Everything is self inflicted, so why pray that others will pity me

You can say some comforting things to her, such as don't be so pessimistic, tell me everything, don't always hold it in your heart, that will hold it back.

There is a car in front and a rut in the back, and the road is to go by yourself, and you have to take the hardship yourself. After eating a trench and growing wise, the idea will be good.

You can do that. No one can ** what will happen in the future. We don't know if it's right or wrong in the future. Mistakes don't care about anyone. And I don't blame anyone. Cherish it, now is the right thing.

Yes, I have my pursuits, this is my freedom, I don't need mercy, as long as I cling.

Life is not satisfactory in the world, based on oneself. Self-reliance, indignant and strong. The most unreliable thing is to expect help from others.

However, the gifts of others are unreliable, and it depends on everyone to run, and only their own ability is worth relying on. The ancients said that it is difficult to seek others, and it is better to seek others than to seek oneself. The best thing for others is their own actions.

Then you say that since you have to pray to others, it is better to rely on yourself for everything, and not to give yourself too many unavoidable demands.

You should tell him that life is not going to be easy. Whatever difficulties and pains must be brought out of them, because the days to come will continue, and we must not always live in the previous pains. Be happy later in life.

Everyone is independent and has their own unique personality, so learn to be independent, don't rely on others, and slowly learn to rely on yourself for everything.

It is inevitable that a person's life will not be smooth sailing, and it is inevitable that they will experience some setbacks, ups and downs, and blows.

In life, sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, salty, this is what everyone will taste, only by tasting these, experiencing more, people will grow up, learn to be strong, and their endurance will become stronger.

There is no one who does not make mistakes, and there are few people who commit great evil. As long as you can realize your mistakes, change your mind, and change your past mistakes, you will be forgiven over time.

The path I have chosen for myself is difficult and I will not beg others for pity.

If he told you, then I think it may be that what you did went too far and really provoked this person.

Then love yourself.

Don't spoil yourself, cheer up, muster up courage, tomorrow will be better, everything can be done from scratch.