Venus has made upright remarks again, do you want to be an upright person?

How cool is it to be an upright personVenus is a star in the entertainment industry who is not afraid of offending people, and his words are both upright and very reasonable, which is very easy to convince. But speaking upright like Venus will inevitably offend others, and many people in life are afraid to speak bravely. And around us, there are not many people who can speak as upright as Venus, and many people are envious of those who dare to express their words.

It is really a very cool experience to be an upright person and dare to speak, and I myself am also a person with an upright personality.

People with an upright personality are able to express their thoughts and are not too passive when facing things. People with upright personalities just have their own ideas in speaking and doing things, and dare to express their thoughts, not cold-faced and ruthless, nor are they simply ugly. People with upright personalities just don't like to hide from people and things, and like to boldly confide in their thoughts without any deliberate difficulties.

Compared with those who are more passive in the face of things, people with upright personalities will not suffer dumb losses, and the more passive people are, the easier it is to suffer dumb losses. People with upright personalities can bravely express their thoughts, and they will have more self-opinions in speaking and doing things, and they will have more sincere friends around them.

People with upright personalities know how to refuse, and they are more obedient to their own wishes. People with upright personalities will not be easily accommodating, but they will still take into account friendship. People with an upright personality know how to refuse, and will not easily compromise because of other people's requests or requests for their own help, but they will take into account people's feelings, will take into account the difficulties of others, and are willing to help.

Because upright people know how to refuse, most of them are willing to do anything, so they are more able to obey their own wishes.

It's very, very cool to be an upright person, and I hope you can be an upright person too.

I don't want to, because many times it is easy to stab others with upright words, in fact, there is nothing wrong with speaking tactfully, but it saves face for each other, and everyone is happier.

I don't want to be such a person, because sometimes being too upright means that the emotional intelligence is relatively low, which will easily offend people and make me have no harmonious social circle.

I still hope that I will become an upright person, and I feel that upright people live a very open life, and they don't have to think too much about it, so that they will not be particularly tired in this life.

I've always hoped that I could be upright and say whatever I wanted, but I'm just the one who holds everything in my heart, and I can't change it in this life, so I still envy a straightforward person like Venus.

Anyone who knows Venus knows that Venus is a very upright person and will say whatever he wants, so many people like to watch Venus's shows. In life, there will be many outspoken people around us, and we all like to get along with such people. However, in addition to being better in life, being straightforward and quick will suffer more on other occasions.

For example, if you are outspoken in the workplace, then the leader will not like it too much. So, how can people who are too upright make themselves a little smoother? First of all, you have to suppress your temper.

Secondly, communicate with people more and learn speaking skills.

1. Suppress your temper

Those upright people have one thing in common, that is, they will say everything they think in their hearts. However, sleek people are different. These people don't say what is in their hearts.

They process their words before they speak, they don't make them too sharp, and they also delete some words that others don't like to hear. In fact, whether it is upright or sleek, everyone thinks about the same thing, but the upright person chooses to speak directly, and the sleek person will process the words. So,If you want to be tactful, don't spit out all the unhappiness in one breath when you're angry, but suppress your temper and try to express it in a way that others like.

2. Communicate more with people and learn speaking skills

If you want to be sleek, the best way to do that is to talk to sleek peopleLearn how they speak and understand what they mean by the various things they say。In this way, I have learned some sophistication, and I will be more acceptable to others when I speak. Especially when facing your own leaders, you must make use of the tactful skills you have learned.

In this way, it will be of great help to your work.

Therefore, to master the skill of tactfulness, you must control your emotions and learn more about the skills of others speaking. In this way, you can become a sleeker person.

If you want to be smooth, you must pay attention to what you say, and you can't do things too much, and you have to think about others directly.

If you want to be a little more tactful, the first thing is not to expose other people's shortcomings in front of others, let alone comment on other people's behavior behind their backs. When you speak, you must think about it in your heart, and don't open your mouth if you think it's inappropriate.

In fact, as long as you participate in more occasions and experience more things, you will naturally become more tactful, in short, it is best to be subtle in your words and actions, and you must not be too sharp.

People who are too upright should speak tactfully, don't hurt others when they say it, and do things more considerably for others, so that they can make themselves more tactful.

Think before you speak, try to be tactful and avoid hurting others. When encountering things, you must think clearly about the stakes and try not to get into trouble.

You can come into contact with people with more sleek personalities, and when you have been in contact with them for a long time, I believe that your personality will also change.

You must think carefully before speaking and doing things, think about the consequences, and say more compliments so that you can be a little more tactful.

If you want to be a little more tactful, you have to learn to be humorous. Say some straightforward things like a joke so that you don't cause discomfort to others.

Change the way you speak and put yourself in the other person's shoes so that you don't speak too bluntly.

In life, we should consider the feelings of others, put ourselves in the shoes of others, and be good at listening to others' ideas.

Be a natural person, but you should also know how to protect yourself, for example, you can't say what you think in your heart directly, but in a more tactful way.

First of all, you should be tactful when you speak, and persuade yourself to become more tactful, so that you can go further.

We know that Jin Xing is a particularly hot host now, she is not only in one show, she has served as the host in many variety shows, and her hosting skills are obvious to all, and we also know that she has now served as a host in many variety shows, and the ratings of the programs she hosts are very high. We know Venus that she is a transgender person. She is very straightforward, but she now has a happy family, because of her love for dance since she was a child, so she chose to be transgender.

And she is very righteous and upright. So it's also liked by a lot of people. I have a lot of friends.

Through many people, we can understand that his standards for children's growth and education are very high. She often said to her children, "One day go out into society." I just hope you don't be annoying.

Because if you are hated by others, you have failed. ”I think Venus's point of view is particularly positive.

She doesn't spoil her children like everyone else. Although she loves her children, she will definitely have her own children with high standards. What do you think?

I think she can do things that others don't dare to do, and she can sit upright on her own.

I agree with the actors she criticizes who only speak numbers instead of lines.

It's a lot, especially the complaints about some phenomena in the circle.

I think a lot of what she said made sense, too much, perfect for this meme.

A person who speaks too upright is very disliked today, because he doesn't know how to think about others, regardless of time, occasion, or moderation, and what he says is always unacceptable, so, Jin Xing speaks so upright, and her popularity in the entertainment industry is still very good, how did she do it?

First of all,She dares to blacken herself, and when she talks about others, she often blacks herself firstIn this way, when she says others, it is easier for others to accept it, and she speaks with humor and humor, and uses her own humor to resolve many embarrassing scenes.

Secondly,Venus knows how to stop when it comes to speakingOn the surface, Jin Xing is particularly daring to say, but in fact, Jin Zao Repentance is often on the facts, neither exaggerated, nor with some insulting remarks, she always leaves a line when she speaks, and she will not completely offend people to death, and she knows how to speak on different occasions, and she is not talking nonsense without an inch.

Venus speaks with a special sense of proportion, Ma Yan said something very serious, she will be very smart not to name names, she often chooses the right thing and not the right person, and what she says is often to the point, and Venus has always been frank and unrestrained, she dares to say that she is not afraid of others to retaliate, so not only has she been recognized by the audience, but her popularity in the circle is also good.

On the surface, Venus is particularly upright, in fact, Venus is very emotionally intelligent, she knows how to distinguish occasions and proportions, and he will not chase the wind and catch the shadows and talk nonsense, what he says is some real people and real things, others have no way to refute, and they dare not refute.