My grandmother is dying, and I m in a bad mood, how can I adjust

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Listen to more Buddhist scriptures, such as: Great Compassion Mantra, Pumen Product, Puxian Xing Willing Product, it is best to recite it to your grandmother.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Mourn, my second uncle's daughter, my sister, died, if you think about me, your mood will be better.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everyone dies, and even if you're in a bad mood, it's pointless.

    Also, I don't think it needs to be adjusted, so it's better to vent to your heart's content.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's better to have faith, no matter what religion, whether it's Buddhism or something like that.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Hello, grandma passed away and felt uncomfortable, you can do this: method one:

    You can write down all the past you can't forget, so as to commemorate you and your grandmother's past; Method 2: Find someone you trust, fully accept yourself, and cry while crying, crying while talking; Method 3: Write your own heartfelt words or blessings to your grandmother, and let it go (burn, tear, throw into the river, etc.); Method 4:

    Give yourself permission to be sad for a while, set a deadline for yourself, and during this time, allow yourself to immerse yourself in your emotions; When the deadline comes, remind yourself to come out and see other good things in this world; Method 5: Compile the past events and your thoughts into ** as psychological sustenance; Method 6: If none of the above methods work, it is recommended to find a psychological counselor to do professional psychological counseling to help you come out.

    My grandmother passed away, and I felt uncomfortable, so I couldn't get rid of it.

    There are some things that I regret.

    Every day in my heart.

    Hello, grandma passed away and felt uncomfortable, you can do this: method 1: you can write down all the past you can't forget, in order to commemorate you and your grandma's past; Method 2:

    Find someone you trust, accept yourself fully, and cry while crying, and crying while talking; Method 3: Write your own heartfelt words or blessings to your grandmother, and let it go (burn, tear, throw into the river, etc.); Method 4: Allow yourself to be sad for a while, set a deadline for yourself, and during this period, allow yourself to immerse yourself in your emotions; When the deadline comes, remind yourself to come out and see other good things in this world; Method 5:

    Compile the past events and your thoughts into ** as psychological sustenance; Method 6: If none of the above methods work, it is recommended to find a psychological counselor to do professional psychological counseling to help you come out.

    Can I tell the teacher what it is?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hearing this news, I was silent for a long time, obviously I don't know how to comfort you, and I am not uneasy, I still want to say a word to you, don't be too sad. I'm trying to comfort you by thinking about your feelings But more than 20 years have passed since my grandparents passed away At that time, I was still young, only three or four years old I just saw the adults crying sadly I also cried However, at that time, I was far from being able to understand the concept of sadness Because I didn't understand Faced with that kind of scene is both tangled and helpless Maybe I can only use the form of crying to express my inner feelings Later, I experienced the death of my aunt and brother one after another, and I grew up a little bit at that time. Knowing that they were all people who loved me, I also had mixed feelings in my heart at that time, in fact, the most regret was that I didn't bring them more happiness and companionship during their lifetime. At this time, I always think of what my history teacher told us when I graduated from junior high school, she said, "Human life is like a train on the road, there are constantly people getting on the train and people getting off the train on the road, and now it's time for me to get off the train, and I am very happy to be able to walk with you ......."What I want to tell you is that a person's life is destined to meet many people, and there will be some very important people who have drawn a strong stroke in our lives, although it is a pity to be separated, but fortunately we are all really present in each other's lives, and bring real feelings, leaving different marks on each other's hearts....I think this is both a pity and a blessing......

    Infernal Affairs says that the catastrophe of man is nothing more than eternal life, and for my relatives who have died of illness, the end is not a relief, after all, they have suffered enough in this life I think they will have a better life, so in the face of the deceased, I think it should be more of a blessing, and at the same time, they are also blessing us with smooth health. Therefore, to say that the dead are gone, and the living are like this, that is, we still have to work hard to live, so that those who love us but leave can rest in peace. So, kids, you have to be good.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    One, I wish the old man a good walk and rest in peace!

    Second, we should do a good job in the aftermath and conscientiously do a good job in organizing commemorative activities.

    Third, with relatives, friends, and everyone, we will miss the elderly.

    Fourth, inherit the good quality of the old man and complete the last wish of the old man.

    Fifth, after the incident, everyone will travel together?

    Sixth, sometimes the stool is pure, and you can also consult a psychologist.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People have feelings, and this will definitely be uncomfortable for a while, but you also have to pay attention to your body, and your deceased grandmother doesn't want to see you so sad.

    Asked, but there was always a shadow of her in my heart, and I didn't know how to forget why I didn't speak.

    This one needs time to be diluted, and you need to get out of that state now and find something to keep yourself busy.

    Okay, when she was here, she didn't care much about her, she is not here now, I want to dream of all this, but I don't know anymore, I also know that people will always face life and death, hey.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Although it will be sad for your closest relatives to pass away, you must take good care of yourself at this time. His greatest wish is that you can live well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can understand your feelings, because my grandmother also just passed away, including now I often dream of her, because when I was a child, my memories were all grandmothers, and going back to my hometown for the New Year is actually the most resistant, because there is only my grandmother's ** left at home.

    Life changes are always hard to accept.

    So don't be sad, we'll all go, but grandma left first, and when the task in this world is completed, she goes back, so it's much better to think about it....Ask a question, yes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If grandma is really sad, I think it's human nature, give yourself a few days to adjust your emotions, let yourself vent well, you can talk to grandma a few words, and then continue to live your life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is normal for people to be sad to pass away, you can grieve, you can also find someone to talk and chat to vent your emotions, if you wait for the soil to be safe, your emotions will pass, if your grandmother was healthy before her death, and then lived for a long time, in our hometown there is also a joy and mourning, that is, the old man died over 90 years old and sent the old man away happily, but also wore a red filial piety badge, so according to your family situation to find your parents to talk about their hearts.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's normal to be sad when grandma dies, but you can't be too sad, too sad, it's not good, and slowly come out of this shadow.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should still try to slow down this state, after all, everyone has such a day.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I've been through the same thing as you. Grandma left me, not entirely unexpectedly, but also suddenly. This is something I experienced in my third year of high school, when my grandmother died, I couldn't accept it for a while, I thought it was too sudden, because I was too busy with my studies in my junior year of high school, and basically went home a lot less, so I saw my grandmother less often.

    It's still very uncomfortable to think about it now, and I didn't spend much time with my grandmother.

    I have some thoughts that I would like to share with you.

    What are we afraid of when someone we love dies? The most on my mind is "Grandma is gone, gone, I'll never see her again". But that's not the case.

    Between my grandmother and me, there is her love for me and my love for her as a bond that binds us together. None of our bodies can withstand the passage of time. Yes, there will be a day when the grandparents' bodies no longer function, no longer breathe, and no longer talk to us.

    But love is different, no matter who has left this world, my grandmother and me, our love for each other will not change. If you believe that the world has different dimensions, then your love for your grandma is the channel of communication between you and her. It's the same for grandma.

    The body is a vessel given to us by nature, but it is not the only good thing we have. The body can't resist time, but love can. I believe that the people we love the most are watching over us in their own way, even when they are gone. You'd better believe it too.

    Everything disappears in the footsteps of time. Only love, as a bond that can travel through time and space, binds us to the people we love forever.

    So grandma didn't leave you, and you never left her. With her love for you, live well. When you miss her, I'm sure she'll feel it. You live well, and she will be happy.

    You have to believe that there is a soul in the world, grandma doesn't want you to be sad, I hope you are well! Come on! Live well! Grandma will always be with you, as long as you firmly believe that she has always been there, she has always been there and never left.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal for you to feel sad when your grandma dies suddenly. Because grandma is generally very kind, she feels very kind to us. So his sudden death will cause you extreme harm, so it's normal for you to feel sad. But I still want you to mourn.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My grandmother was in good shape before, and she suddenly died of a myocardial infarction a few days ago, so sad, so sad, I can't believe it's true, my grandmother raised me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When the relatives around us leave, our hearts will be sad, and there is a feeling that our hearts have been drained, which is inevitable. The living still have to live well, and I believe that the relatives who have left us don't want us to be decadent. Let them live in our hearts and remember them forever.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    People can't be resurrected after death, and the festival mourns and changes!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Life is also happy, death is also mourning, everyone can't resist death, this is no way to do it, nostalgia is inevitable, but you must slowly make yourself out of sadness.

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