I like a girl but my parents are against it, why do my parents always oppose the person I like?

Is that girl interesting to you? But if your family is against it, even if you get married, it will be difficult for her and your parents to get along. If you feel that your parents are important, respect their opinion and give up on the girl.

If you really like her and she likes you very much, you don't have to worry about your parents first, after all, it is your own future, your happiness, you have to be worthy of yourself and be responsible for yourself. If your parents see that you really love each other, they will accept it eventually. After all, you are their son, and of course they want you to be happy.

Love is different from marriage, but marriage is one of the endings of love, love can be regardless of any difficulties, but marriage must consider many issues, because marriage is to live together, love is the communication of the heart. The goal of love is to get married, so love also needs to be considered later, otherwise you can't promise a girl.

Don't regret falling in love!

My sister's diary, she is about to get married, but she regrets it because love is not marriage!

He had very few friends

Don't like to talk too much

He's a man who is very good at living

I've known him for almost a year

Seldom say love words, rarely say nice things

I can't hug and I can't coax girls

There are no surprises, when you are sad, he will not help you check your tears, he will not cook, and he will not change rice

It's always tasteless in his bowl, but he also says he likes light, like love, and it's good for him to be calm.

As long as you don't say break up, he won't nervous you

He doesn't like bathing, he doesn't like cutting his nails, he doesn't like brushing his teeth, and if he is pushed, he says, "Tomorrow."

He doesn't like to dress up

As long as you have clothes to wear

It's like you've never objected to me buying clothes

He doesn't like to change clothes

Unless you have clean clothes ready to put next to him

He loves simple food as much as I do

He must have said something to impress you

He is not assertive about love

As long as the girls who are happy with their families can do the same for men

He never took the initiative to say to me: I love you, never!

I forced it

The album on his QQ is my transmission, the information is written by me, the group is divided by me, and he is always very cold about his QQ

Because there are not many friends in it

He's very withdrawn, very lonely, sometimes you don't see him laughing, and every time, I quarrel with him

Regardless of whether it is reasonable or not, as long as he speaks!

Every time I deliberately skip a meal, let him call me

Pretending to be angry, blame him for not knowing how to take care of me

And then in exchange for a hug from him in the face of him kissing so man

I tried, but I was still lonely

So I heard him say, "Bye-bye!"

Seat Rental: Goodbye!

Love or not love Maybe it will pass!

As long as you love her sincerely, prove to your parents that you are very happy, as parents, what you want to see most is the happiness and filial piety of your children. If you are with her and are happy, your parents will definitely not object to Ra. The one on the first floor is also right, you should communicate more with your parents.

If you really love each other. You can sit with your parents calmly and communicate. With your love. Impress your parents.

Think for yourself.

You're living with your daughter for the rest of your life.

Or your mom and dad.

Worship For girls, the role of dad is a symbol of strength, which can give them a sense of security and make them feel protected, so they prefer to spend time with a strong dad than the image of a weak mother.

Dad is more gentle Many old fathers are very serious at work, and when they come home, they immediately turn into "daughter slaves" and do everything they can to make their daughters happy. When a daughter makes a mistake, the father is often not like the mother, the first reaction is to punish, but first coax the daughter, calm their emotions, and wait for calm down before reasoning. In the eyes of daughters, these practices of the father form a strong contrast with the mother, they will feel that the father is more gentle and better for themselves, so they prefer to stick to the father.

It's more fun to get along with dad Men and women have natural differences in brain structure, so there are big differences in speech and behavior, and for daughters, these differences make them feel fresh and curious, and they can have more fun in the process of exploring. For example, if you are also playing with your children, your mother may choose to go shopping, watch movies, etc., while your father is more inclined to take your children to play outdoors, ride a bicycle with your children, or make models by hand.

The daughter also likes her father, unless the father has done a very radical or extreme behavior, otherwise she will not be disgusted.

Liking dad is as much as liking mom, or even more than liking mom.

Girls, the way they like their dad is more delicate, more tactful, and more deeply buried, their hearts understand their father, worship their father, their father is their protector, and their strength is relied on. Although the father's side is not fully recognized and understood by those of us who are daughters, but the father is the father, old and old, in our minds, he is still a father who can climb on his back when he was a child, he is still strong, reliable, worshipped, and admired.

The daughter loves her father, but when the daughter is older, she is embarrassed to express it directly as when she was a child, so that she can play with her temper and hide her love for her father.

It may be that the father has some bad behavior, the way of speaking, and the girl will be disgusted if she can't accept it.

For example, when eating, my father always lectured the girl, and when she was talking, the girl was annoyed and didn't even let the meal be delicious.

The first father may have a little aggressive behavior towards the girl, such as beating the mother and child, or may have a bad influence on the girl. The second is that the father is not at home all the year round to work in other places, or after divorcing the mother, he has not returned home and has not given the girl a little love, and he will dislike the father.

Because fathers don't care about girls as much as mothers. So the girl is disgusted with the father!

A: There are many reasons for this. Some mothers are seriously pampered, and fathers are strict with their children.

Psychologists have shown that daughters who are not close to their fathers may become introverted and dislike communicating with others after school. This is due to the lack of love from the father's side.

Usually no, it is said that the daughter is the father's intimate padded jacket, so I guess you are talking about very rare cases, it can't be like this all the time! Everyone's situation is different, and it must be done differently! Thank you, good luck! Live happily every day!

It's not like you said, in fact, the girl is closer to her father.

It may be that the child is in adolescence, so there is some resistance to the parents.

The girl did not resent her father, and if it was speculation, let the mother deal with it.

Huang Gang's father must be husband and wife. Round or expired. Paternal. Words may be compared. Direct. So that the little girl may not be acceptable?

Among the counselors I contacted, some parents disagreed with their daughters-in-law's short height, some parents disagreed with their daughters' boyfriends because they were too poor, and some parents didn't like their children's other half of their children's uncheerful personalities, because this phenomenon was too common, so few people thought about the nature of this kind of grandchildren's imagination, and always put all the responsibility on their partners or parents.

Today, we will look at the essence through the phenomenon and analyze why parents disagree.

I think there are two ways to consider this issue, the first is that your parents just don't trust your choice, and the second is your parents' own strong desire to control.

Parents make evaluations based on their own experience and don't trust your choices.

After evaluating their own experience, parents came to a poor conclusion for two reasons:

1) Your parents' perception of your partner is incomplete, so they can only judge a person by their external conditions.

You get along with your partner day and night, you can see all his advantages, and you have established a deeper emotional connection with him, so when deciding to get married, you will not only look at the person's external material conditions, or family circles, etc., you will consider whether you will be happy with this person. But parents don't know your partner as well as you do.

We also have to admit that the parents' disagreement is indeed for your own good, their older generation has their own philosophy of survival, and they often look down on the choice of young people, but this is for your good from the perspective of their parents, and the good marriage relationship in their eyes is basically the same, and the partners they agree with are usually rich, have a good career, and have a good temper.

For example, if you bring back a young artist who dyes his hair in colorful colors to show your father, of course he disagrees, because he can't see the heart of this good man at home through the hair color of this postmodern art form, which is not in line with the older generation's perception of "reliable and good men".

This is your problem, and if you ask your parents to think about it from your point of view immediately, you will naturally get disappointment.

Summary. This kind of thing first to respect their own heart, what a person likes, what he doesn't like, only he knows best, second, to respect his parents, parents with hard work, and give high hopes, this kind of thing can not be done against parents, can not be forced, can slowly persuade parents, or with sincere performance to impress parents. Third, you should respect each other, don't let the other person be hurt by your parents, and try not to make it public until you get your parents' approval.

What if you are a woman and like a woman, but your parents don't agree.

This kind of thing first to respect their own heart, what a person likes, what he doesn't like, only he knows best, second, to respect his parents, parents with hard work, and give high hopes, this kind of thing can not be done against parents, can not be forced, can slowly persuade parents, or with sincere performance to impress parents. Third, you should respect each other, don't let the other person be hurt by your parents, and try not to make it public until you get your parents' approval.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

To put it simply, it is not right to cater to your parents against your own will, and it is not right to force the other party to please your parents with you, but there is no need to forcibly change your preferences because of your parents' dislike, it really doesn't work, that is, everyone lives their own lives separately, and it is best not to interfere with each other, it is to visit their parents regularly and give them care, which is the obligation that children must fulfill.

You are in love with a girl and her parents disagree, if you have the same three views, then hold the girl's heart firmly and try to witness your love. I believe that most people are more enlightened nowadays and are unwilling to block their children's marriage. When you fall in love, if you like her, she also likes you, it's easy to do, parents look at attitude, and grind time.

As long as your attitude is sincere enough, you have the qualities to impress them, and you can stand the test of them for a certain period of time, then no problem. 1. All ways to solve problems are the same, that is: the cause of the problem; 2. Now the question is:

My girlfriend's parents don't approve of you being together and break up.

First of all, you have to determine why your girlfriend's father and mother don't agree with you being together? Then analyze and solve specific problems on a case-by-case basis. You didn't go into the specifics of your question, but I'll guess a few of the usual reasons.

First, your girlfriend's parents simply don't like you as a person, and many situations are like this, that is, it doesn't look pleasing to the eye, and the comprehensive situation of the whole person is to make them look awkward. This one comes with subjective overtones and tinted glasses. Workaround:

Soft and skillful, that is, the first to be soft, take the initiative to curry favor with the old couple, through psychological warfare and human warfare, to influence the old couple, so as to change the resistance and rejection of you, and finally agree that you are together. The hard thing is that you and your girlfriend are resolutely together, the sea is rotten, and in the end, they have to accept the reality, wait until they get married in the future, and slowly repair each other's feelings in a long life.

Second, your girlfriend's parents do not accept your material conditions. This question of filial piety requires you to work hard to improve, and you need to be hard to strike iron, and successful people fart fragrantly. Marriage also abides by the laws of nature, survival of the fittest, survival of the fittest.

Third, here is a summary of some of the concerns and thoughts of the woman's parents about the child's relationship and marriage.

1, the two parties are truly in love with each other, 2, daughters marry each other, they can enjoy happiness, at least not suffering.

The above two points are the core ideas of the woman's parents. If the above two points can be easily achieved, the other party's parents will not obstruct it.

Answer, from the description of the analysis, you can directly tell your parents the reason why you don't like it, because the future life is your own life, this can not be compromised, no matter who is irresponsible.