It s obvious that she s wrong, but why is it always me who gets hurt

I once almost broke up with my sister.

I think it's not a problem, if she is a straightforward person, if you do something wrong, you can change it, people are always like this, Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer.

Learning to tolerate can last a long time, but in principle, the problem is unbearable, you have to learn to tell her. If she does something wrong, you can also tell her gently, if you tell her gently, she will still be angry, I don't believe it.

How difficult it is for a person to have a confidant sister. Don't worry too much about it, and you will be happy.

It seems that there is no change in the absence of me around her, and there are still friends, but I will become very lost, and I always feel lonely and pitiful, yes, I felt so when I was in a cold war with that sister, but, when I think about it, she is my sister, we want our sisters to be happy, don't we? Maybe she doesn't care about you, but she just doesn't want to show her weakness in front of outsiders, so she still smiles.

Believe in your sisters, what brought you together? How happy we used to be when we used to laugh together. If you think about it, why bother so much? Nothing can really break off between sisters.

Some time ago, I met my sisters, life was chaotic, and some classmates, no matter how close they were, still felt lonely. When I met my sister, it was as if I had met God.

Sisters? What an important word? I am now reconciled with my sister, I am very happy, and I cherish this relationship very much.

Everyone always has some small shortcomings, so may I ask you, would you like to help your sisters name and get rid of these bad little shortcomings? Fool!

It's not a type of person, right, when you've seen enough in the future, you can see that you're not the only one in your eyes, you have to think from your heart, you're more than me, it's my sisters, I'm a sister, I'm panicked = = .All evil Pisces + blood type B wow! I want to cry t t

Because you haven't learned to let go yet, there will be a lot of injuries in the future.

Have you ever been hurt by a word for a long time? In fact, there are many aspects to this question.

First of all, you've been hurt. Everyone must have the experience of not being understood and being hurt.

Secondly, a word will hurt you. You are very sensitive and care about what others think, so a simple sentence can make you linger.

Finally, the damage done is continuous. This hides a sense of powerlessness and unforgiveness for that person. It was the man who made you miserable for so long, and he made you stop being brave and become timid. It was he who made you no longer believe in the existence of love and dare not simply give.

But what you see is the real one? Some people experience the same "misfortune" but can quickly come out and become braver and stronger. With the same injury, why do some people become braver and others more vulnerable?

It wasn't the person who said that sentence that hurt you, but the unbraveness that was powerless to protect yourself at that time.

Same "damage", different power.

People have three choices when faced with suffering: fight or flight, which correspond to two primordial energies: yin and yang. When you are hurt, choose how to deal with the power that determines the "damage" of the Qing Sun.

Those who choose to flee are using the contraction of negative energy to allow others to "behave" in your world and surrender their own interests. Those who choose to fight are using the expanded masculine energy, they are determined to protect their interests, and they respect and support their feelings.

The reason why we feel hurt in some situations is because of a conflict of beliefs with that person. You have a disagreement, and he expresses it so firmly, that it makes you doubt your beliefs and choices.

The more you believe his views, the more you doubt yourself. You allow thoughts that do not belong to you to exist in your spiritual world and endure the pain of facing it for long periods of time. You can also make different choices and merge the contradictions, or the reputation chain holder retains his or her own opinion.

Your inability to understand his point of view will lead to pain, and how you deal with it determines the duration and destructiveness of this injury.

In short, you have to stand firmly behind yourself and express yourself.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

I sincerely wish you to find true love.

Have a nice day! Thank you o(o