My husband wants to buy a car and asks me for bride price, should I give it?

It depends on the relationship between your husband and wife, as well as your parents' opinions, which are important in this regard. But personally, I won't give, it's a matter of principle.

There are several reasons why I won't give it. One: My parents raised me and paid for my schooling, not with a few years of work to repay, these bride price, in the wedding process of the woman's banquet will definitely be used up, and the parents buy new wedding supplies for their new home also have to spend money, even if there is left, it belongs to the parents, I personally will not want it again.

This is a matter of consideration according to the customs of my hometown; Two: The husband and wife can buy the car after working hard for two years, although it will not be very good, but it will meet our travel, which is enough. Although the bride price money is given by the man to the woman, in many cases it is also the marriage money prepared by the man's parents for his son, so even if it is used, it must be used by the man's parents, such as:

Unexpected circumstances are urgently needed. So the money would rather be stored to preserve its value.

3. Although the husband and wife have joint property, the things that belong to the wife should be clear to both parties. Personally, I am willing to use the money I have saved and the money my husband has saved to buy a car, rather than use the bride price.

Although it is all money, the nature of this money is different, and as a woman, this is also a guarantee for yourself. Four: Although husbands and wives should trust each other, I personally feel that I should let go, but I really feel that the bride price should not be at the disposal of my husband, which is also the sixth sense I have in my thinking as a woman.

The above is my personal opinion, of course, you have to judge according to your own situation.

That means the bride price money, your mother didn't ask for it, but gave you the bride price money, in fact, I am in the same situation as you, my mother didn't take a cent of the bride price money that my husband gave me, which means that we don't have any savings now, so we should take it to deal with emergencies, as long as we both live happily.

But it didn't take long for my husband to buy a house and began to ask me for the bride price, if it was my own money, then I had no problem giving it to him, after all, there was no need to think about it so much for two people.

Besides, it is our husband and wife joint debt, and I am also obliged to help him share it, but I turned my head and thought about it, it was a bride price for my mother, my mother worked hard to raise me, and she didn't ask for it, and now I give this money to my husband, is it a little uncomfortable for my mother.

Later, after a mental struggle, I still gave the money to my husband, but I regret it a little now because I don't have any job now, and I am at home full-time with my children, so money is a sense of security for me.

I have a certain amount of savings with me, so I don't have more worries when I spend money on my son, at least I won't be wronged by my son, but now I know how important it is to keep money around. You can help your husband, you give him spiritual encouragement, give him a hug when he is frustrated, in fact, it can be regarded as cheering him up.

Although the husband and wife should not be so raw, but one yard is one yard, you must hold the money in your own hands, if you really need to use money one day, you will experience it, and this is more or less a little principle performance problem in it.

If it's yours, you give it to him, a smart woman not only controls the economic power of the family, but also won't casually take out the money to supplement her in-laws' family, after all, just got married, everyone has a lot of financial pressure, if you can't make ends meet in advance, what if there is a very tricky thing one day.

In fact, no matter how much a woman pays for her husband, she is willing, but the attitude lies in her husband, if he doesn't ask you for this money, and says that even if you smash the pot and sell iron, it won't cost you a penny, then you will lend it to him; If he asks you clearly, you can hold the money in your hands and don't give it to him.

Listen to my story, remember that my brother and daughter-in-law were married on a blind date, and even under the pressure of my parents, it is really not an exaggeration, my brother is basically a table of talents, the height of my brother and sister is a little short, people will feel fat when they are short, and then a little dark, anyway, my brother is all kinds of unwilling, all kinds of will, finally coaxed my brother to get married, because when my brother and sister got married, my family gave you 150,000 yuan in cash, and other jewelry and clothes are not counted, fortunately, my brother and sister's parents are also reasonable, Basically, I gave it to my brother and sister as it was, so my brother and sister were much richer than me, and then my brother planned to use this money!

He wants to buy a Volkswagen popo, a car, he has always wanted one, so he wants my brother and sister to take out the money to buy him a car, because everyone is unhappy about marriage, so my brother and sister on the grounds that the money is regular, and let my parents persuade my brother to buy a car in a few years, because at that time my brother and sister really had no bottom in their hearts, so she didn't want to take out that money, it's always good to have money on you, so my brother and sister don't want to take it out, so although my brother has an opinion in his heart, but it's over, Anyway, my brother and sister kept their money!

A year later, my brother and sister gave birth to a big fat boy, my brother also served them carefully, and then the child was older, the two came out to work together, and the wages of both people were basically over 10,000, and now my brother proposed to buy a car, my brother and sister did not reply a word, and said it directly, for the question in the topic, if you are hesitant in your heart, or reluctant, or when you have no bottom in your heart, it is recommended that you can not refuse, even if you refuse, you should be tactful, because direct rejection is a bit hurtful, If you don't refuse yourself and are unsettled, then slowly, but you also have to maintain the ability to make money, you can't stop going to work because of the bride price, every day at home, I think the man doesn't want to see you like this, when you go to work to make money, the man probably won't hit your bride price money idea, if you think you can take out the money to buy a car one day, then give it!

I think it's better not to give it After all, it's better to have money in your own hands It's better to buy a car and you two or take out a loan Don't say that he doesn't want The bride price was originally given to you To be precise, it's for your family Since he gave it, don't care how you use it If you have a conflict with how to use the bride price I think you should think about it again.

Don't give. Let him out on his own. If you want to write your name about the house, you can give it!

If the bride price is in the mother-in-law, you can't ask for it, and you won't give it if you ask for it, if the mother-in-law gives the money to her daughter, it is to consider that the child has just married and has no savings, and subsidizes the family and emergency! I think if the family conditions are good, it should be used as private money, if you want to die to buy a house or a car, you should take it out, after all, the house and the car are used together, and you can't let the man bear everything, you can't bear to hold a lot of money while your husband borrows money everywhere? How can you be happy when you divide it so clearly?

At the same time, it also goes against the original intention of the parents! In short, when you get married, you have to bear it together and support each other! In this way, we can go through a lifetime of ...... together

My parents didn't ask for the bride price money given by my mother-in-law, saying that it was for me, and I took it out and spent it with my husband, and it was always difficult for the two to start living for a few years, so I felt that if I got married and guarded against each other so much, it means that your partner is not a good husband in your heart! Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and I only represent my personal opinion, and you still have to make your own decisions about everything.

Whose name is written on the car? Isn't it over asking the car to write your name? Then just let him drive! The property is still yours. If not, let him buy it himself. What's so simple about it.

Anyway, the man who takes money from his wife has no ability, and he has the ability to make money and buy a car by himself

Hello, this matter depends on you from that point of view, from the man's point of view, the bride price is simply a bad habit, symbolically give a 3-5w is good, more is excessive, of course the woman will not think so, always like to take money to measure a person's love ......Therefore, this kind of thing is absolutely justified by the public, and the mother-in-law is justified. If you can accept it yourself, hope to adopt it.

Your boyfriend wants to buy a car, and if he has enough living savings and family conditions allow, buying a car can be considered. The bride price money is given by the man's parents to both the married couple, because the couple has short working hours and does not have enough savings to cope with the new life, so some financial assistance is given. Even if the money is given to the woman's parents, they should accompany the daughter to help her live as a marriage.

You said that the bride price money is for your parents, but I don't agree with this point of view. His attitude is not as good as before, and I feel that he wants to take the bride price money and say goodbye to me. Secondly, if your boyfriend wants to buy a car, if the living savings are enough and the family conditions allow, buying a car can be considered.

I feel like you two are in business, bargaining, is there still happiness in such a marriage? If that's the case, it's not happy to get married, because you are all for the benefit of both parties in the bride price, and you are for your own benefit, unlike two people, because love is walking together, but making a deal!

I think that whether it is a bride price or a dowry, it should be decided by two people or two families, and the actual situation of the family must be comprehensively considered.

If it is a wealthy family, it does not matter if the bride price is more, if it is an ordinary family, the bride price should also be appropriately less, and the same is true for the dowry. This is especially true of RVs, which are not the responsibility of one of the parties, and if you have the ability, you can buy them first, and you feel that you don't need them too much now, or the economy is not so rich, and you can postpone the negotiation.

With all due respect, you are so concerned about the gains and losses of the bride price, dowry, car, and house, and you probably don't have any feelings at all, and they are not so reasonable, so it's better to break up early. You guys don't fit.

The marriage between men and women is really wonderful, not just waiting for the rabbit, men and women love, just the beginning of fate, maybe you are like-minded with each other, the three views of the same thought, this is just a good feeling, to find a boyfriend and girlfriend, talk about marriage, objective facts are very important, such as: temperament and talent, treat people and things, work ability, personality and attitude, economic foundation, living conditions, self-motivation, family concept, filial piety to elders, the right family, whether the two families agree, are the key, all have to be thoughtful, so, first of all, it is very important to be yourself, as for whether you can find a boyfriend and girlfriend, everything is providential, after all, marriage is not child's play, you must think twice.

If he really loves you, he will think about it for you, and he will not spend this money, he wants this money to buy a car, but he just wants to spend the bride price at his house, he still doesn't care much about you in his heart, remember that this money can not be given, let him once he will become even worse.

What's the use of caring about boys like this, your marriage has become a transaction, bargaining with each other, making people wonder if there is still a relationship between you? And it can be seen that the boy's family is either not rich, or too angry, and it doesn't matter if he doesn't buy a house, the bride price is 300,000 to 200,000, and he has to buy a car for 50,000 yuan, which is a bit of a feeling. It's not worth entrusting for life.

This situation should be resolved through negotiation between men and women, because after all, the bride price money is given by the man to the woman's parents, and if the man blindly asks the woman for this money to buy a car, there may be a conflict, so it is still necessary to discuss it with the woman, if the woman does not agree, she can not be unreasonable!

In our place, the bride price is the joint property of the husband and wife after the marriage, and the mother's family will not spend a penny.

I don't think I'm happy in this kind of marriage. Marrying a daughter-in-law, paying a husband, and bargaining, what is the difference between this and buying vegetables in the vegetable market. It's better not to take marriage as a child's play.

Since it is a bride price for the woman, the right to use the bride price should be in the woman, that is, to use the bride price to buy a car, the initiative should also be in the woman.

The boyfriend asks his girlfriend for money to buy a car, there is no reason, he is not calling the woman, this money must not be given, if you love her, you will not do it, you have to think about her, it means that you have no fate. Well, goodbye,

Isn't the bride price money for the woman's parents? How can some people say that the man's parents gave it to the younger couple? For the woman's parents, it is up to them to decide whether to give it or not, some men really have a good calculation, give the bride price, and have to bring it back, and the woman has to marry, empty gloves white wolf, marry you and have to stick you upside down?

Housework to serve in-laws to give birth to children, is it sick to marry such a man? A man will not marry such a man even if he dies.

Marriage was originally two people, and the two families were the happiest, the happiest time, but the notification of the coming and going of the bride price is very unhappy, if the two people have a good relationship, it doesn't matter if there is a bride price? But sometimes it's really annoying, the two parties can't talk about it, and there is no specific plan, for the matter of marriage, take your time!