it, it's definitely not, if his purpose is not pure, it seems to be a bit too much, but his stay with you is definitely not for your good.

So, if you still choose to be together, you are deluding yourself.

As for the actual situation, only you know, maybe what I said does not correspond to the situation you are in, you have to judge according to your actual situation, I hope to give you some enlightenment.

True love must be able to be inseparable from each other's white heads, as a man, he will want to marry his girlfriend into the door as soon as possible, and if he doesn't want to marry, it's nothing more than not enough love. Don't marry and don't want to break up, don't think he loves me, and he is reluctant to part with me to numb himself, maybe he just hasn't met a more suitable person yet, once that person appears, he will turn around and leave without hesitation.

Not being willing to marry does not mean that you can't afford to marry, you can comfort yourself with his current poor economic conditions and unpreparedness. But you have to understand that even if the conditions do not allow it now, the person who loves you will not say that they don't want to marry you, or find all kinds of excuses to prevaricate you, and the reasons for this need to be pondered by yourself.

Maybe he also has love for you, but for some reason he feels that you are only suitable for love, not marriage, and even feels that you are not worthy of his family background, and reason makes him shy away from you. In this case, you must not lower your posture and despise yourself because of that pitiful love, the long pain is better than the short pain, and it is the best choice to peel yourself off as soon as possible.

At this time, it is necessary to communicate with the other party in a timely manner, and you must understand the other party's voice and the other party's thoughts, and when facing the matter of feelings, do not force it.

You should communicate well with your other half, because it is not very suitable now, and two people will always get married, so you can't waste time.

I would definitely choose to break up, and if I didn't want to get married, I felt it would be a waste of my time, and I would definitely not allow such a thing.

Betrothal is just an old custom and is not protected by law, but a ceremony is held with the consent of both parents and the parties in the congratulatory gathering of relatives and friends. Now the two men and women quarrel and break up, there is always a reason why they will not be for no reason, they think it is inappropriate, the freedom of marriage is their own decision, no one is allowed to interfere, and the opposition of the family is invalid. The parties should deal with it on their own, return all the money and materials to the husband after negotiation, and the proposing party should appropriately compensate for some economic losses, and terminate it peacefully.

However, there is a saying that there is a quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, if the contradiction is not too big, be considerate of each other, and live together in the future! First of all, let's reflect on it, why don't you know if the two are suitable before getting engaged? Since you have chosen to get engaged, it means that the two of you are suitable, at least the two families support you to be together!

And now, you want to break up, and your family doesn't want to say that you will continue to live in the future, you might as well try to reconcile! Secondly, think about why the quarrel occurred, what was the reason, and whose fault was it? Calm down and analyze whether we can live together in the future?

There are too many young couples around to quarrel and quarrel, and this is just part of the journey of life!

After all, marriage is your own, discuss it with your family, and listen to the opinions of the elderly, after all, the old man is sincerely good for you! Parents don't worry about your childishness, it never hurts to listen more! Life is your own, calm down, think about it in many ways, and you will be happy in the future, what do you say?

In addition, after the engagement is the result of the break, how to deal with it depends on the reason for the trouble, if it involves a matter of principle, if there is a third party involved in a category, quickly cut the mess, then completely separate, the bride price or something is returned. If it is because of some trivial matters, no matter who provokes the dispute, the man is generous, bows his head and admits his mistake, it is best to save this marriage, even if it cannot be recovered, there will be no regrets in his heart. Who hasn't been young?

It is inevitable to make mistakes when you are young, you are young and vigorous, and you will be angry, and you will often be angry and make things that you will regret for life. There are some people you who you once missed, you may miss for the rest of your life.

I think it should depend on the size of the contradiction, if the personality of the two people is really inappropriate, then they should break up, regardless of whether the family agrees or not, forcing them together will only make life more painful in the future.

You must be very resolute, because happiness is in your own hands, and if you get married, the conflict will be very serious. Discuss with your family to get out of the marriage as soon as possible.

I think the most important thing is to see what kind of contradictions the two of you have, after all, you have reached the stage of engagement, and some things can be tolerated.

After some boys in life have love, they don't mention marriage, and even their girlfriends don't want to talk about it. What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't want to get married and doesn't want to break up?

1. What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't get married and doesn't break up?

1. Consider his situation first If you are a young man who has just graduated and your career has just begun, it is really difficult to marry you. The responsibilities of married life can also make him feel stressed, so he can consider whether he can afford to wait. If both of them have been working for a while and are financially independent.

At this time, your boyfriend doesn't want to get married and doesn't want to break up, maybe you are a spare tire. If you want to find a better one, you will break up, and if you don't find it, you can make do with it. I always think that I can find a better one, so wait and see.

2. Look at your own opportunity costGenerally, the longer the two are together, the boys have a better chance of winning if they drag it out, while the girls will waste their youth in a fruitless person. Therefore, if you are older and have been in a relationship for a long time, it is best to make a decision as soon as possible.

Common reasons why boyfriends don't want to get married: 1. Most boys like to play if they don't play enough, especially if the boyfriend is a guy around 22 years old. They are not in a hurry to get married, but more to see how beautiful the world is. It is a great choice to have someone to browse with, and if you get married, it will become a burden on life, and you don't want to resist responsibility too early.

2. Don't want to get marriedFor boys, getting married means giving up a forest to keep a tree alone, and being loyal to it. The better men procrastinate in marriage because it is too restrictive. However, if you meet someone of the opposite sex you particularly love, it is possible to get married for a short time if conditions allow.

3. Low cost of cohabitationFor couples who have already lived together, they can enjoy the life of husband and wife without fulfilling their marital obligations, and there is no cost of marriage room, bride price and childcare for the elderly. Its income is used for the enjoyment of life for the two of them, and they don't have to take too much responsibility, as long as they do their best.

4. The high bride price is the last straw that overwhelms the marriage of the two. And now it is not easy to make money, the price of housing is high, and it is difficult to pay a down payment without hundreds of thousands of houses. And the bride price is tens of thousands, plus all kinds of wedding expenses, marriage is daunting.

In China, although people's awareness of marriage is not as good as before, the purpose of falling in love is to get together, and the rules of entering the marriage hall have not changed. The two simply live together without the reality of marriage. Such a relationship is still unacceptable in China.

So either be together, get married, or choose to break up, there is no middle way. There are probably only two possibilities for not getting married. Let's start with the first one.

This is an idealized result. It's not that he doesn't want to get married, it's just that he feels that the time has not come. Including various material preparations.

After all, marriage is an important event in a person's life. There must be no ambiguity, so he wants everything to be ready. This is understandable.

The second possibility of not getting married is that he really doesn't love you enough. First, he doesn't know enough about you; It's not enough for him to make up his mind to marry you and go home for the rest of his life. Second, he may still be considering, is there a more suitable candidate who has not appeared?

It can be delayed for a while. So there's still a lot of time to plan, so he's not going to get married.

Since he doesn't want to marry you, what is his purpose with you? Is it mutual appreciation? Absolutely not.

It may seem a bit excessive if his purpose is not pure, but he is definitely not with you for your good. So if you still choose to be together, you are deceiving yourself. Take a closer look at your boyfriend's personality to see if he really loves you.

If you don't want to get married for various unavoidable reasons, you can solve it slowly. If your boyfriend changes his mind, there's nothing you can do about it. If your boyfriend really doesn't want to get married, as a girlfriend, you should express your position on whether you want to get married or not at the first time.

If you want to get married, tell your boyfriend in a firm tone.

If your boyfriend doesn't want to get married, it may be because he is usually too busy and doesn't have the mind and preparation for this. You can suggest that your boyfriend give you a romantic marriage proposal. If your boyfriend doesn't want to get married, just urging you alone may not have much effect.

But you can borrow the mouths of his relatives and friends to urge him to get married, and slowly let him enter the state of marriage. The most precious thing for girls is youth, and it is impossible to wait for a man's commitment indefinitely. If it's really not suitable, you can only choose to break up and find the most suitable other half.