For a boy s years of friendship are left behind, is love really more important than friendship?

Updated on society 2024-04-01
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, I've experienced the same kind of thing, I'm a party.

    At the beginning, I almost gave up my friendship for 3 years for love. My boyfriend used to like to know my best friend, but it's my sister. They broke up, it was my boyfriend who brought it up, and for a few days, he stayed with me, and I knew he liked me and I liked him.

    At the beginning, I could feel that my good sister was disappointed in me, I felt very sorry for her, and a lot of people were asking about it at the time, and I felt ashamed at that time, but when I saw my boyfriend's smile, I felt that I was not wrong.

    Friends, I think friendship is still more important than love, it's rare to have a confidant in my life! Now my boyfriend hasn't talked to me for a long time for some reason, but he hasn't proposed to break up, this kind of torture is very uncomfortable! I thought it was like a punishment from God, because I almost gave up our friendship at the beginning So, you have to cherish friendship, sometimes love will make a person blind, I don't know what is right or wrong, but after that, it is too late to regret When I am sad and sad, staying in my province has always been my sister, and my boyfriend, most of them are not by my side So, love is beautiful, but friendship is more valuable!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    True friendship is not yet a temporary love, but they want to highlight their own points, maybe it will be good after a while, because they will feel the preciousness of friendship, so they will cherish it more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why is it another 2-for-1 question? Why can't we coexist!! There's no contradiction in that!! Friendship is just as important as love!! So I hope you take advantage of it. Don't let yourself have any regrets in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is not more important than friendship, it's just that love is selfish! When this selfishness of love develops to a certain extent, sometimes friendship is always involved. But it still doesn't destroy the real friendship.

    We like the same girl, but the girl chooses you in the end, because the girl's choice is a final result. The choice of the person you like should be respected and blessed with her! But it won't hurt our friendship.

    Because of the breadth of friendship!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think that girl will forget about you, but she loves that guy too much. She was afraid that the boy would abandon him, and when he loved the boy the most. So he would see all the people as her rivals and rebuke them.

    She was carried away by love! When it's over, when she's thinking about her actions, she'll come to you and make peace.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The magic of love is really great, it can make good friends suspicious of each other, it is a very common thing, and even some make family members turn against each other, we don't easily fall into its abyss, so a lot of love has to pay a great price! Believing in your friends is only temporarily going astray! But you should still understand her more, and believe that your friendship will last forever!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love and friendship, we really can't choose, and if I really have to choose, I'd rather not either.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love: Girls will care about their boyfriends very much, they will take everything they say to heart, they will care about what their boyfriend says, they will go out shopping alone with their boyfriend hand in hand, they will kiss and so on.

    Friendship: Girls will not give a boy a hug casually, whether it is in terms of speech or behavior, they will keep a certain distance, they will not necessarily go out alone with boys, they will not hold hands with boys and other intimate behaviors, etc.

    This is my personal simple understanding, I hope it will be helpful to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can't stand it with other girls (it's normal to feel uncomfortable).

    He hasn't been with you for a few days, have you missed him, are you looking for a reason to see him after not seeing him for a few days?

    You think he is a friend, you don't have to worry about talking, you can say what you want, you won't feel that it is detrimental to your personal image, if it is love, it will not work.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is not much difference between love and friendship between men and women, they can do what they can for each other, and from the outside, if a boy is gay, he and the girl will only have a pure friendship relationship. Say it myself, to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Friendship, everyone is happy together.

    Love, two people happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The love of a girl for a boy, you will pay attention to your image and opinion in this boy's heart. As long as a guy asks you a little bit about you, you will blush and regret it. It's very casual about friendship, and you will laugh at things that affect your image.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Girls to boys, this is simple, you are in love with him, so talking to him, it will be unnatural, especially when it comes to the question of who you like, this is a secret love!

    Friend, the best thing to do is that you, as a woman, have never been treated as a man, and you can be heartless in front of him! But this kind of friendship is only on your side, if it is such a friendship, be careful whether he loves you or not!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Friendship: You have some things to say only to him, the worst side is shown in front of him and he doesn't care, he knows your good habits and bad habits.

    Love: I just want to show the good side in front of him, I will miss it, and I will know that he has someone he likes but not you, and it will be heart-wrenching like reading an abusive text.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Friendship between men and women is hard.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love is stingy, friendship is generous.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If it's love, you care about the other person being with someone of the opposite sex.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Love is a wonderful thing, and love is heartbeat. I don't know about friendship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on who the boy likes, if the boy likes you, not your girlfriend, and you happen to like that boy too, your girlfriend should bless you. It would be too narrow to sacrifice one's own happiness in exchange for friendship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You should think like this, the girlfriend who doesn't give it to you is a pseudo-girlfriend at all. Happiness has always to be earned by yourself, and there is no way to sit and wait, because there will be no delivery to the door at all.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Fight for it, what if that person likes you? At the same time, don't stiffen the relationship between girlfriends, as a boy, as long as I like one of you, the other will not fall in love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let the guy know that you like him too, let him choose, no matter what the outcome, no regrets.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Liking at the beginning does not mean that you don't like it in the future, don't have one-sided feelings, then the rest of your life will be very passive.

    If the boy prefers you, he will handle it better than you without explaining it to your sister.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You should choose love first, and then choose friendship, it is not easy to meet the person you like, love is not waiting for it, you have to fight for it yourself, and your girlfriend only likes the boy, and has not yet determined the relationship with the boy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's very negative to tell you that whoever doesn't love him will love him! It's called"Psychology of shitting"

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Decisively choose love, friendship can be found again, but you have to find someone to live a lifetime.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you want to chase it, you can chase it, and now if you don't make a move, you will be snatched away immediately.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Love will win, if you really fall in love, try to chase it, love is selfish, and what can be given is not called love. If you just like it, just let it be. If you give up for the sake of your best friend, you can only say that you are a coward in love.

    Your best friend will look down on you, too. I chased hard, but I didn't get it, at least I worked hard to fight for it, and I had a clear conscience.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's hard for you to choose, so let that guy choose. Look who that boy likes.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If the other person loves you more than you, you choose friendship, if you love more deeply, choose love. However, it is also important who the man prefers.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The person who will accompany you for a lifetime can only be your lover From this point of view, love is more important.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Taken care of. You can have both.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It depends on who the boy likes, if you don't like you, friendship comes first.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Don't believe too much in love. Friendship is destined to stay with you for a lifetime. And love is hard to say.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Whoever the man loves is whoever he loves.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Love is the most unreliable.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's not you who chooses, it's who the guy likes a little more.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    When a man says this, it is generally that he has not thought about how to deal with the relationship between the two of you, you are in an ambiguous period, he wants you to love him, but he is not ready to love you, and he does not want you to interfere with his love for other people, I understand it this way, I hope it will not hurt you!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I hope that you will be close to each other, tell each other all your secrets, and become confidants, but not love, no ambiguous relationship, and friendship forever.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Let's be red-faced! It could also be that he hasn't figured out where to put you and wants you to give him time to sort out his feelings.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    When it comes to love, it really depends on the person's character.

    But the liking is palpable.

    That person cares about you.

    If there is no concern about you.

    Sometimes I say something inexplicable.

    These are obvious;

    But friendship is really hard to distinguish.

    Boys are like that, I don't know if they really think of themselves as good friends.

    I can share this with you, my best male girlfriend, and that's how we came here.

    At first, we didn't like each other, but it turned out to be mixed up to the extent that they hooked up together, hehe, a guy plays well with you, either he has a good impression of you, or he just plays, there is no malice and no good feeling.

    If he is a friend when you are.

    He will never say anything ambiguous to you;

    He will pay attention to any of your dynamics, but will never say anything praised, which can be seen by posting Weibo and the like;

    He will swear with you without any scruples;

    He may not usually take much care of you, but he must be anxious about what happens to you.

    He will not alienate you because of other people's misunderstandings.

    He'll talk to you about every one of his favorite girls.

    He may often say, "You girl, pay attention to your image, don't be crazy like this."

    He will take care of you like an older brother when necessary.

    However, it is just friendship, and it has nothing to do with love.

    Speaking of which, I am reminded of my dear buddy.

    It's really happy to have a blue-faced confidant.

    You have to treat him like a girl if you know he's a boy.

    Remember not to be ambiguous...

    It will make the friendship deteriorate.

    I'm tired of fighting, hope

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    When another guy pursues the girl, it's easy to tell how the guy behaves.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    See if he is generally watching him from a distance.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You should respect that boy's choice, since you think he is good to you, and you have that meaning, then you should explain to him that you respect his choice, no matter who he chooses, you and that girl will always be good friends, sometimes love is great, you don't care too much about your feelings, do you know what he thinks.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's up to you, no one can help you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Love is love, friendship is friendship The key is the boy If he chooses you, and your girlfriend can't understand you, then you have to carefully consider whether to cherish such a friend, if you have tried to cherish friendship and she doesn't care, persuade you to give up friendship If she can understand, you will have a double harvest But the boy chose her, you have to analyze rationally, don't add your negative emotions to love, friendship is precious!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    There are times in life when you have to have it, and there is no time in life when you have to ask for it! ★

    Of course, choose friendship!

    If you choose love, don't talk about your friends gone. What if the man doesn't choose you in the end? What do you end up doing?

    There are times in life when you have to have it, and there is no time in life when you have to ask for it! ★

    Wishing you happiness!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Choose friendship, look at your words, you are very biased towards choosing love, but think about it, if you really choose love, it will hurt another person, and at the same time, it will make it difficult for him to be a person, and your love will not necessarily ***!!

    But if you choose friendship, you will have two points of love at the same time, and then you will not be happier???

    It's yours and yours, it's not yours, you can't get it!!

    There are a few good friends in your life, but love is missed, and it will come back because you are not really in love and do not know the outcome !!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Have you ever heard Stefanie Sun's "I Miss Him Too"?

    It's so sad...

    Ask. If you are really in love with this male.

    Then you have to make it clear to your friends that everyone is friends.

    Let the man choose. In this way, the damage to your friendship can be minimized.

    If you're not true love, then forget it, don't bother.

    If you don't become a lover, you will have more good memories in the future.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Fair competition.

    Love can't be forced, let the boy choose

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Your own happiness is the most important thing!

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