My husband s friends always mention my husband s ex girlfriend in front of me, and I want to retort

I think you should first analyze whether your husband's so-called friends are ordinary friends or friends with whom you have a good relationship If it's an ordinary friend, don't care what they say If it's a good friend If it's always in front of your ex-girlfriend I think it's a little too much You don't need to care too much It doesn't matter what others say It mainly depends on what your husband has attitude But you should mention it to your husband In fact, patience is sometimes the best** The more you try to refute them, the more they let them take advantage of the loophole I feel that you have low self-esteem and get angry, calm down and think about it, I believe you will be happy

Hey, you have to endure in front of his friends, show what a good woman you are, and fix your husband well when you get home, what are you doing, when his friends talk about your husband's former girlfriend, your husband doesn't say anything? He doesn't care about your emotions or not. I think you spoil your husband too much, a good woman is the best example for a man, you have to let your husband learn to protect your interests at all times.

His friend has a brain problem! Absolutely never seen in the world!

Later, you can ask him what he told me all this for?

Let me tell you why.

Maybe they think you look rampant, and they don't like it.

Maybe it's because his friends also take a fancy to you, like provoking your relationship.

Anyway, just smile or ask him directly why you tell me this.

Your husband's friends are simply committing a crime, making your husband treat you better than usual in front of his friends and show that he likes you very much, which can really gag their mouths!

Think about why his friend is like this? Is there something about you that they don't like? I don't think that would have happened under normal circumstances.

Everyone should avoid this topic, and as for you, it should not be talked about in front of you. It's definitely not good for you to come forward to solve this kind of thing, you should tell your husband what you think, and let your husband talk to his friends. What do you think?

It's okay to joke with your husband's friends and listen to what they have to say, so you can find the right opportunity to gag his friend's mouth.

Your husband is an emotional coward. This kind of person always listens to his mother. You're careful.

The more you don't care, the more you show your demeanor.

When he returns to your embrace (suppose), you whisper to him, "You made me jealous of that girlfriend!! Hehe!! Life requires skill and art.

Don't be so stingy, because he's your husband, it's good to have a little faith in him.

Talk to your husband and tell him what you think.

Before judging whether your husband is weak-hearted, I would like to ask you to clarify two questions, I hope you will be patient and reflect on it:

1. Do you love yourself? If so, why bother yourself with someone else's behavior for 15 years. No matter how light an object is, will you be tired if you hold it for 15 years in a row, why punish yourself like this, let it go, will it be easier?

2. Is your husband very good? If so, is he your lover now, and is it a blessing and joy to be able to be by your side?

If these two questions can be clarified, then your behavior pattern will also change, and whether your husband is weak or not can be judged, but I believe that this answer will not matter at that time. Your husband should have established a new trust and a good relationship with you.

Hope it helps. If my problem does not work well for you, I suggest that you find psychological counseling to help you solve this problem, which will make your life happier. I sincerely hope that you can overcome this hurdle and have a smooth life.

That's what's wrong with you, the past is already in the past, it's painful to remember the past, and forgetting it is the most important thing you should do now. (Did knowing all the past things about your husband help you with your love?) The more you ask your husband, the more disgusted you become, and the relationship will only get worse and worse) What you need to pay attention to is that your husband really loves you and you are right, he loves you and he needs you, which proves that your husband and his ex-girlfriend no longer have any relationship.

He's weak-hearted, because you guessed what he was thinking, so he's angry.

Summary. In this case, you can use this to make a fuss about your boyfriend, and then change his friend through him.

In this case, you can use this to make a fuss about your boyfriend, and then change his friend through him.

They all knew each other before, what should I say to my husband's friends, they all knew each other before, how should I say to my husband's friends, you said your ex-girlfriend is beautiful.

Then you can be angry with him.

Because of this, my husband and I have quarreled, and my husband has also promised to quarrel with Shengbaopi, but my husband's friends still send some things from my husband's ex-girlfriend from time to time.

Because of this, my husband and I have quarreled, and my husband has also promised to quarrel with Shengbaopi, but my husband's friends still send some things from my husband's ex-girlfriend from time to time.

Then you can tell your husband directly.

As your man, he will definitely defend you.

I now wonder how to tell my husband's friend.

I now wonder how to tell my husband's friend.

Tell him not to mention this person to my husband again.

Tell him not to mention this person to my husband again.

Yes, that's what it means.

How can I say that.

How can I say that.

It's annoying to watch.

Summary. Although I don't know what aspects he is in front of you as an advance girlfriend, it is certain that your boyfriend either doesn't want to continue dating you and lets you leave on his own, or the straight man of steel is going farther and farther on the road to death.

Although I don't know what aspects he is in front of you as a girlfriend in advance, it is certain that your boyfriend either doesn't want to continue dating you and asks you to leave by himself, or the steel straight Lu Jingnan is going farther and farther on the road to death.

As a girlfriend, you are obviously a great distress and a certain amount of damage caused to you by the jujube scriptures, Shouhe regrets Yan first, you first distinguish what kind of person your boyfriend is, if he is a responsible, very dedicated person to feelings, maybe he is in front of you girlfriend in advance is just an unintentional loss of Zen Yu, then at this time you can find him to communicate well, clearly tell him that you mind his girlfriend in advance, so that he will not mention it in the future. If, when your boyfriend advances his girlfriend, he always compares the two of you, whether he thinks that you are inferior to his ex-girlfriend or that his ex-girlfriend is inferior to you, this kind of man will break off quickly, which means that he has a problem with his quality and disrespects women.

Yes, you're absolutely right.

I told him to go to his ex-girlfriend, but he didn't go.

No matter who your husband or boyfriend often mentions your former girlfriend in front of you, the first thing that comes to mind is that he still loves me? Premise: Maybe he will have good intentions and want to use the method of agitation, or belittle you, the purpose is to make you courageous, don't always rely on others, so that you can live your own sky.

Or: He starts to think that you are still good, and sometimes he will misunderstand you because of some small things, and slowly he will compare you, think about his former girlfriend can be said to be obedient to him, maybe he regrets it now. However, there is still a difference between a girlfriend and a wife, and men often think that the woman is better to me, and I will love her well.

But have they ever thought that a girlfriend can be found casually, as long as it looks a little posed, it is pleasing to the eye, and they generally only get along for a while. My wife is different, you have to take a closer look or think about it, is this person able to live with me for the rest of his life. When you get married and have children, your married life will be goodbye to your previous life.

Will quarrel and fight over oil, salt, rice, matches, and other trivial matters in life. At this time, there will be many people who regret getting married, especially the post-80s. At this time, men think that I am not married, how good it is for my wife to be unmarried, my wife is really different from my previous girlfriend, and those who have not yet woken up will still think about the good of my former girlfriend, compared with my current wife, and the man who looks back will know that the past life is not going back.

It's real to have a good life. What would you think if your husband often mentions his former girlfriend in front of you?

Summary. The first is that your husband's ex-girlfriend is unscrupulous to chat with your husband, not exactly the ex-girlfriend's problem, if your husband knows how to refuse, he will not be so unscrupulous.

The first thing is that your husband's ex-daughter is a good friend who chats with your husband unscrupulously, not exactly the ex-girlfriend's problem, if your old friend and old husband know how to refuse, he will not be so unscrupulous and talkative.

The second is, if they chat very ambiguously, the bureau type is that you have to see if there is a problem with your intimate relationship, this situation is generally a problem with the intimate relationship between you, if there is no problem, your husband knows how to refuse, Tong Zao guessed that she would not look for you to keep this open.

Finally, you first examine your relationship, don't focus on your ex-girlfriend Lu Zhuoyou, but on your relationship, communicate with your husband, and tell him that his behavior makes you very uncomfortable, and if he cares about you, he will reject the other party.