If I don t get married, can I get the bride price money back?

Of course, I should be able to come back. One place and one rule, if we have given the bride price, this matter has been decided, if the woman chooses to destroy the marriage for any reason, at least the bride price money must be returned to the man. If the man destroys it first, then the result will be different, that is, nothing can be caught.

I wonder if you have this rule? Also, you can see if she has talked about it before? Is there any similar behavior, if there is, it can constitute deception

That's sure to come back, otherwise it's a scam.

Yes, as long as there is proof that you gave it.

Then negotiate with his family...

Legal analysis: China's civil code stipulates that under normal circumstances, if you do not go to the civil affairs department to go through the marriage procedures, you are not married, and if you are not married, there is no divorce. Only if the following three conditions are met, the bride price can be returned:

1. Both parties also have marriage registration; Clause.

2. Although the parties have registered their marriage, they have not lived together. Then the bride price money can be recovered in the event of divorce; Clause.

3. If one party has difficulties in the life of one party because of the payment of the bride price before the marriage registration, the bride price can be recovered at the time of divorce.

Legal basis: "Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on Marriage and Family (1)" Article 5: Where a party requests the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

Legal analysis: No wedding bride price money can be returned, but it will not be fully refunded. If an unmarried man and a woman have indeed lived together but have not been able to register their marriage, and the party paying the bride price requests the return of the bride price, the people's court may determine whether to return the bride price and the specific amount of the bride price based on factors such as the time the parties have lived together, the amount of the bride price, and local customs and habits.

Legal basis: "Supreme People's Court Interpretation (1) on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section" Article 5: Where a party requests the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not completed the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

The provisions of Dan Congmin in items 2 and 3 of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

There is no wedding bride price money to get back. In any of the following three circumstances, the man may request the woman to return the bride price that has been paid: (1) the parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) If both parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but do not live together, the husband may request the return of the bride price after the divorce;

3) If the payment is made before marriage and causes the husband to have difficulty in life, the husband may request the return of the bride price after the divorce. Therefore, there is no chain of acres of wedding bride price money to be returned. Legal basis:

Article 5 of the Interpretation (I) of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items 2 and 3 of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.