How do you deal with people who get angry at every turn and are enemies of the world?

Guide the other person to change. In daily life, learn to slowly guide the other person to change. For example, when the other party just wants to be irritable, appropriately change the topic, or show weakness and coquettishness to the other party, so as to guide the other party to change slowly.

Learn to communicate effectively with the other person. When the other party is relatively not short-tempered, it is necessary to calm down and communicate with the other party to understand the reasons for the short-tempered, so as to find a way to overcome it, otherwise it will be detrimental to people's physical and mental health for a long time.

Countering violence with violence. For a short-tempered person, you have to be more short-tempered than him, so that you can get his reflection and make him feel his mistake. Self-change.

Grumpy people are generally acute, like to go straight, and don't have any bad intentions. For this situation, we must learn to change ourselves, to slowly accept his way, this behavior, and get along from his point of view.

Generally, a short-tempered person has a quick temper that comes and goes quickly, so when interacting with him, if he touches the breaking point of ta, then be more tolerant or patient, and do not take his anger to heart, if he can perceive your tolerance and concession, and be grateful, over time, he will consciously restrain himself, and he will no longer be prone to impatience.

Grumpy people, often very fragile in the heart, he dares to be strong but can't stand soft, don't be hard, as long as you care about her, love her, listen to him, he feels right will understand your good to her, and he will treat you as an important person, he will be very good to you, if he doesn't understand this, unless he is illiterate, born a stupid talent, such a person is hopeless, persuade, leave him quickly, otherwise you will regret it for a lifetime. Most of them are fragile at heart, and that's how I am, in fact, it's mainly my wife who doesn't care about me. As long as you listen to him, he will definitely be good to you.

Senseless quarrels not only affect your mood, but also push the other party to the edge of the grumpy cliff, the result of 'lose-lose' is regrettable, grumpy people, generally self-esteem will be stronger, even if he knows that he is doing wrong, but he just refuses to apologize to you in front of everyone, be generous, and avoid quarrels. Not only in the workplace, sometimes the temper of the person you love will inevitably be more irritable, and you need to deal with it carefully, especially when a woman is in her menstrual period, don't worry too much about her, and men should be more tolerant. Calmly and generously show the true colors of a man, and encourage each other.

Take each other to more activities. Some people will feel very irritable once there is pressure or setbacks in work or life, which affects their temper, so they need to take him to participate in more activities, not only to divert their attention in time, but also to find other hobbies and hobbies to enrich themselves.

You can understand irritability as a habit, each of us will have some habits like this, it is difficult to say whether it is a bad habit or a good habit, such as 'I don't want to sleep at night', 'I eat a lot in the morning', 'I don't like my plan to be disrupted', etc., in most cases, the other party has a mouthful, for example, before you finish speaking, he hangs up very rudely**, don't be angry with him, laugh it off.

Care more about each other. Some people are short-tempered because they lack the necessary care, so as to attract the attention and attention of others, in this case, they should care more about the other person, so that they feel warm and valued, so that they can not find an excuse for being irritable.

Grumpy people tend to be straightforward, in fact, they are very easy to get along with, and they will not bother with you later, but it may be unbearable at the time, so tell him that tantrums are not only a bad solution to the problem, which is not acceptable, but also harmful to physical health, and more persuasion may improve.

80% of the misunderstandings we usually encounter are due to the lack of collusion, short-tempered people, not extraordinarily bad tempered, extraordinarily unreasonable people, they can collude, they are just in a hurry, maybe after your in-depth collusion, he may get rid of such habits. Survive the quarrel.

I sometimes deliberately avoid the grumpy person, or put the brakes on when he is about to have a seizure, because I am afraid that the other person's irritability will affect me. But can we not deal with such people? I don't think it's possible that we live in this society and we have to deal with all kinds of people, and we have to learn to deal with all kinds of people.