A blind date man chats hot and cold, but his parents are satisfied, should I give up?

Hello you I hit you back and forth on this question, he is hot and cold to you, it is you who is married, you can't be satisfied because your parents are satisfied, after all, it is you who are married, you have to live with this person for the rest of your life, marriage is not like buying a car, if you are not satisfied, you can sell it in exchange for a car. Marriage is a major event, you must not blindly follow, your parents may be satisfied with him may be because of his family conditions, or other aspects are more satisfied, you must choose what you are satisfied with, you can listen to the opinions of the family, but also have your own choice.

It's best to get to know each other more and then determine the identity of boyfriend and girlfriend, which requires you to have more actual contact with each other, to put it bluntly, it is to go out a few more times, in the details such as playing and eating, to observe whether the other party is suitable, whether there is something you are not satisfied with (such as personality, dealing with people and things), if not, if you feel that you can contact for 1 month, then you will have a showdown with the other party (you can say it online QQ or mobile phone text messages), ask the other party how you feel, whether you feel appropriate, whether you are willing to officially become a boyfriend and girlfriend. If the other party is not happy, forget it.

Giving up, the heat and cold can't stand it, and the temporary cruelty is exchanged for long-term comfort. Parental advice is a reference, but not an order. Be assertive.

Did your parents live with him, or did you live with him?

I probably haven't been in a relationship much, so I don't know what to say to you.

How many times do people take the initiative, but you only once.

It's up to you whether you want to do it.

The Mid-Autumn Festival has been a long time coming.

How does it feel to go out?

Let me tell you my personal opinion:

This man doesn't like you very much, to put it simply, you don't give him a heartbeat.

You can tell if you haven't been in touch for ten days, and you can see that you have very few appointments; I think it's a man, whether introverted or extroverted, if a girl makes him very excited, he can't suppress the desire to contact you.

So I'm going to make a bold guess, first of all, you're not his first blind date; Secondly, in the process of getting along with you, I have not given you expensive gifts.

As for every time the cold makes you want to give up, he appears again, the reason is: his parents interfered, but not to hinder you, but to promote you, because his parents really want his son to get married soon so that he can hold his grandson, so he is a little impatient, so as long as he introduces a person, his parents will be satisfied. And due to the pressure from his family, and the fact that his previous blind dates have not given him the feeling he wants, he wants to get along with the attitude of giving it a try, so naturally he will not be very positive.

And I think he kind of saw that you were kind of interested in him.

The matchmaker said that the man was satisfied with me, can the matchmaker's words be believed? Of course, the matchmaker wants to be, but the man doesn't know what to say, because he knows very well that even if he misses you, it will be difficult to meet the object that satisfies him, plus the urging of his parents, so he is a little entangled, and finally chooses to be silent or try it, so that in the eyes of the matchmaker, it is a default. In the end, of course, I will say satisfied.

In the end, it was concluded that the matchmaker wanted to be quick and received a part of the fee. His parents hope that their son will get married and have children soon.

He himself is in a struggle, and he has been in the process of hesitation, because if he doesn't contact you, it means that he will be broken, so he chooses to contact, because he doesn't feel it, so the frequency of contact is very low. You will be more tired in this kind of love, tired of talking about it yourself, and tired of others.

His personality is introverted and indecisive, with ideas, but it is difficult to express them.

It seems that he has a shy personality. In fact, such a man is quite cute. Mainly focus on your feelings, contact and communicate more, know yourself and the enemy, and finally make a decision is not too late.

After all, life is a major event. It depends on whether he is sincere or forced to think more about the good in everything by the order of his parents, maybe he is busy, he doesn't know how to express his feelings, and he can't coax girls...

I think if you really like it, it's impossible not to contact for more than ten days.

Maybe I'm afraid you'll annoy him. Just now there was a girl who was annoyed all week.

Maybe the man in the house is quite shy and take a look!