I m always in charge of him with my boyfriend?

Two people like each other but also have to leave space for each other, otherwise he will completely become you, or you will completely become him, then there will be a lack of a subject of love.

As for men, it is necessary, but the method should be particular (the specific varies from person to person), but the following points are basically applicable from 80 to 18.

1.Men have a good face, in front of his friends, be sure to give him enough face, such as: his friends come to the house as guests, be sure to serve tea, water, cooking to show your true character as a good wife;When your friend leaves, you can ask him to clean up the dishes and chopsticks and rub your back and shoulders.

2.Men have self-esteem (we don't have self-esteem, right) so don't hit his dignity too much, gentle words can also play a vigilant role (need to cooperate with Zetian's smile).

3.Don't control everywhere because of excessive suspicion, trust is the foundation of love, if a man really wants to be bad, it's also so congenitally bad, it's not something you and I can control, right?

But if men grossly violate our sovereign position or have an uprising, the idea of rebellion must be dealt with harshly and without mercy!

Hehe, the experience is explored in actual combat, and I wish half of our sisters a thousand generations of the world.

Not !!You're not his mother, so why bother him?

As I said, I think I didn't know anything when I was a kid and let my mother take care of it, but let's think about how many of us listened to adults when we were kids. The more they control, the more we will resist.

Things and things must be reversed...

If you really love him, you should give him space, and then say, he's not a kid anymore.

It's not a question of right or wrong, it's a question of whether it's good for your future, and if he doesn't have a big problem, don't worry too much about him. I'm also a man and know what it's like to be nagged by a woman. Sometimes it's not good intentions that do good things.

Miss, let me tell you, men don't like to be bound. Do men have face and dignity, you know?

My girlfriend used to like to take care of this and that, and I was really tired and felt that I had no freedom. Especially in his circle of friends, he was also laughed at.

Heard"Not so much"No?Too much concern can go in the opposite direction. Caring is not about being in charge of everything, but about being considerate.

Try to give him a little space and your relationship will be better.

It shouldn't be managed, no matter who doesn't like others to take care of it, including yourself, this is the case, pay attention to the method, and caring for him will make him love you more.

I used to have a boyfriend who loved me very much, and I loved him too.

But maybe it's young.

I just hope that he will always listen to me and not let him leave, but. Since the breakup, I have gradually realized that I care too much about things, including people, which led to the tragedy in the end.

I don't mean anything bad, I just hope you can understand that when two people are together, they are tolerant of each other. Trust each other so that it can come to a successful conclusion, and I wish you happiness.

Take a moment to think about what to do, what not to do, or how. I have time to share my thoughts with him on this topic.

This is actually a way of doing things, but the object is special.

Paying more attention to and thinking more about this aspect is also very helpful for improving one's own ideological understanding.

It might be useful to look at something like the Lady School.

Give each other some freedom, put yourself in your shoes, if your boyfriend is always in charge of you, can you stand it? The two together should be inclusive.

The tube of the tube is right.

It's not good to take care of what shouldn't be managed.

He is an adult with a mind of his own.

You don't try"Assimilation"How is he?

Take care of it at the right time, and give him a little space of his own!

There is a limit to what you can do, and once you do it, it will backfire!

The tighter you grip it, like sand, the faster it will flow. In the end there was nothing.

If she likes to care about her husband, she must be a yellow-faced woman.

Think of your boyfriend as a kite and you are the one who flies the kite, no matter how high and far the kite winds, isn't the kite line still in you and you? As long as you pull, the kite can only come back obediently. So you don't need to be too strict with your boyfriend and husband, the sand you hold in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster the sand will flow.

The more you manage him, the more annoying he becomes, the more you don't want you to take care of it, and the more you can't control it. If you don't care about him, he will think more about you in addition to your magnanimity, and he will wonder why you don't care if he doesn't love him anymore, so worry about him, you just need to hold the kite string well.

Are you willing to be managed? Do unto others as you would have them do to you.

Everyone has to have space.

It must be managed, but there must be a degree.

When men fall in love and annihilate mountains, they will release their strong possessiveness, and they don't want their women to have too much contact with other men. In fact, doing so just shows that he loves you too much and can't do without you.

In a relationship, a man is also insecure, and he will worry about the appearance of a better opposite sex around the woman. So, when confronted with a woman's circle of the opposite sex, he will show a strong sense of possessiveness.

A man is willing to sacrifice his time and "care" about women in terms of life and diet, so what are you waiting for, hurry up and marry him! In fact, irregular life and diet will bring a lot of negative effects, which I am afraid women themselves are not aware of.

And men will remind you to turn off your phone and go to bed quickly when you stay up late; Serving you a steaming breakfast when you don't have breakfast, no matter how busy you are, is a sign of love for you.

A man cares about these things because he loves you, can't live without you, and wants you to change and get better, instead of watching his partner get worse and worse every day.

There may be several reasons why your boyfriend likes to take care of you:

1. I like you and care about you. There must be this reason, if he doesn't care about you at all, it means that you are a dispensable person to him, since you are not important in his eyes, Ken Scum will not care about you.

2. Your boyfriend is more controlling. Such a person will think that since you are now his girlfriend, even if it is his property, then he should take care of you.

3. You don't give him enough security. Because he doesn't feel safe enough with you, he wants to do something to prove that you care about him, and the best way to do that is to keep in check with you and let you know that he exists.

Can you take the initiative to communicate with him and make it clear what you want? What you want is a period of freedom, what you want is to be unfettered, you can't tie yourself to him with all your heart just because you're in a relationship with him, as if you sold you to him after you fell in love with him, and you should be under her control in everything? Even if the two of you choose to fall in love, the two of you are also independent individuals, and you can't wipe out all your independent thoughts just because of who you're with.

You should tell him that each individual should have its own private space and time, otherwise there will be no need to exist in the world. If you were to be in charge of his personal life, would he be happy and satisfied? Of course, everyone should have a moral bottom line, as long as they do not harm each other and do not violate the law, everyone can behave and do things according to their own preferences, and there is no need for the other party to deliberately interfere.

Otherwise, it would have to end in a breakup.

It may be that there is a gap between the cultural level of the two of you and your mind, if so, you should be more obedient. It's not bad to be a good wife and mother. You must know the truth of home and prosperity.

Your boyfriend cares about you to prove that he loves you very much, he treats you as a child, afraid that you will be deceived in real life, you can have a good talk with him and communicate, tell him your thoughts in time, discuss things with him more, and after a long time, he will see that you are mature in all aspects, and he will rest assured that you will have less to worry about your affairs.

This is the quintessential machismo that treats you as if you were his appendage, absolutely possessive. You have to talk to him about what he has to worry about, so that he doesn't have to be suspicious and worried.

You have a good talk with him, this needs to be changed, mutual respect should be respected, love is not subordination, it is the cooperation of the consensus of the three views of an independent individual, he can't ask about everything or even make the decision.

Because he always manages and cares about it like this, you might as well break up, and you will have to die in marriage management in the future.

If it doesn't matter how big or small, he has to participate in the intervention and even make the decision, well, what about such a boyfriend is very machismo. You'll have to talk to him about it and talk to him about what you think. The two sides of love are not a question of who is attached to whom, nor is it a question of who is subordinate to whom, it is a question of mutual understanding and tolerance between the two parties.

Be respectful.

These behaviors of your boyfriend are related to his personality and upbringing, and it is difficult to change, you must either accept it or just leave. You can tell him that you don't like it and that you need to have your own free space to change him slowly, but you have to be patient because the process of changing him will be long.

If you do it right, he will take care of you, just break up, if you don't do it right, then he is for your good, just listen to him.

Say it directly, if you don't say it, it will get bigger and bigger in the future1, it may become an eternal estrangement, or it may make him unaware of his mistake, and it will become more and more intense, say, say it immediately, support you.

Find a boyfriend. When I look for a boyfriend, I will definitely find someone who loves me very much, just like me and my boyfriend, no matter what I say, he will take it to heart, but he will listen to him if he makes sense, and he is the same. But I saw a cousin-in-law who has been in charge of his sister's judgment, sometimes I really can't get used to it, my sister simply has no right to speak, I thought to my brother-in-law that day.

I asked him. I said you're a bit too much! Why don't you have the final say and don't fight for your sister's opinion!

Know how he said no.

He said that it wasn't me who was in charge of her, and that she had no heart, no idea, a man.

If my daughter-in-law has the heart of the Lord and is very promising, the man will fight for her opinion, and I listened to it, and it seems that what he said is also true.

Don't say that the Duan Na man is in charge of you, as long as you are attractive enough to him, ability.

in all respects. Basically, men won't care about you, that is, you know how many pounds and taels you have, don't think about the good, the good doesn't belong to you, so the boyfriend I look for must not exceed my ability and appearance, so that he will always spoil you, and you must have a better life in this life.

As long as you are attractive enough to a man, he will only get used to you and will not control you.