What if you don t want to give up someone who should give up?

Now that it has been determined, it should be abandoned. If you don't want to give up again, you have to give up too!! It's good for you and for everyone!

The fundamental reason why you don't want to give up is that you still want to get and possess. However, you have to understand: you can't get each other, you have no fate. If you die, you will naturally be able to give up.

Now it seems that the beautiful feelings that can't be given up will disappear in a short period of time after you are really together, and will be replaced by endless troubles, so don't worry about the mirage, after all, this is a very empty thing, you have no fate, you can't get him, giving up and turning back is your best choice now.

Put the energy generated by this concern and pain into finding new love, and live well, love your loved ones, your friends, and those who need your love. At this time, the other party has become more of a shackle for you to lose your freedom, get out of here, work hard, move forward bravely, and say goodbye to the past!!

Live bravely, work hard! A true lover is waiting for you ahead.

If you still have troubles and unhappiness, welcome to contact me in my space!

You all know that you should give up, that means you don't love him as much as you imagined, just get used to the feeling of loving him, I advise you to give up, it is a relief for yourself, because I have experienced it, and now I am very happy

Never believe in the saying that distance produces beauty. Different things happen in different places. Nothing can be predicted. My opinion, if you can't be in the same place, then it's better to give up.

Since it is time to give up, then give up

It's like sand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it drains

As long as you believe that you have no one and no one, you can have a good time.

Then let the time fade slowly.

Heaven does not follow people's wishes. The reality is that it is very helpless. How powerful is true love!??

I say to you: I don't know what to do.

You say, "You don't."

You say, "Who can get away with the water and the glass?"

I said, "There is nothing to be done."

You sigh. I sighed too.

Then, speechless...

Since you want to give up, the other party must have disappointed you to the end, and you can't see any hope.

Love is very painful, and each other is tormented.

Since you are unhappy, since you have no hope, then give up.

There are many people in life who will become passers-by, and some people will leave you wounds in your heart, but time will ** everything, and those wounds will scar after pain and leave a mark, many people call it a sealed memory.

Every encounter has the opportunity to make you a better version of yourself.

The reason why I chose to give up is because time has taught you that if you are together, there is no result, so let it go bravely.

Thank you for meeting and thanking for the company of the past, so that you can understand more clearly what you want.

Let you be brave and resolute after walking a distance in confusion, not being swayed by the company of the world, still being yourself, following your heart's choice to give up the inappropriate, giving up not enough love.

As the saying goes, no one is perfect, and as the saying goes, there is a lover's eye for him.

Everyone has flaws, and the reason why they are downplayed is because we love them too much, and all we see in our eyes is their perfection, and even small things like hiccups will feel extremely cute.

Because of love so love, because of love so you are the most perfect.

Your strengths, your weaknesses, are your characteristics in the eyes of your lover, and they are your first and only label.

The reason why I gave up is nothing more than the sudden discovery that those spots in life make you an ordinary person.

The best way to forget a person is to find what interests you, devote yourself to the things you like, divert your attention, keep yourself in a happy state, fill your time, and be busy every day, and if you don't have time to think, you will naturally forget.

A good way to do this is to party more with friends, go to hi, watch movies, karaoke, etc.

You can also take a solo trip, change to an unfamiliar environment, your mood will be different, and many things will suddenly open up during the journey.

Participate in various training courses, improve your temperament, and let yourself ignore each other in the tedious study.

Reading, reading can cleanse the soul, will immerse you in words, and suddenly open up to certain things, certain people.

Why do most sons now prefer to be with their parents-in-law and hate living with their parents?

Why are some people who would rather end their lives than go on with it?

It may take a few years, or it may not be able to let go for a lifetime.

After a relationship is over, it is not easy to completely let go of a person, of course, if the relationship is not really invested in it, it is improvised, then it does not belong to this category. Because you are not invested in real feelings, it makes no difference whether you break up or not, there will be no pain, but there will be no happiness.

Notes:Everyone will experience acquaintance, love, and separation, from strangers to familiar to strangers, which is a transformation of feelings and an experience of growth in life. Although love is a beautiful thing, we must also treat love correctly, especially after the loss of love, we must make ourselves come out of the negative state as soon as possible, so as to face a better tomorrow in this world.

1. To give up someone who doesn't love you, you first need to recognize the reality and eliminate the expectations in your heart.

Whether a person loves you or not, you can completely see it, and you know it very well in your heart. When a man starts to perfunctory you, preferring to play with his phone rather than ignore you, you should understand that the love between you has begun to die. The reason why it is difficult to give up a person who does not love you is because you don't want to face the reality in your heart and have some expectations, always thinking that he still loves you.

Therefore, to abandon someone who does not love you, you must learn to recognize reality and eliminate your expectations of your relationship from now on.

2. To give up someone who doesn't love you, you need a ceremonial goodbye.

When you recognize the reality and eliminate the expectation of reunion, you can make a ceremonial goodbye to your past, you can choose to resolutely cut off your connection, and all relevant memories will be dusted. After you finish this ritual, you will completely die and have nothing to do with him.

3. Give up someone who doesn't love you, you need to enrich yourself.

When you have nothing to do, you feel empty, which infinitely magnifies your sadness, and when you are busy to fill yourself, your emotions are naturally relieved. In addition to diverting one's attention, enriching oneself can also improve oneself, and when oneself is greatly improved, you will see many things more thoroughly.

First of all, you need to be clear that you are only in a relationship at the moment, so there is still room for reversal. But if you have already received a marriage certificate, a friendly reminder that divorce is to divide property, think twice.

Then, you have to ask yourself, is it really not in love or because you have been together for a long time, but you don't pay so much attention to it, think clearly, because there is no shortage of thoughtlessness, and you can't let go of it after a breakup, but often there is no regret medicine in the world.

If you have decided that you are not in love, then you also need to think about what you have given in the relationship, and if you have given too much in the early stage, then you should weigh whether it is worth giving up what you have already paid.

Then, from the other person's point of view, from his own conscience, did the other person give a lot in this relationship? If he is so good to you, how can you be willing to give up such a person? Will he meet a better one if he gives up?

In the end, maybe if you don't love it, you don't love it, you want to separate, and you have thought it through, then, you just say break up, explain why you don't love anymore, explain why you can't go on, and break it off to meet the next true relationship.

Don't give up on that person you don't want to give up yet, do you know why?

I often hear people say that broken mirrors cannot be reunited, and reconciliation cannot be the same. But don't forget, there is a long time to meet again in life, and you can regain what you lost. To be honest, no relationship is smooth sailing, and a long-term and stable relationship needs to be constantly run-in to the end.

I've found that most people like to live in their comfort zone and want to avoid or cover up problems instead of solving them. So how can there be two people in this world who are perfectly suitable? If you replace the next one as soon as it doesn't fit, you will almost never get a long-term and stable marriage.

If there is no principled problem between you, just a separation caused by poor communication, and you are still hesitating and struggling to keep it, then think about those good experiences and good memories, think about whether you really want to give up on her, really want to make this person disappear into your world forever?

If you really want to understand this question, you can make any choice, but don't regret it, don't be discouraged, because the world is big, and some people may never see each other again if they miss it.

If you are in a state of torment and have seen this patiently, then you can thank fate for allowing you and me to meet, because I will reverse the problems in your heart from a different perspective. You'll notice that I've put the word "effort" in double quotation marks, which doesn't mean I'm denying the effort you put into it, but I do question the correctness of the effort. The answers to many questions, and many people's thoughts are directed towards each other, and they all regard each other as the center of their thinking.

However, at this time, when we focus on the other person, it is easier to ignore our own problems, so that we do not have a rational enough judgment of the whole relationship, then we don't know how to deal with ourselves.

Because he is very sincere to you, and he likes you very much, and he cares about you very much, and if you leave such a person, then you will become very disappointed.

It's because if you really give up on him, you will definitely regret it in the future, so you can't give up easily.

It is indeed very difficult to find someone you like, you must cherish it, don't give up easily, it is indeed more difficult to meet the next one.