Love has depreciated, why has love become cheap?

It's not that there is no true love in real life, but that people living in real life have been influenced and become more and more realistic.

It is often said: everything looks forward! (Money).

It can be seen how important money is in people's hearts, and it is impossible to change people's perceptions. It's the same with love. Now what is playing with friends is to choose family conditions first, how to treat others with parents, and finally it is the turn to evaluate the boyfriend and girlfriend you want to choose.

I really don't understand that I'm choosing a lover? Or choose a family, or the so-called conditions!

I don't think such people have woken up yet, and don't understand what they really need.

What you need is the approval of your boyfriend's family, but it's impossible to live with his family for a long time.

Is it necessary to be financial? But there are many unhappy rich people in the world.

In the final analysis, I think the answer to this question is very simple, it depends on what the person himself is pursuing? The material conditions (money) that you don't bring in life and don't bring in death are still average, but the people you love the most will be together happily for a lifetime! Different choices lead to different lives, and the weight of money and true love is different.

Anyway, if it's me, I choose the one I love the most. Huh

I think there's some truth to what you're saying.

It's true. Realistic society, realistic people.

Forcing the person in love to think about all sorts of things.

They are under a lot of pressure.

On the one hand, there is spirituality.

On the one hand, there is matter.

If you can't get close to the saint, it's hard to control.

May you have a true love.

Society is realistic.

In fact, what you are talking about being devalued is not true love at all.

If she really loves you.

Then she won't leave you either way.

Don't confuse love with money, once the relationship comes into contact with money, even if it is true love, it will be distorted by you...

Don't think about love too complicated, think a little better, and don't be so tired, at least, there is still some space to be beautiful.

Reality can change a lot, but not all, as long as you have faith, you can do it well.

Don't beat everyone to death with a stick.

True love, what do you think about, a little bit, that is, out of 100 couples, there will probably only be a pair that is true love

Cut. Came to Xi'an to see me and my wife.

I'm very poor, and she still pesters me.

Hey, I can't help it.

Who said that, my boyfriend and I get along very well. Love should have faith to pull.

It's money that's getting more and more important.

Personally, I don't think it's that love has become cheap and priceless, the most important call is still in yourself, and your attitude towards love has undergone a fundamental change, no longer caring about love as before, but you have become more realistic, and your heart is more utilitarian.

Hello! Very happy to be able to your question, read your question description, the reason why love has changed its taste, the book is money and material trouble, now some people just pay attention to material life, the rest doesn't matter, I hope my reply can help you, I hope you can.

Summary. Twenty years ago, a few quilts and a box of dowry could make a family between two men and women who were not disgusted. Twenty years later, a bride price, a wedding, a car and a house are enough to empty the life savings of many parents.

Even love has become clearly priced. However, is the relationship that money can buy still valuable? Mr. Mu Xin wrote a poem "Once Upon a Time":

Once upon a time, the carriage and horse were very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime. Once upon a time, it took a long, long time to get from one place to another. Write a letter and send it to the person you miss, and time will stretch this concern for a long, long time.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Twenty years ago, a few quilts and a box of dowry could make a family between two men and women who were not disgusted. Twenty years later, a bride price, a wedding, a car and a house are enough to empty the savings of many parents who rented a mountain for a lifetime. Even the love type has become clearly priced.

However, is the relationship that money can buy still valuable? Mr. Mu Xin wrote a poem "Once Upon a Time": In the past, Che Ma Huizhong was very slow, and he was only enough to love one person in his life.

Once upon a time, it took a long, long time to get from one place to another. Write a letter and send it to the person you miss, and time will stretch this concern for a long, long time. Nowadays, the convenience of network communication has brought infinite convenience to our communication, but it has also inadvertently made our feelings cheaper.

Summary. A: It's related to personal experience, what you encounter sees the hypocritical side of the relationship.

It is undeniable that in relationships, whether it is love or friendship, there are elements of selfishness and artificiality. However, love and friendship are exactly two-way, that is, the more you feel that it is not worth giving, the less you can get feedback from others.

A: It's something about Xunzhen and personal experience, and what you encounter sees the hypocritical side of your relationship. It is undeniable that in relationships, whether it is love or friendship, there are elements of selfishness and artificiality.

However, love and friendship are exactly two-way, that is, the more Chunkai you feel is not worth paying, the more you can't get feedback from others.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Answer: Cheap love is what people get by this open society. In today's society, everyone is more inclined to pursue themselves, and they are also more open-minded, they don't feel that they have to spend all their energy on a person, and if it's not suitable for love, they will quickly choose to give up, which is also the reason for today.

Mu Xin's "Once Upon a Time" wrote: "In the past, the sun became slow, the car, the horse, and the mail were slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime."

And nowadays, people can change objects several times a year, and it is not much sad to fall out of love, maybe they have never taken it seriously. I don't deny that there is beautiful and sincere love in the world, which is what I have always longed for, but there are few such feelings.

Recently, some classmates around me took off their singles, and the speed was too fast, I didn't understand it at all, I felt that they didn't understand love. In their eyes, I feel that love has become cheap. Without a deep understanding of each other, they are together when they see each other, get along first, and break up when they find that they are not suitable in the process of getting along.

This is most people's view of love. I just think it's naïve and treats love as a family.

I think that love is the process of two people getting to know each other, knowing each other, and falling in love with each other. Probably that's why I'm single to this day, because I've always felt that no one can understand me. My friend advised me that I should try more, but I didn't understand, love is not a game after all.

Maybe I haven't experienced it, so I really don't understand. Or maybe I regard love too sacred, so I don't allow failed love, so I haven't dared to try, and when I meet someone who likes me, as long as I feel that the other party is not interesting to me, I will stay away with interest.

Yes, many people do not hesitate to sell their souls for the sake of so-called love, which is not right. Girls can't be as rational as boys in the emotional world, and once they fall in love, they completely become a love brain, and they only have the person they like in their eyes and become centered on him. Such girls are often easily hurt, and they love too humbly.

In love, there are girls who are very humble in front of a man because they love him too much and are afraid that you will upset the other person if you don't do it well. As long as the other party says a word, you will try your best to satisfy him, and even silently endure the ambiguity and deception with others. Women naturally need more protection, and I believe that most girls crave to be loved and cared for, but for a variety of reasons, they choose to be someone who loves others.

In order to keep a man, he will not hesitate to give up the opportunity to be loved and pursued. The essence of love is to attract each other, and girls should also improve their viewing value. They can't always keep their boyfriends coming back, so it's easy for your feelings to lose their freshness.

Once the boy loses interest in you, cheating happens all the time.

It has been suggested that girls should make themselves better and have enough value to attract each other so that they are willing to treat you, even adore you, and find ways to please you. Love is not blindly pleasing each other, but it is too humble, and it must be themselves who are hurt in the end. When some girls start falling in love, they think that the other person is important, always pay attention to each other's preferences and needs, and blindly cater to each other.

Even if they don't like habits, they still pursue integration, which is highly undesirable. If the girl does this, you will not be happy in this love.

When you fall in love, you should pay attention to your feelings. You can seek common ground while reserving differences, but you don't have to blindly cater to them. This will only make the boys feel relaxed and enjoy your paycheck.

In other words, the biggest taboo in a girl's relationship is to put her status too low. Such a girl will make a man feel "cheap", a man will have a "curious" mentality, and what is too easy to get will not be cherished. A girl who won't love herself first, a man who won't take you seriously.

Only when he loves others and loves his own girls will he make men think that you are attractive enough.

Yes, now it's also because people are under more pressure, and now people have been hurt in their previous relationships, so it's very cheap.

No, love is still enviable now, real love is very rare, and most of it hurts others in the name of love.

I don't think that today's love has become cheap and unbearable, because I think there is still a lot of love that we should yearn for and appreciate.

It's that people nowadays have a cheaper and cheaper attitude towards love, just looking at money.

No way? Isn't love getting rarer and more precious? People are becoming more and more impetuous.

Love is not so beautiful, when you really love, there is sadness and sadness, there are smiling faces to greet and eclipsed, don't be sad for a while, time knows?

When I grew up, I came out of the fairy tale plot, and after I got married, I came out of my feelings, and I came to reality, and I started to work hard with my family, I believe too much that love is born as an emperor and I am not happy, think about what the ending of Wu Zetian's children is!

Love hasn't changed, it's people who have changed. The more people grow up, the more they feel that love is cheap, and the more they have experienced, they will not take love too seriously.

No, it's just that some people have distorted its true meaning. Take money too seriously and have too little value in life. Love is a deal, and in fact true love is supreme.

No, it's that society is changing, and there is too much money and love, after all, it's money that has the final say?

Love that truly loves each other is valuable for today's life, enviable, the idea of love becoming cheap depends on how you understand it, some people have loved and hurt, some people have grown up from it, some people have learned from it, and only after experiencing it can they know whether love is sweet or bitter, maybe it's not that love is cheap, it's that people are now less and less sincere to love.

Genuine, "genuine" love will not fall in price at any time. It's just that there are too many "fake and shoddy" so-called "love" now, so it will seem cheap! ~

There is no such thing as cheap love, it just depends on whether what you like is humble and whether you pay for the feeling of unequal.

No. True love is priceless at all times.

How do you know this thing has always existed?