What is your first move when your boyfriend is about to break up with you

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Send your hand away and avoid all contact with him.

    Physical contact, eye contact, and brisk walking. Leave the scene. Don't let him see his most embarrassed appearance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My boyfriend was going to break up with me, and my first action was to say, "Okay, I agree".

    I resolutely don't beg, cry or whatever, it's too painful to be together, and sometimes the man doesn't want to be separated and wants to scare him, trying to test whether he cares. In this way, I feel even more bored, not honest at all, usually it is tiring enough to deal with others at work, and I have to come back and forth to guess your thoughts, so you don't want to share it I still want to share. In short, I resolutely agreed to break up.

    People are cheap, stalking will not only not keep love, but also make men more disgusted, sometimes they agree happily, but the person who broke up will take the initiative to come back.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The first action is to provoke trouble and give him a reason to break up with you.

    It could also be deliberately ignoring you, implying that you've faded.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The first action is to speak, to say, "Okay, I agree!" The second action is to work like crazy and forget about everything!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe she thinks you're really good, but she just treats you like a brother?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I said, "Okay, I'd love to share with you anyway, so let's go our separate ways sooner, and we won't owe each other anything in the future." ”

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Gradually, I don't contact you, and I talk to you more and more coldly!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Always say that I am busy, and try to find excuses not to contact you. Don't ask about and care about all your actions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The god is mysterious, he doesn't bring a mobile phone on a date, and he doesn't care about people.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    One look back is enough to make him uncomfortable for a few years.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Many girls' first reaction after being mentioned to break up should be to cry and be sad, crying like a river of tears, crying silently, and grabbing the man's collar and asking him why, is she not good enough? Or she can't satisfy him, can't give her everything she wants, or because he met a better woman than her, he fell in love with a wild horse, but there was no grassland at home.

    If a girl loves a boy very much, then it must be very painful for the boy to break up. The first reaction is that I can't accept the reality and is unwilling to break up. So I would ask my boyfriend, what did I do wrong, why did I break up?

    Am I not pretty enough? Still not gentle enough? Or do you fall in love with someone else?

    These must be asked.

    However, if your boyfriend is really going to break up, no matter what efforts you make, you can't win back his heart. But I will not fall because of this, I know that the twisted melon is not sweet, let him go. When my boyfriend proposes to break up, it means that he doesn't love me anymore, and when love doesn't exist anymore, there's no point in continuing to pester him, and it's definitely painful to fall out of love.

    Maybe I'll quit my job and go to another city to develop and forget the place where I was sad, maybe I'll go out on a trip to relax, anyway, I'll be strong, and I'll turn my pain into motivation. Focus all your energy on work and study to numb yourself. Don't think about the hurt my boyfriend has done me.

    I believe that time will slowly fade everything. Time is the best way to heal.

    In the current situation of serious imbalance between men and women, are you still worried about not finding a boyfriend? Maybe I'll start my next relationship soon, and maybe my new boyfriend will be better than my ex. Believe that you are the best.

    It was his loss that my boyfriend and I brought it up to break up. One day I found a better and more handsome boyfriend than him. This is the first reaction of girls after breaking up, sadness is certain, but they also have the courage to face a new life, a new life and a new person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The first reaction is that I can't react, I don't know why, and then I wonder if I've done something wrong. Then I will feel very sad and lost, I will always be obsessed with the reason for the breakup, and then I will desperately try to redeem the other party.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The first reaction is to think it's a joke, to be incredulous, and to try to understand what the reason behind this is. was furious, cried bitterly, moved directly, and tried his best to keep it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My first reaction would definitely be why I wanted to break up with me, and I would ask what the situation was, and I would definitely get to the bottom of it before breaking up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My first reaction was that my boyfriend might have changed his mind, maybe he already had a new love, so he proposed to break up with me.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If my boyfriend mentions breaking up with me, my first reaction must be very surprised, because my boyfriend and I mention breaking up, which is really something I can't think of. But in any case, I was surprised and angry. It can be very confusing.

    Good love, how to say that you break up and break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The first reaction was to find it incomprehensible.

    Because girls are in a more serious state when they fall in love with their boyfriends, if their boyfriends suddenly propose to break up with them, they may not be able to accept it.

    There must be a reason for proposing to break up, and you still have to self-reflect, and you still have to work hard to get back the feelings you care about.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Why, am I doing something wrong?

    Reflect on why you broke up and see if there is a chance to get back together.

    Whatever is the case, we should all identify whether it is good or bad, what is the reason for the breakup, and everything has its real reasons behind it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When my boyfriend proposed to break up, my first reaction was that the world was spinning, and I didn't know what was going on, and I felt that he mentioned the breakup when he was dreaming, so it must be difficult to accept for a while.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After my boyfriend proposed to break up with me, I was surprised, and I didn't react for a while, thinking that all this might be a dream, but when I woke up, I decided to break up with him, and you don't need to continue to like someone who doesn't love you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My first reaction would have been shock, and my heart would have dropped a beat at that moment, but I would soon calm down, and then ask him why, if he insisted on breaking up, and if he was resolute, I didn't think it would be useful to redeem it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If my boyfriend and I propose to break up, my first reaction is particularly surprised, mainly because I don't know why my boyfriend broke up with me. When I figured out why I broke up, I wasn't so surprised.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    My reaction was, break up, what's the big deal, losing me is his loss, and he is not worth my effort, and I am confident that I can find someone better than him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The girl's first reaction is of course to be particularly surprised, because the relationship between the two people is usually very good, so breaking up like this will surprise the girl.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The first reaction was: Am I doing something wrong?

    will think that he has done something wrong and cause his boyfriend to break up, and then ask him the reason why he doesn't want to be broken up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In love, I think both parties can have different opinions and even allow quarrels, but my bottom line is (I'm a girl) you can't hit a girl, this is a man's posture and gentleman.

    The first time your boyfriend does it to you, will you break up? Here you have to know the reason, why did he start hitting you? Is it your vexatious mess that touches his bottom line or something else.

    If my boyfriend hits me, I may not be able to break up with him right away, it doesn't mean I'm cowardly, it's just that I care about the relationship and I don't want to spend time and energy to start a relationship again. I might give him a look and leave him to cool down for a while.

    Secondly, if he comes to apologize to me or explain why he hit me during the cool-down period, I will make a choice whether I can really forgive him or choose to leave him. It's not a question of forgiveness or not, it's a question of whether this boyfriend still wants it, it's obvious that the two of you don't have compatible personalities, and it's better to break up as soon as possible.

    If you hit someone first, and they beat you again, you can be forgiven, after all, you did it first. If you are like a shrew, endlessly insulting, arousing the anger of the other party, so that he can't control himself and hits you impulsively, this is also forgivable, because you are also very responsible for this conflict.

    If it's just an ordinary argument, a quarrel, and he hits you in a fit of rage, this kind of unforgiveness is not worth forgiving, even if he kneels on the ground and begs you, don't forgive. Because there is a first time and a second time, even if it is forbearance until marriage, violence may break out again, unless you will be with him for the rest of your life and be a man with your tail between your legs, ask yourself, are you willing to wronged yourself like this? For the so-called love?

    Then let me tell you, true love will not do it, because it is reluctant.

    It's best if your partner is suitable, and the so-called love is all because it's suitable and beautiful to love each other better, isn't it? Here I want to reveal that my boyfriend and I have been in love for five years, and he has never yelled at me, let alone hit me. I hope everyone can be treated gently!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Yes, the action already shows that he has violent tendencies, this kind of boy is extremely unstable, and there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence. We must have zero tolerance and zero tolerance in the face of this kind of thing. In the face of this situation, you must rationally propose to break up and protect yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's going to break up.,I'm not married yet.,It's going to be done to me.,It's going to be more serious after getting married.,When you meet such a boy.,You should break up immediately.。

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I will, because a man who even beats a woman will definitely not be good to you in the future, so I will definitely choose to break up with him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Absolutely. Because such men have a tendency to domestic violence, we must protect ourselves and stay away from such scumbags.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I will break up immediately, because there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, and after he has the first time, he will continue to beat me in the future, so I want to break up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I will choose to break up, because there is only the first and countless times of domestic violence, so breaking up is the best way.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Speaking of which, it's really time to complain about the men.

    Sometimes I wonder if he really has a problem with his IQ, or if he has a blister in his head.

    Scenario 1: Scenario 2:

    Last night, he promised me to go out with me today, but I was dressed beautifully and waited to go out together, and called me ** to tell me that his friend was here, and he wanted to accompany his friend, and said that he would go out together another day. Oh my God, I'm not as important as a friend of yours in the end, am I? Although the plan can't catch up with the changes, but we said that together, they didn't come alone, and it wasn't that no one was with them, but I only had you.

    Then why do I always choose you in the same situation, but what about you? The heart is not cold.

    I was given a pair of rings on my birthday, but after a while I asked him where the ring was, and he said that he didn't know where it went, it seemed that he had lost it, and he couldn't find it anyway. Big brother, that's something that belongs to the two of us, so how can you be so indifferent? Others can be lost, others can not be cared about, not cared about, but this is commemorative.

    Besides, who can lose what they think is important? Then I didn't realize that I was wrong, and said that next time I was buying one, you would simply change me.

    So, men, think more empathetically, don't just think from your own point of view, love is for each other.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for more than a year, because we are in a long-distance relationship, and the love between us is much more difficult than ordinary people, but our relationship is really good, our normal life is still like other lovers, we will also be scorched, I sometimes lose my temper, but I never thought of breaking up with him. Until the last time, I felt like I was really tired.

    I was preparing for my final exam in those days, I was really busy, and the contact between us was only at a fixed time, a long-distance relationship was such that the two of them had enough space, I didn't know what he was busy with recently, I was preparing for my last English exam, he called me **, told me that he was going abroad, my head was hit at the time, I was shocked, but he told me that he was just going abroad to study, but it still disrupted my plans, I thought I would go to him after the exam, We went out on a trip and walked around, and he told me out of the blue, and he really caught me off guard. I was really angry, he really did this every time, he never discussed things with me, he just came to inform me, but I was really disappointed in him.

    I think a guy is a girl, you have to give him enough respect, if you don't even discuss what you're doing with your girlfriend, I'm really angry, and I'm super disappointed in him, I didn't say anything like breaking up at the time, but I'm still very angry and hung up**, I think I just didn't put my girlfriend in my eyes at all, I had the idea of wanting to break up with him, but then I thought about it and felt that it was a good thing for him to go abroad, I don't have any reason to blame him, so I'll just forget it. Actually, I really love him too much, and I can tolerate a lot of things from him, but he is also really good to me.

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