Online dating, discovered by the mother, is very complicated, psychological problems

People on the Internet are really mixed, especially people who talk about sex with a junior high school girl on the Internet, they should be more boring and irresponsible. Don't indulge in web chats, there are more bad people than good people. Admit your mistakes to your mother and concentrate on your homework.

Mom doesn't need to be very sad, you see your mother sad and anxious, it means that you are a sensible and good girl. No one will make mistakes, the world is so complicated, sooner or later you have to come into contact with the external environment, you can't live in a vacuum bottle forever. You also have to judge the good or bad of the world through your own eyes, and you can't avoid getting lost for a while, so you must keep your eyes open in the future.

It's good for mom to help you correct it, self-blame is what you should have, and if you sincerely regret it, you can really stop doing it in the future.

In fact, you don't have to blame yourself, sooner or later you have to be familiar with the issue of sex, the more confused you are, the more you want to know, it's best to know a little bit about sex when you're just getting in touch with it. But there's not much to know. Don't try it either.

lest you hurt yourselves. There are many parents in China who are still in the conservative stage, try to communicate with their mothers as much as possible, and I don't think your mother will blame them. You are still in the formative stage and cannot go deep into it, so as not to affect your physical and mental health.

In fact, as long as you don't go online anymore, your mom will be happy. You also have to apologize to your mother. Don't feel inferior, it's not good for your physical and mental health. As for forgiving yourself, just make your mom happy, and the mood will naturally be much better!

Let's talk to my mother, why don't you go out to the supermarket, go shopping...A word from the family....

You've been deceived, you're dangerous!

If you are not very confident, participate in group activities more.

Learn the experience of Oriental Qimen.

In today's society, there are all kinds of techniques, and they are endless. The various study classes are mixed. It dazzles easy-to-learn lovers, and it is difficult to distinguish between authenticity and falsehood! It has caused many students to work hard and lose money, go astray, and give up halfway! I'm one of them.

Find a woman to get married, and live a small life.

Consider seeing a psychiatrist to quit internet addiction. But psychologists, in this kind of counseling, do not give a moral position. Therefore, you still need to use family affection to influence your mother.

Find out who this man is, and then you warn him.

Online dating is not just limited to college students, on the contrary, if college students not only make friends online but also maintain normal social relationships, then online dating is not a problem. Depending on the question you ask, what you are trying to convey means....Are there any negative effects of online dating among college students? I also guess that if it is caused by my normal social interaction, then it may be due to psychological fragility, autism or low self-esteem, which also has a lot to do with people's personalities, and cannot be generalized.

The solution is still the old Chinese medicine, participate in more group activities, look at finding a dead friend or fall in love, this is the fastest way (personally think), so that you have the initiative to quickly change from an individual to a team-like life, the role of these people is absolutely irreplaceable for our own parents, I think you can understand. And simple, this is not a big problem, and by the time you find the problem, the problem has already begun to be solved.

Personal opinion I hope it helps.

Remember to be cautious in online dating, there are many online ** now, especially girls, they should be more cautious and strengthen their psychological defense. Many people choose online dating because they don't have a lot of close friends in reality.

Usually, these types of people choose online dating.

1. People with a withdrawn personality.

2. People who are not satisfied with the status quo.

3.People who are looking for novelty.

4.People who are in a depressed mood.

For what to make friends, and what kind of attitude to treat netizens, this is where the psychology of online dating is more likely to go wrong!

I think it's better to be a netizen.

She's also worried about you, the starting point is good, but the method is wrong. I think it's okay for me to make friends, but I don't want to make bad friends.

How old are you, you are male or female. First of all, you have to understand that your mother doesn't let you have sex, do you know the complexity of this society, you are too simple, afraid that you will come out and be deceived, you know? That's caring for you.

I know you want to have friends of your own, but you have to talk to your mom, you know? I hope you're making good friends. Don't get hurt.

Because I'm afraid that you will make a bad friend by mistake. My mom too... I don't have any freedom at all ...

Don't let you make bad friends, it's not that you don't make friends.

Hello, I can't bear you, I want to keep you for a few more years! When you're older, your mom will be anxious to talk to you!

Most of your parents are like this, afraid that you will meet a scumbag!!

I guess the focus is not on the relationship itself, nor on what other people are doing, but on your heart. You may lack confidence and affirmation in your heart, you don't believe that you are worthy of love enough, and you lack these things in your heart, so people tend to attach too much importance to others' attention and recognition of themselves, as well as the closeness of friends, and easy to doubt your relationship with others, which is also sensitive. Sometimes it's like putting on a search glass and a magnifying glass, and in your relationships, you will actively look for information that others don't value you and alienate you, and at the same time zoom in on this information to confirm your inner thoughts, and may also selectively (unconsciously) ignore those information that others express value and intimacy.

Therefore, if you don't deal with your own inner problems, even if the problems with A and B are solved, the problems with CDEFG will appear, which is probably the reason why you suffer from gains and losses and dare not introduce your friends to other friends. I think it might be helpful to think about this aspect of your personality seriously, and it's the kind that cures the root cause, which is what we often call spiritual growth, and the improvement of interpersonal experiences and relationships will be the result of it.

I hope I have expressed my thoughts clearly, and I hope it will be helpful to you. In fact, according to my experience, it is not uncommon for you to have such a phenomenon, and there are many people who feel the same way as you, which is related to the growth experience of a similar culture. At present, it does not seem to be a serious psychological problem, so there is no need to worry too much.

Bless you!

I'm a social worker, so I'm going to throw a brick.

I don't think you have a psychological problem, but the landlord should be normal about things and people. Don't make unnecessary troubles for yourself for some hours, I think the landlord should be very young, or you won't be confused in this regard, what you said is nothing, they have a good relationship, then also iabushi because of your introduction, they will remember that you accept oh they know, will be grateful to you, and you can rest assured that although they have not told you!!

You have considered it a psychological problem, indicating that your heart is clear and the problem should not be difficult to solve. From my personal point of view, you are a more careful and sensitive person, and you may not be able to let go of things, so it is recommended that you put aside your prejudices and treat your friends sincerely and tolerantly, and at the same time communicate more is the best way. I'm sure you'll soon have a close friend.

You should communicate with them more.

If you are really ruthless and good friends.

Your friendship won't be so fragile.

Don't get too careful.

Relax your mind.

It's not that A and B are friends, it's not your friends, and there is no limit to the number of friends.

It's good to have a calm mind, as long as you are sincere, you will not lose friends.

I've had that experience too

From a psychological point of view, you belong to normal psychological fluctuations. It does not rise to the category of psychological problems.

You can think about this from another angle, let's assume that after A and B got to know each other through your introduction, there were some mustards, and the contradictions between them were particularly obvious. What do you think?

A mentally healthy person is also psychologically ambivalent. A broad-minded person can suppress some contradictions without conflict. The situation you just mentioned can be counted as a person with low self-esteem from a psychological point of view.

Don't be afraid of losing friends, and don't be afraid of ignoring the feelings of these two friends for you because of the acquaintance of A and B. A friend is not the same as a lover. The two sides are not the only one, they are not one-way.

My personal suggestion is that instead of worrying about the pain of losing a friend in your heart, you should try to understand your friend's personality and hobbies. Do what you like.

Friendships are maintained with heart, not by immersing themselves in the acquaintances of the past.

Yes, possessiveness ...

I was the same when I was in elementary school.

However, now that I figured it out, at that time, I should have spent all day hanging out with them and not thinking about it.

You should understand that there are many things around you that need you, and many people need you, so don't make yourself uncomfortable for such a trivial thing at all.

Maybe after a while, you will find yourself naïve.

However, if it's really serious, you'll need to see a psychiatrist because it's completely affecting you!!

I was going to see a psychiatrist at that time.

I understand it's painful.

It's a typical psychological gap, hehe, I'll have it too.

Originally, you were the link between the two parties, the object of both parties' attention at the same time, but one day, when you find that the most important thing in the eyes of both parties is no longer you, but a b, mutual attention, and the first thing you feel is loss.

Secondly, it is a kind of injustice, which should be beautiful about yourself, how good you are, meet such good two friends, and let them get to know each other.

You can go around in a circle, and you don't matter anymore, hehe.

1.Two friends are always talking about you because they know each other because they have you.

2.And so you're really powerful, because the three of you become the Iron Triangle, and you're the most important part in the middle, the strongest part.

3.You don't have anything to lose, it's just that you, two strangers like you, become friends, and you're still good, and you can keep meeting new people, rather than through very fixed introductions.

4.Remember the above three things, you are the most powerful, but in the future, everything can be done in moderation, because excessive kindness and kindness are the same, rather than being overly kind and sad afterwards, it is better to hold a normal heart, the sky is high, the birds are flying, the sky is mighty, and the eternal things are only for a moment.

Hehe, happy didn't smile.

You may be placing too much importance on your friend's place in life.

I think it's normal for friends to change their intimacy.

It's also natural.

It's just a possessive desire you have for your friends.

Through your words... I think you cherish your friends.

So you're afraid of losing.

But you have to remember. A true friend doesn't leave you just because you have a new friend.

You can't be too careful. Otherwise, it will be easier to hurt your heart.

Psychologically, oh, friends are all the same, maybe you feel that their relationship is better, you abandoned it. Actually, they probably still care about you. Or maybe they're talking a little more, don't think about it and talk to your friends more.

I think you'll take care of it, just calm down, huh?

If it really "affects life" as you say:

I don't think it's a question of friends, it's about not knowing "friends" well. It's not good to take friends too seriously and too lightly, friends are not built between one or two people, maybe you think it's better to have a good relationship with them, but they don't necessarily think so!

Some friends just know each other simply, and they only communicate and help --- ordinary friends.

And some friends are sincerely concerned and even criticize, between them personal gains and losses are not important, friends are their whole--- this is a true friend.

True friends don't have to be together to talk and laugh, but if you have a problem, they won't shirk when they can help you. Don't treat all your ordinary friends as if they were real friends, because you will be tired and you will not be able to judge the difference between real friends and ordinary friends in the long run.

Now what you have to do is to give your friends a position, see which are your ordinary friends, and those are the friends you should really use your heart to socialize, don't be selfish to want to have a real friend, learn to let go of your friends may use his own circle, don't use yourself as the center of the circle and let everyone revolve around you; Regardless of how you do it, remember that "rewards come with pay"!

Hehe, for a while, I also had this kind of heart like you, but you have to think about it, they didn't know each other, but through you, then the three of you will not be good friends, not one less friend, but one more friend for others!

I often stage the image of A or B, so I have a voice. The reason is that A and B are very talkative, they have more common language, but they don't mean to snub you, on the contrary, they feel very close to you.