Confusion and helplessness about the future Losing the purpose of life

Go to church and ask the pastor to pray for you, may God lead you on the road ahead.

There is wisdom without wisdom and regret even if you succeed.

There is treasure without affection, and even pleasure is boring.

There is beauty but no virtue Even love can be broken.

There is life without effort, and even youth is a waste.

The wisdom of life.

It is about learning to be humble and fear God.

Recognize the dignity of life.

The wisdom of life.

It's about the right thing you choose.

Please God.

The greatest wisdom in life.

In fact, after doing it for so long, it seems that your mind is not open. I've been doing it for so long, I should be considered a medium mechanic, and I can go up. Or work with others to start a small company. As long as the craftsmanship is good, are you afraid that you won't make any money? Welcome to the exchange.

Not having a clear goal for the future should be a problem that many young people encounter, and I have seen a lot of it on this platform.

Although we have been in school for a few years, we have mastered a lot of knowledge through various disciplines, and even have some knowledge of life planning, but after all, life planning is a very difficult thing, so the problem of the collapse of this world will be in front of many people.

This question can be very easy, I want to be a scientist, I want to be an engineer, I want to be a pilot......However, this kind of "want to lose" is generally not based on a clear understanding of oneself and a grasp of the actual conditions, so it is of little value. Planning requires self-awareness and control of reality. That's partly by chance, and it's elusive.

Many people start from interest, but without the support of talent, interest will not go far.

Confusion, in many stages, many groups of people will face.

In the first meeting with the mentor, the mentor communicated with us. I remember saying that I was confused, I didn't know what the Raid Hall was doing, and I didn't know what it meant to do it.

She said that it doesn't matter if you're confused. Don't worry about what it makes sense, why, or how much you think about it. You just have to do a good job now, such as what certificate you want to take, and do it well.

Later you will find out what you have to do, you will be more successful.

Actually, that's true, I think I think it's true. It is necessary to lay a solid foundation now, lay a solid foundation, and what kind of development do you want to develop in the future, so as to increase the probability of becoming a silver lease power and be able to seize the opportunity.

There's no clear goal, there's no relationship. Why do you have to be obsessed? If not having a clear goal won't affect you too much at this stage, don't worry too much about it.

Just like when I was a child, when I didn't understand anything, people asked, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" and I remember myself as "scientist." "I didn't know anything at that time, just say it. If someone were to ask me now, I would have a clear answer.

But a few years ago, I didn't, when I was in junior high school, I showed interest in my university major, but at that time I didn't think I would definitely go this way. I'm just a little bit of an inexplicable interest. But at that time, and in high school afterward, I didn't think it was going to be my college choice.

As a result, I didn't expect it, which was beyond my expectations. Yes. It was only at this time that I had a rough idea of where I should go.

It doesn't matter if you're confused, as long as you don't stop thinking when you're confused, you must continue to walk, and every step must be realistic, so that you can have a goal in the future and take on a more relaxed challenge.

As the saying goes, "Always be ready." ”

Pipa [Master] Life can be without goals, but it can't be without feelings. Since you are a human being, since you have feelings, you must feel the position of life, rather than giving up your feelings for what you are striving for.

People have seven emotions and six desires, so they will have many different feelings. Your current low mood is also a feeling in itself, a feeling that should not last but will definitely appear. And the appearance of such feelings is often caused by the surrounding environment, often because of more frustration.

People tend to feel unhappy when they encounter setbacks, feel lonely in arguments, feel left out while not being in the same way as others, and feel small when they are ignored by their leaders, all of which can lead to a person's low mood.

In fact, the universe has always been changing, and human beings have always been accompanied by birth, old age, sickness and death, and everything in this can only be adapted and adjusted by ourselves. When it comes to adjustment, there is no more effective way than to face the true embodiment of that life yourself. No matter what kind of problems you encounter, no matter what time and environment you encounter them, peace of mind and optimism will often reduce your pain, and if you can continue to maintain this state of mind and emotion for a longer period of time, your low mood and feeling of the walking dead are likely to be reduced or even eliminated completely.

The goal of life is based on a rather special foundation of life, and too lofty goals often bring unnecessary fear and make people cringe. The stronger the feeling, the poorer the belief in self-affirmation, the increasing impulse to self-deprecation, and the natural association with the Walking Dead.

Friend, if you want to be a person with goals, you must first be an ordinary person. That is, first of all, we must have the ability to protect ourselves, the ability to bear different feelings, the ability to maintain optimism, and the ability to get out of the predicament. And the so-called must-have goal of life is precisely the last thing that should be considered.

Because, being an ordinary person is far more beneficial to this society than being a crappy dreamer.

Only if you have the optimism necessary for life can you remain undefeated in the process of struggle.

Getting along with others is not a goal in life, but only a factor in achieving the goal of life. Of course, for example, when you want to pursue a girl, you have a goal, but if you don't know how to get along with her, you can't achieve your goal. I am also experiencing the state of being hung by my wife in my work and life, and I have just encountered the biggest problem in my career in the past ten years.

I know that there are many paths to success, but there are many situations that violate my values, and even slightly step on the red line of national laws. But after a baptism of illness, I realized that I need to rely on myself in life, and I can't rely on anyone else. If there is no goal, you will be diligent to find a goal, and if you have a low level of education, you will find a job that can learn technology, and if you have a high level of education, you can do it and choose the opportunity.

Nowadays, there are many people with a high level of education, and there may not be a good position, unless you have special resources and connections. In fact, the goal is that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Let me tell you a real example, my current partner and his younger brother were originally her employees, and then he came out to do it alone, he specializes in picking those low-cost, high-margin, light-weight products to do **c store, although he did not make a fortune, but there are tens of thousands of dollars of profit per month, and the partner himself always likes to do things beyond his ability, as a result, the six million funds to make a loss of 4 million, and now open a small shop to live.

And she is currently experiencing the very embarrassment of her husband and in-laws' blame life, and partnering with him is also the biggest failure of my life. Therefore, how to deal with people's interactions, the goal of dealing with work must be within one's ability, or the goal of fighting for one's ability. In this way, you will not be left alone in a place where there is no village in front of you and no store in the back.

Relax your mind and don't care about the immediate gains and losses, it takes a long time to cultivate.

You see, no matter how many other people's answers are useless, after a while, you will naturally return to a calm state! People just change and change! You can't control it.

If you want to get along well with others and make more friends, first of all, don't put yourself first, don't always do things according to your own ideas, learn to be low-key, cheerful, polite, and sociable.

Find new goals and continue to struggle;

Don't you live without a purpose?

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