Giving does not necessarily pay off, when you pay, how to continue?

If I give and the other party does give a little response, then I will insist, but if I give a lot for a long time and the other party does not respond at all, then I will choose to let go.

In a relationship, there is always a person who pays more, there is always a person who falls in love more slowly, which I can understand, some people are slow to heat, so I can accept it, I fell in love first, then naturally I will pay first, I love you so I am good to you, I do my best to spoil you, let you, I pay a lot to you, at this time your attitude towards me is slowly better, there are some responses, I don't need you to celebrate how fast, but your attitude is at least better than before, and I am more attentive to me than before, Then I can stick to it.

Your attitude is the motivation for me to persevere, you give me a reaction, then I am willing to work hard for your reactions and continue to pay and continue to be good to you, but if I am very good to you and have persisted for a while, but your attitude has always been the same, without a little softening feeling, without a little response, just enjoy my contribution throughout the whole process, do not cherish my contribution throughout the whole process, do not give a response at all, then sorry, I may give up this relationship.

Because I understand that I may not be your dish, you may never like me, in this case, I have worked so hard, you still don't like it, then I choose to give up, no matter how much I pay, I intend to take it back, I will give up this relationship, no matter how much love will not continue, because I want to stop the loss in time, I don't want to hit the south wall and then turn back, when I find out your attitude, I understand that it is time for me to wake up.

Sometimes it's okay to pay, it's okay to get nothing, but you have to let us see my attitude, if the attitude has always been the same as before, then there is no reason to persevere, it's better to let go early, everyone is better.

After you have paid, you should live your life as always, and don't always expect something in return, so that you can continue.

Giving does not necessarily lead to gain, but after we have paid for one thing, after our own efforts, there is still no gain, then we must stop and pay for this thing. Don't make unnecessary sacrifices.

As long as you don't give up and continue to work hard, I believe that I will succeed one day.

We can wait if we don't get a harvest once, but if we don't have it, we should stop the loss in time, and give up when it's time to give up.

You should stick to your original intention, have a dream, and have a positive and hard-working heart, so that you can continue.

Since you have already paid, then you will not regret it, let alone regret it, as for the result or not, it is no longer so important.

Personally, I think that paying may not necessarily be rewarded, if we pay, then we can not give up, we must continue to pay, so that we can see the hope of success.

In life, when you pay for yourself, you have to wait patiently, if there is a return, then you are naturally happy, and don't take it too seriously if there is no return.

Don't be discouraged if you don't get what you give, many times you can only see the return if you give enough.

If you want to continue after paying, I think you should let the other party feel your contribution and make changes, so that you will not make unnecessary contributions.

After paying, you must continue to motivate yourself, encourage yourself to go on, and don't let the previous efforts be in vain.

If you don't pay, you won't get anything. Don't forget the verse: Plant a grain of millet in the spring and harvest 10,000 seeds in the autumn. Don't be delusional about pie-in-the-sky good things.

On the way back from the vegetable market, between the two shops of the cheong noodle shop and the commissary, I accidentally overheard a conversation between the proprietress of the two shops. The proprietress of the rice noodle shop complained while eating the rice rolls: "I don't know how that rabbit cub took the test?"

I came back with a forty or fifty points in the exam. It hasn't been so bad before. The proprietress of the commissary heard it and said with a smile

Usually I don't care much about my children's studies. The proprietress of the rice noodle shop didn't say anything when she heard her say this, and still muttered that she hadn't been so bad ...... before

After listening to their conversation, I thought that children's poor grades are not only the consequence of their children's poor studies, but also the parents have a big reason. When I pass by the cheong noodle shop, I see that there are many customers buying cheong fun, and the boss and the proprietress are very busy, so it can be seen that they rarely pay attention to their children's learning. However, if the child's final results are not satisfactory, it is just unilaterally felt that it is the child's fault.

But he didn't think about whether he had paid his due responsibilities as a parent.

Doing everything requires a pay-in-progress. Learning is the same, work is the same, and life is the same. If you want to live a good life, you must work hard to live every moment.

If we want to be rewarded, we must first give. If you don't pay, you won't get anything.

It is often said, "No pain, no gain." "If you want to reap, you have to give.

I remember a teacher once said to us, "Because you don't know how to give, you don't get much." After hearing this, I really feel ashamed, since the day I landed, I have paid very little, and others have paid for me.

There are so many of them, for example, my parents pay to raise me, my teachers pay to educate me, and they don't want to reciprocate their efforts. And what about us? Not only did the talk hall not pay, but also hoped to gain.

When we see others being praised, we want to be appreciated by others, but what we do is not worthy of praise at all. When we see others achieve excellent results, we also hope to get excellent results, but we don't study hard.

If this idea of liking "getting something for nothing" becomes a habit, then we will be very selfish, and our relationships in society will become very bad, and selfish classmates are not uncommon in our class. When they find a lump of waste paper under their feet, no one wants to pick it up, and they will only kick the waste paper to the feet of another classmate. And this student will not pick it up and continue to pass the paper ball around, this kind of scene is like passing the ball on the court, and unlike the athletes, none of us want this "ball".

It was passed around like this, and it wasn't until it reached the feet of an enthusiastic classmate that the paper ball made its way to the trash. Sometimes the paper ball just stays in the middle of the aisle, and the students will ignore it. Just ask:

How much energy can it cost us to bend down and pick up a ball of waste paper? Why should we be stingy with such a little love?

When we do something, what is the first thing we think? It's thinking that if you do this, you'll suffer. If everyone thinks that they will lose money if they do it, who else will do it?

If you want to reap, you must give, and if you pay, you should not care about the harvest.