Losing dreams for the future and losing goals in life

Oh friend, the conflict between ideals and reality. You and I are in a similar situation, the difference is that you are still making choices, but in the face of ideals, I have already been defeated.

Through your narrative, you can understand the contradictions and anguish in your heart now, on the one hand, the situation at home is not very optimistic. On the other hand, it is difficult to give up the photography career that I love. And now you lack a fulcrum that will allow you to continue to pursue your ideals.

How you choose is up to you. Hehe, it's like saying it and not saying it.

Maybe I am a few years older than you, and I have two suggestions: First, in terms of the current situation, it is better to solve the situation at home first, as a friend on the third floor said, as a man, it is incumbent on you to take responsibility for the family. Second, when you reach a certain height, or when your heart is strong enough, you can regain your ideals, and at that time, you may find that the hardships you have experienced in reality will help you to go on more firmly.

I hope you get out of this situation soon.

If you can't be a professional, can you be an amateur??? You can't work all week, right???

I don't even have a good camera to take pictures.

Dreams and reality are like that.

Do you know bayberry?

The flesh of bayberry is hot.

However, the core of bayberry is cool.

If you just eat it, you will get angry if you eat too much.

If you don't want to get on fire, you can swallow the kernel after tasting the pulp.

Life is like this, not only to have dreams, but also to have reality.

Both are to be accepted.

For a man, the important thing is to shoulder the responsibility, since he knows the importance of his mother, then do the things in front of him, and when the economic pressure is eased, he has the funds to think again, and it is difficult to say whether it is a blessing or a curse.

Not having a clear goal for the future should be a problem that many young people encounter, and I have seen a lot of it on this platform.

Although we have been in school for a few years, we have mastered a lot of knowledge through various disciplines, and even have some knowledge of life planning, but after all, life planning is a very difficult thing, so the problem of the collapse of this world will be in front of many people.

This question can be very easy, I want to be a scientist, I want to be an engineer, I want to be a pilot......However, this kind of "want to lose" is generally not based on a clear understanding of oneself and a grasp of the actual conditions, so it is of little value. Planning requires self-awareness and control of reality. That's partly by chance, and it's elusive.

Many people start from interest, but without the support of talent, interest will not go far.

Life can be without goals, but it can't be without feelings. Since you are a human being, since you have feelings, you must feel the position of life, rather than giving up your feelings for what you are striving for.

People have seven emotions and six desires, so they will have many different feelings. Your current low mood is also a feeling in itself, a feeling that should not last but will definitely appear. And the appearance of such feelings is often caused by the surrounding environment, often because of more frustration.

People tend to feel unhappy when they encounter setbacks, feel lonely in arguments, feel left out while not being in the same way as others, and feel small when they are ignored by their leaders, all of which can lead to a person's low mood.

In fact, the universe has always been changing, and human beings have always been accompanied by birth, old age, sickness and death, and everything in this can only be adapted and adjusted by ourselves. When it comes to adjustment, there is no more effective way than to face the true embodiment of that life yourself. No matter what kind of problems you encounter, no matter what time and environment you encounter them, peace of mind and optimism will often reduce your pain, and if you can continue to maintain this state of mind and emotion for a longer period of time, your low mood and feeling of the walking dead are likely to be reduced or even eliminated completely.

Adjust well and wait for your chance.

You have to think about it, child, that you are not living for yourself, that many people need you.

That's easy, since the goal that I've been working hard for before is gone-whether it's a failure or what--then live a relaxed life for a while, to find a new goal to strive for-At this time, the mentality should be worry-free, worry-free, although the road ahead is unknown, but I have been moving forward, no matter where the road leads, where the goal is, but I will learn everything I can touch like a whale swallowing the sea, and lay a solid foundation for the unknown future. Be active, work hard, find some work, and play at the same time, life is like this.

Summary: When you think you don't have a goal, in fact, your new goal is to work hard and actively learn and absorb new things and knowledge, and find your so-called new goal in the process!

Accept that you are in your current state and maybe you need to take a break