Why。。。。。 Always pretend to be strong... I m really going to get tired

You can release it once in a while, it's not good to hold it all the time, but you have to choose a good time to release it, you can cry out loud when no one is around, and you can shout out all your grievances, but after you release it, you have to put it away and continue to live strongly, no matter what, life will always go on.

Pretending to be strong will definitely be tiring, and you will have to adjust yourself and change your opinion.

Pretend to be strong, or maybe you're just used to being strong. In fact, you are really strong, just tired. Want someone to talk to ......It's okay, just rest.

There is no reason, you can only continue to pretend, don't crave someone who can understand you, someone who can let you let go of all pretenses.

In order not to be looked down upon by others, no matter how hard it is, you must persevere. Of course, being strong is for outsiders, and if you are someone you trust, there is no need to pretend to be your true self.

I feel that you are the same as me, pretending to be strong on the surface, and I bear it silently by myself.

I've also been using strength to disguise myself.

Me too, I'm very tired, I don't like to laugh but I have to laugh more than anyone else in front of others, I want to cry, but I 、、、

Sometimes you need to vent.

It is you who refuse to hurt. It's easier to get hurt that way.

It's really tiring to go on like this, there's no need to do this, find someone you trust to confide in your psychology. Sometimes, it's better to learn to let go, so that in the end it won't be perfect.

There will always be a day when people are tired, tear off the mask and be your true self again.

Actually, I'm tired.

Just pretending to be strong, the smile that I forcibly squeezed out, covered up all the sadness, seemed to be able to talk freely with everyone, and when it came to laughing intoxicatingly, but I could only look haggard and cry secretly in the dead of night, I don't know if I was so well disguised, so good that no one could see through my vulnerability.

I always thought that time could forget everything, and then I realized that some memories of the key spine could not be erased even if I had worked hard, and sometimes, I wanted someone to understand me, and those stories were treated as jokes again and again, and that little hope was wiped out again and again in the embryonic stage of the manuscript. Gradually, I began to fall silent, accustomed to being alone in front of everything, quietly looking at the shadows and smirking, living the last thing I wanted to see.

In fact, I am very tired, and I have to take a step again, when the miss becomes nostalgia, the past has become the key to know yesterday, even if I have the heart to stay, I also know that I should not wait, growth is a bitter and long journey, there is always a section of the road that needs to be walked alone, there are always many things that can only be carried by one person!

I don't think it's necessary, we live in this complex and irritable society, and we will inevitably have such and such troubles and exhaustion, and this may be life!! So we should think about it, how can we be happy if there are no troubles??? It's just that when you are worried, you must learn to self-regulate and learn to release your boredom and tired emotions!!

It is recommended that you go out for a trip and change to a new environment, which is easy to let yourself jump out of the original environment and circle, easy to release your mind, easy to open your mind, and naturally calm down when thinking about problems;

2. Find good friends to get together, drink and chat, and vent your depressed mood through alcohol, which is also a way of catharsis;

3. Find an exercise to do and persist for a period of time, so that your heart can temporarily forget everything, immerse yourself in sports, and divert your attention, so that it is easier for you to see your own situation more clearly and make correct judgments;

4. Of course, you can also find someone who no one shouts loudly, which may also release your mood;

Of course, everyone's situation is different, and I hope you can find a good adjustment method according to your own situation!!

Happy ending!!

It is natural that you can feel tired is the person closest to you, there is no need to pretend in front of them, otherwise it is easy to have a gap after a long time, talk to each other well, talk about your thoughts, and also talk about why you are tired, you can live every day when you are in a good mood, don't pretend for your own happy life.

Pretend that this is going to be divided in front of whom, in front of lovers, there is no need to pretend, the heart must be honest, if you encounter setbacks, you can bear it together, if you pretend to be strong yourself, what you said upstairs is right, very tired.

In front of outsiders, when necessary, pretend; If you are a close friend, you can also confide in you.

If you want to be strong in the face of difficulties, the way is not to "endure" tears, but that your heart can really withstand it! If you are really strong, then you will not shed tears in the face of difficulties, instead of using your strength to "endure" tears.

You are not strong enough in character because you have experienced too little, you have taken on too little, and you have had too much smooth sailing. Our generation of only children, parents spoil too much, help us bear too much, help us block too many difficulties, when difficulties come, we will always hide behind them, watch them solve, watch them bear. And when they grow old, and we have to bear many things ourselves, we are used to being afraid.

No one is born strong, and strong people only know how to bear it after going through a lot. To be strong, you have to know how to go through it. When misfortune and pain do strike, it hurts once; The second time, maybe you'll be a little better; The third time, maybe you've learned to comfort yourself; Fourth, maybe you're starting to calm down......One day, when misfortune returns, you stop crying, but think calmly, smile and comfort those who are suffering as you!

Recently, I suddenly wanted to relive a feeling --- crying. Don't get me wrong, it's not that I can't think about anything anymore, but I really just want to re-experience the feeling of being away for a long time. Maybe it's weird, what's so strange about crying?

Everyone says that crying is the most cowardly expression, why should I experience that feeling? It's because of this kind of thinking that some man has tears and doesn't flick it, I haven't really cried for about 10 years, it's true. The last time I cried was probably before I was in elementary school, but now I'm a sophomore in high school.

In fact, I have been proud of myself for so many years, and I feel that I am really a man, a strong man. But when I think about it lately, I feel a little sad. The joys, sorrows, sorrows, crying, laughing, and scolding of life are all a kind of taste, and no one is perfect without it, in this sense, there are very few perfect lives now.

Recently, my 5-year-old brother often comes to my house to play, looking at him really envious in my heart, children are so good, play when they want, eat when they want, and the most important thing is to cry when they want to cry, don't pay attention to other people's feelings, don't worry about other people's ridicule, because crying is a child's "patent". Everyone is human, why is crying a child's patent? Why?

Because strong. Adults are always naïve to think that they are strong, so they don't cry. Strong, the word seems to have been distorted, limited to the level of language, I won't explain much about its meaning, I just want to say, people who don't cry are strong?

Or don't strong people cry? In fact, there is nothing wrong with crying, it is good for physical and mental health. In fact, no one never wants to cry, but some people who are swayed by incorrect thoughts.

I'll admit that I can't cry whenever I want, and I haven't even cried yet, but I have to try to do it, cry. Pretend to be strong, don't bear it when you're sad, find a place to cry and try, you'll love it.

People must be strong, pretending to be because they must.

I don't want others to see my vulnerability.

."People think that you are doing well outside, but in fact, your teeth are falling out of your stomach, and only you know the bitterness. "

Many people are very good in the eyes of others, but they are actually very embarrassed, always thinking about putting up with it, and it will be better if they boil it again, and it is very likely that they will survive for a lifetime.

Who do you want to tell it to HeheheheHeHehe For people who don't care about you, he won't care what you say.