My girlfriend and someone else are married, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-09
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's very simple, asking her to divorce and marry you won't be over

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's face it, I suggest you listen to a song called If Love Forgot.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You find a new woman and her off.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She is very selfish, she doesn't consider your feelings, she always comes to your house after getting married, first of all, she is sorry for her legal husband by doing this, and secondly, it is unfair to you, I can only say that such a woman is shameless.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People who love each other are not necessarily suitable for marriage, and don't ruin someone else's marriage, even if you love each other. It was her choice to get married, and she must have a choice.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why do you want to marry someone else when you love you so much? Why not stick with you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you really love him, you should have done something long ago before he got married. Since there is none, it is destined, far away from her, bless each other, not all people who love each other can be together. There are many ways to love, for example, to help her forget about you and live well.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When your girlfriend has a baby, your relationship is over.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You love each other, why would she marry someone else.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Stupid you, you go over with a hoe now, and say to the man, "Brother, I just want to see if you hit the wall or my hoe is hard......."”

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This kind of marriage doesn't take long for you to still come together and still keep loving the same!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First, I would like to express my understanding and sympathy for the pain and confusion you may be experiencing. Knowing that your girlfriend is going to marry someone else is a very painful experience and a big blow to people.

    In this case, the following imitations are some suggestions that I hope will help you face this difficulty:

    1.Accept reality and adjust your emotions: Although it may be difficult to accept this fact, you need to acknowledge and accept that she has made such a decision. Try to stabilize yourself emotionally and not be overly sad or angry so that you can handle the issue better.

    2.Share with others: If you feel the need, share your feelings with a close friend or family member. Let them support you and help you through this.

    3.Give yourself time and space: You need time to accept the change and adjust your emotions. Give yourself some space to be able to deal with this emotional challenge.

    4.Focus on your health and well-being: At this time, don't forget to take care of your health and well-being. Maintain a healthy diet and exercise habits, and seek psychological help (such as counseling or **) if needed.

    5.Think about the future: While it may feel difficult now, you will eventually need to look forward and look for new opportunities and possibilities. It may be necessary to find new directions and goals in terms of personal development, interests, friends, community activities, etc.

    Finally, remember that everyone's life and decisions are independent of others. As much as you may feel pain and loss, you need to respect her decision and find your own happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, your mood is very complicated now, since she is going to marry someone else, you shouldn't think about it anymore, since it has happened, you should accept such a result, don't think too much, and don't blame anyone, because you can't change this fact, since she chooses to get married, then you can bless her, I hope she can be happy in the future, I hope you can find your own happiness! Happy to you! Come on!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hey, sad urging, the most difficult thing to understand this year is the relationship between men and women, I don't know if she is willing to get married, but, no matter what, others are already married, whether to get a certificate or not is one thing, since she already has the bondage of marriage, you shouldn't come to disturb your life anymore, so it's good for everyone. I also wish you to find your significant other soon.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you want to have a partner, refuse her, if you don't have an object, she sent it to the door, don't do it in vain, it's her own fault when she is discovered, haha.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Do what you want, and think about whether it will hurt other people.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Wait for her to come back to you after she is divorced, you can also consider it.

    With a married woman? You have a clear head.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ignore it decisively, or you will be tragic!!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course don't be with her! It will only hurt your feelings! No.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The fickle woman can't have it. Will regret it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Did your girlfriend get married? Didn't she tell you before?

    Since you have chosen her, you have to ask yourself first, do you mind whether she has a history of marriage or love, if you mind that she has a history of marriage, I think you should consider this issue from a different angle, a woman who can get married is at least someone who has experienced marriage, there are too many men and women living together now, but many people can marry another person under the premise of living together, and your she is just one more promise, and she doesn't tell you, subconsciously I am still afraid that you will feel uncomfortable, leave her. As for her parents, the elderly are more conservative in their thinking, and they attach great importance to these formalisms (of course, they may also include your parents), and I believe that you will talk about marriage with her, and it is also after very careful consideration, including being very trusting of her person, etc., and the most important thing is that you really love each other. Marriage is a matter between two people, maybe you will be very angry and feel cheated because she doesn't confess beforehand, but just because of this negates everything between you, do you think it's worth it?

    Will you find a better fit for you than her? This judgment can only be decided by yourself, to feel. I can only say that if it were me, I would accept her (a man who has loved and promised), and work hard with her to do the ideological work of my parents, to be a good husband in later life, and she will be a good wife and daughter-in-law

    I sincerely wish that a lover will eventually become a family.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Since it's your girlfriend, then she has nothing to do with you before, don't think about it so much

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you really love her, it really doesn't matter if you are married or not, and divorce in this era is not a stain at all. Of course, this is the general direction.

    In fact, what needs to be confirmed is: did your girlfriend deliberately hide the fact that she was married? If it is deliberately concealed, it is necessary to see what is the reason for concealment?

    Are there any troublesome legacy issues from this previous marriage? The most important thing is that you confirm how she feels about you?

    Being married is not a big deal in itself, it's important to understand what's going on behind it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on how you have a relationship, and your parents' attitude. To be honest, I'm not optimistic about your future emotional path. Because this society always pays attention to the right person, and it is getting more and more powerful.

    Divorced, generally looking for the same divorced, it is difficult to find someone who has not been married, because it gives people the feeling that the conditions are not matched, not worthy, if they are really together, neighbors, friends and relatives will gossip, and will murmur behind their backs for a long time. There is a family upstairs in the house where I live, a man who graduated from college and found a divorced woman, and everyone persuaded him or laughed at him, and finally he couldn't help but get into a fight with a person who laughed at him and quit his job, and now he is in business on his own. It seems that a divorced man looking for an unmarried woman can be accepted by everyone, but an unmarried man looking for a divorced woman is not in line with everyone's values, and it is difficult for everyone to accept.

    Unless you really like your girlfriend, people are terrible, can you accept ridicule and talk for a day or two, and can you hold up for months or even years? Of course, a divorced woman cherishes marriage very much, she knows the importance of marriage, and she also knows that happiness is not easy to come by, as long as you can be good to her, she will cherish you and take care of you, and you will live very comfortably. How to choose, it still depends on your true inner thoughts and the attitude of your family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Do you mind? Why mind? Adjust your mindset. It's this person you like.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you really like him, don't worry about that.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hehe! 1. First of all, your parents should come forward and talk to her parents, explaining that the child has been together for two years and is not married. It doesn't matter if we boys don't get married, but if we don't get married quickly, we will have a bad reputation for girls, and others will gossip.

    It also has an impact on the reputation of your adults (the parents of the children's room).

    Most people care about face, so when the woman's parents hear such words, they will generally agree.

    2. At the same time, you can also persuade your girlfriend like this:

    a, we have been together for two years, if you are not married, others will gossip about you, it doesn't matter if I am a man, you are a girl, I think it is not good for you. So, I think we should get married as soon as possible, I really love you and want to become a real couple with you as soon as possible. In that case, it will be easier for me to take care of you.

    b. I know that you are thinking about your eldest brother, but if the eldest brother does not get married for a long time, will it be difficult for us to wait for it? Besides, if you don't get married because your eldest brother is not married, you are actually adding pressure to your eldest brother. Because he is not married now, he has not found a suitable one, if he is not comfortable because of you, he may find a random one to marry.

    Do you think you're hurting your big brother like this?

    3. In the third step, you have the opportunity to talk to her eldest brother, and you say: Eldest brother, I want to marry xx, but she said that if you don't get married, she won't get married. I think she actually wants to get married, and it's because you don't get married that she can't talk about getting married.

    I don't think it's good for all three of us, so I'd like to ask my eldest brother to help me persuade her.

    The above steps are implemented comprehensively, not once, but several more times. I think it will work.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Now**There is still such a concept, the big one can't get married if the small one can't get married? Nowadays, most of them are not barley and wheat are ripe first. Otherwise, you can find out his brother's tone privately, or ask his parents to discuss it.

    Now many boyfriends and girlfriends are living together too early, like you said, you have been living together for two years, to be honest, living together for too long and not getting married, it is not a good thing, besides, if you get married first, you can put pressure on his brother and stimulate his motivation at the same time. Let him be a spur both emotionally and professionally.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The girl is too young, so be considerate, I'm also 89, don't worry, it's still early! Besides, now that I'm married, I don't have a certificate, and I still can't prove anything! Wait.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When you get married, you have to think about why you got married and why she didn't get married.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Marriage ProposalMarriage ProposalMarriage ProposalHahaBe romantic.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    What should I do, how should I face her, how should I live, the person I love is with others, as a man. Such a woman, a man with backbone, should not want, should not even think about it, even if you don't get married, you can't want such a woman.

    I say I love you, but I don't know how many people there are behind it, maybe.

    The one you love is married, whether she is happy or not, this is already her choice, if she knows that you still love her so much, it will become a burden to her. Love her, just let it go, she already has her life, and it's time for you to find your own life.

    She is married to someone else, which shows that she also loves someone else! It's just an excuse for you! Why should you wait? Doesn't loving her mean hoping that she will be lucky.

    I tried. Tears blessed him, but I never let him see the tears, ** in which he suddenly told me that he was getting married, but the bride was not me. As a result, I blessed him with tears, and my classmates blessed you, and I blessed you with the blessing that you finally found your love better than me.

    I hope you grow old happily. That's it. I have no contact with him.

    Now that I think about it, although my heart still hurts, after all, I accept the reality and people don't choose.

    Maybe there will be a little sour in my heart, but since everyone is already married, I can only bless him.

    Bless them, I have met them, but I sincerely bless them, as long as he is happy, it is enough.

    I guess I felt a little sad at first. But think about it again, it's a thing of the past. You will feel that the memories of the past are beautiful.

    If you still love her.

    You should bless her, maybe she has it too. But you're getting married, what else can you do, what else can you do but bless you? If you can fight for her, you won't wait until she wants to get married, and if she can wait for you, you won't be in tears.

    You suddenly wonder: what will our children be like in the future.

    To like someone is to want everyone to be happy.

    Loving someone hopes that he will be happier.

    Like someone, all you want is today.

    Love one. That's a tough question. For the future of the child and the happiness of his girlfriend. You.

    Sometimes people who love each other may not come together, after all, there are a lot of objective factors that are still hindering you, if you really love each other, then give him a life that is more suitable for him, but you have to get out of this relationship as soon as possible, after all, he is now a wife, everything between you has become a good memory, should be placed in the depths of memory, what you should do now is to create your own beauty.

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