I don t know if I m normal? 80

Normal, don't blame yourself, it's good to have your own girlfriend in the future, every man wants to find a virtuous woman who can go out of the hall and in the kitchen, just try to distance yourself and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.

For a man, this is normal, for an older brother is not normal, friends and wives can not be bullied, you should understand this truth, if you have this impulse, it is best not to let yourself and her have alone time, if you can suggest staying away.

Why bother under the same roof?

Go get a girlfriend of your own.

Don't create an opportunity to be together.

Don't worry, it could be your desire for love, longing for someone to live with at home. It is advisable to find a girlfriend and turn your attention away from her. Or don't live together. If you can't see it, you don't want it.

It should be my own brother, otherwise I wouldn't have lived with my girlfriend. It is recommended that you go out and rent another house, whether you share a house or rent a small one, it will not cost too much, so that it gives your younger brother and younger siblings space, and it is convenient for you to live on your own. Besides, after your younger brother came back from military training, you completed their two-person world, which is what you, the elder brother, should be.

In addition, your thoughts are normal, living alone with a young lady, most men will have a picture of the imagination, normal but this is not good, change the status quo as soon as possible. When you live in yourself, focus on improving yourself and enjoying life, make yourself better, and there will be a better other half waiting for you in a beautiful place. Remember to find a reason, don't let your brother feel a burden or affect the relationship between your brother and your younger siblings.

In the depths of your heart, you long to get a good relationship, she in your mind is gentle and virtuous and will do housework, so you will have such thoughts, because you have been alone for too long, too lonely, it is recommended that you try to avoid being alone with your brother and girlfriend, try to chat with her as much as possible, and find a girlfriend who can talk to yourself as soon as possible, so that you will not have other ideas, good luck!

First of all, you can be sure that you are normal, you can control yourself, you know your own principles, this is normal.

In addition, it is easy for lonely men and widows to be in the same limited space, such as elevators, homes, etc., which is normal, and most people will have this kind of thought, so you don't have to have any psychological burden. Maybe you need to find a girlfriend of your own.

In fact, this is a movement in your heart, try not to violate the rules, otherwise there will be family conflicts.

Because you've been single for too long. And your brother's girlfriend is a free-spirited person dangling in front of you, making you also fantasize about having a girlfriend who can cook in the future. It's normal for you to think this way, in fact, your brother is in love, and it's very inconvenient for you to live together, so it's better not to live together, so as not to be embarrassed.

To put it bluntly, you just want to find a girlfriend, and one of the types of girlfriends you want to find is to be able to cook, of course, it is not excluded that you may like your brother's girlfriend, but there is a saying that a good friend's wife can't be bullied, and it can be a brother's, so think twice.

Physically and emotionally speaking, you are normal, but morally, you should not think that way. After all, she's your brother's girlfriend, and you shouldn't think anything wrong.

You can think whatever you want, that's your business, as long as it's not an action that causes harm to your brother and his girlfriend.

If you want to fall in love, she should be attracted to you, but you also understand that she is your brother's girlfriend, well, it is recommended that you find a girlfriend to fall in love, or move out if the financial conditions allow.

You've been single for too long. It's normal to have fantasies about the opposite sex, but we in China are ethical places, you have to control yourself, divert your attention, and don't do bad things.

Otherwise, how can you say that men are lower body animals, you just don't have them yourself, and then envy your brother, by the way, it's time to solve your needs, or find a girlfriend to solve your needs.

Then it's serious, it could be that you have a crush on your brother's girlfriend.

If you find that you are not normal, you can go to the hospital for a check-up.

Uh....Why don't you go talk to your brother?

The result of this test report is normal, the reference value of the test is less than 1000, and the test value is also less than 1000, so it meets the negative requirements. However, many diseases are now tested with a permissible probability of misdiagnosis, and if you are worried, you can go for a follow-up, so the probability of error is extremely low.

<>If the doctor is not right, then it's fine, I'll look for something else."

Or let me say a few words, your situation is into a strange circle, the more you want to come out, the more you can't get out, you can't control it will think a lot of things, and you will become more and more unable to communicate with people for fear that others will find out that they are abnormal, and you have no confidence in doing anything, many times you like to stay alone, the easiest way for you to come out is to reset your subconscious, when the bad consciousness comes up, immediately shout to stop, and the little girl tries to take a pile, so that your heart is stable, full of energy, naturally reduce distracting thoughts, and enhance confidence, people's temperament has changed, and they have become cheerful.

Your expression of your situation must be very abnormal, a kind of pathology, maybe it is caused by mental pressure, too nervous, or it may be caused by depression, loneliness, etc., happy life every day, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed, why be unhappy and depressed? You should take it seriously and reflect on the symptoms of the present, don't care about the gains and losses in the past, build confidence in yourself, and dare to face the future happily every day! If you are unable to adjust your current condition on your own, consider seeing a doctor (including a psychologist) and if it is not caused by a lesion, then accept the guidance of a psychologist to have a doctor.

Forget the past and get to know yourself anew, make yourself cheerful, cheer up and make friends, even if you are introverted, but it is not what you are saying now, can you consider trying a different environment? I wish you a happy day soon! You are a typical lack of self-confidence, and you are a little lacking in love, if there is a gentleman who treats you as a princess at this time, I believe you will come out, and there are people who have to learn to be independent, not to integrate into other people's circles on behalf of you, the strong do not need to please anyone.

It's not normal to say this, everyone has advantages, try to insist on making yourself do a good job within your ability, do it with your heart, don't care what others think, how you say, persevere, you will find your own ability, increase your self-confidence, you are a normal person, just too unconfident.

If you can express your thoughts and inner thoughts, it means that you are a normal girl. The ideas between the lines are clear, and there is no confusion in the structure of the speech. You're just a little shy and very unconfident and can't properly present your true self.

You will always be embarrassed and embarrassed about how things or people are. It's actually a kind of cowardice in your heart, not letting go of yourself, it's not a problem. As long as you show your courage and self-confidence, you can deal with it boldly.

It's good to take it slowly. Don't be afraid and learn to be self-reliant. Get outdoors and see how others are doing.

Just be brave and confident, and believe that you are the best and the most beautiful girl. We all love you!

Adolescent girls, sometimes there are.

A lot of ideas, your various performances, show that you are still very naïve, when accepting new things, there are still certain deficiencies, now you have realized these shortcomings of your own, then you are now actively correcting, can also improve, from your point of view, to go out to find a job that suits you, more contact, people and things, slowly adapt to a place with many people, learn to communicate with others, people can change, your problems are not a big problem at all? You don't think too much, you are still young, there are many things to do, first of all, you must establish your own self-confidence, you must be kind to yourself, first of all, you must affirm yourself, you must believe in yourself, you can do everything with confidence, I hope you have the courage to go out and contact nature, let go of yourself, no matter what others say? You have to live your life the way you want.

You are normal, all your thoughts and practices are normal manifestations of a person's lack of confidence in a thing, but I think you should not be troubled by this situation all the time, but find a way to get out, because many times avoiding it will not solve the problem, it will only make you more tired, because you have not lived your true colors. So sometimes don't care too much about other people's eyes and opinions, you must be confident, don't be afraid, only you live yourself, then others will respect you, if you can't even defeat yourself, then many things are unsatisfactory.

In fact, all the problems you said are caused by your lack of self-confidence, the more you don't get along with people for a long time, the more you won't get along with others, the more you don't want to go out, the more you don't want to go out, people often say, the way out is the way out, you are the same, if you continue to go like this, then waiting for you will be the end! So cheer up, the more you are afraid of things, the more you have to do them, and when you do it, you will feel that many things are so simple! Come on!

Now that you are aware of your problems, it is time to change yourself. There may be several reasons why you have such problems, the first is that you have a poor personality, you may be very introverted, do not like to be lively, and do not like to socialize. In addition, you are very young, have little social experience, and are more afraid to deal with things.

I think it's normal, everyone has this stage, and as you get older, you get better. I hope you don't put pressure on yourself, but still have more contact with society, increase your knowledge and work ability, and strive to become an excellent person, and naturally you will have self-confidence.

In fact, if you can recognize that you are abnormal, it means that you are still normal.

Target. Really abnormal people are not feeling abnormal, you are just psychologically stressed, self-esteem, always feel inferior to others, or psychological tension, you just need to relax yourself in daily life, do not feel stressed about anything, there is a saying that there must be a road before the car to the mountain! You put down your self-esteem, dissolve into normal life, don't be afraid, have the courage to communicate with others, you don't have to be inferior to others, you can participate in more group activities, you have to believe that no matter you go to participate in activities or talk to relatives and friends, people will accept you and welcome you, as long as you come out of your current psychological condition, everyone will be happy for you, you must not isolate yourself and close yourself.

Believe that you are the best. If you can't find a clue for a while, you can't get rid of it, then you can find a psychologist to guide it, according to your current situation, you don't need to find a psychiatrist, you can talk to someone you feel trusted, don't think too much, you have to relax and relax, you will get better, I wish you a happy day!

It may be that your social skills are too poor, you have to go out to exercise more, you must find a job, young people don't go out to work all day, the social circle is smaller, there is no common topic with others, there is less contact with the outside world, and you can't keep up with your knowledge, so there will be the problems you said, you can't talk to others, you can't find a job, etc. So you have to go out slowly, communicate with people more, and learn more about society.

You don't have to worry, you're normal, just a little introverted, it's not a big problem, you're mainly in a bad mood, you can't let go with others, if you can meet some people who fall in love, you will gradually become cheerful, the most important thing is to build confidence, just be yourself, don't think cranky, don't care what others think of you, do something you like, try to be with others, socialize together, and you will be lively and cheerful after a long time.

You may have too much self-esteem (too much self-esteem), then you will feel that your performance in all aspects is not good enough in various environments and comparisons with others, and you will secretly lose self-confidence. Because I can't let go of myself, the invisible burden has become psychological pressure, and I am more and more cocooned and self-bound, and I draw the ground as a prison. Don't pay too much attention to yourself, know that everyone is a different and irreplaceable individual, there is no need to compare with others, you are relaxed.

You may have a personality disorder, there are communication barriers, maybe you have experienced something unpleasant, there is a big shadow, causing you to have no confidence in interpersonal communication, is it always like this, or has it been like this since that stage, you have to understand what happened, is it pathological or caused by the outside world, only when you find the root cause of the disease can you come out, you can find your own problems, indicating that there is no problem with your cognition, but you can't change yourself, like something is holding you back, So that you can not actively interact with others, you are also a kind of home, after a long time, you may also lose your ability to communicate, so it is just speculation, you also need to be positive and optimistic, let yourself stand up again, I hope you can find the reason, and overcome it, you can regain yourself, you should be normal, just did not find the reason, and try to change it.