He was with me and there was only sympathy, what should I do?

Or rather, I miss you, I want to hear your voice. The reason why he says that he is with you because he sympathizes with you is because he is going to leave you temporarily, but he doesn't know how long it will be temporary. I don't know if your relationship can withstand such a test, and I don't want you to wait for him all the time.

To know. Waiting for someone is the hardest He is afraid that he will not be able to give you so much happiness and laughter, and he is afraid that you will be sad if you see other couples doing what they like to do together in pairs, and you will be sad because he is not around so he can't do it. He doesn't want to see you take on it all.

That's why he said that to you. Nothing else. Don't guess.

This kind of love is actually great, and that is when you can't give happiness to each other. I can only choose to let go very helplessly. And then watch each other go to find happiness.

I don't see it, you chase him too much and make him feel very uncomfortable, you chase him so hard, how can he make you sad? He calls you every day because he understands you and understands your infatuation with him, he just treats you as a friend, and the cruel point is that he pities you, although others are good, but the method is still not good, that is, he is about the relationship between you, the method used is not good, which leads to your further pursuit of him, the mistake is many, I have also had your kind of feeling, the best solution is to completely forget him, remember this feeling. It's good for him, it's hard, but it's the best.

You've been chasing him for so long and he hasn't been moved, there's no need to continue. Start all over again, you are still you, and what awaits you will be true happiness. Wishing you a happy day.

Men chase women, if the woman doesn't like the man at first, she may like it later. But if a woman chases a man, if the man doesn't like the woman at the beginning, he may not be able to do so in the future, because the man's heart is harder!

I think you should understand that going to be a soldier is equivalent to squatting in half a cell, women are rare animals in that, I think the reason why you hit you after being a soldier is because you are lonely in the army, and you want to find someone to vent your inner desire for the opposite sex, of course, this is just a personal guess!

Love can only be treated with a seven-point heart", I think this sentence is true. You take love too seriously, but it is easy to be calculating, suffering from gains and losses, and being too sensitive! You say:

I often think that as long as I can be with him, even if he doesn't like me, I am willing." I think this is completely wrong, if the relationship loses the support of appreciation and liking for each other, the taste will change. You love him, he doesn't love you, and this kind of life will be even more sad than you think now!

Cutting through the mess quickly and not getting out of the water is the best way to comfort yourself! Of course, feelings can be cultivated, and I absolutely agree with this. But now that he is going to be a soldier, he is even farther away from you, not to mention cultivating feelings, it is very difficult to even meet him, and he doesn't like you very much, this ......

Now he is better for you, I think it is only a short-term phenomenon caused by you who are far away now and are not easy to meet! For example, if you quarrel with your parents a lot at home, and then you go to live in another city, and after a while you talk to your parents, I think you will become much gentler!

In fact, human nature is cheap, and he often doesn't cherish the things in front of him too much, so he is good to you in ** now, and he may not be good to you after he comes back!! Well, finally I wish you to find your own mr right and find your own happiness!

These are all typed word by word by myself, and there is absolutely no copy of any information, so if there is no better answer, you might as well give it to me!

He has never liked you, if he really likes you, he won't make you so sad Sad He should have just gone to the army, the environment is very unfamiliar, and you like him and have been waiting for him, so you have become dependent on you In fact, you should not focus on him, contact more with the people around you, find something to do if you have nothing to do, don't think about him all the time, and slowly you won't miss him so much!

You are so stupid, this matter is clear, he has no favorite person now, so he hangs on you, and he also says, whether he wants you or not, he is not wrong, such a man, what are you waiting for him to do, long pain is better than short pain. How nice it would be to find someone who loves you.

Change your mobile phone number, from now on each passerby, he takes his Yangguan Road, you cross your single-plank bridge, come back in a few years, it's just a cloud of smoke.

Cut off all contact with him for a while, and then see his reaction, and he will tell the truth, listen to me.

He also told me that you really want to wait for me like this, if one day you like someone else, and you meet someone good, you can find someone I won't blame you.

Bright spot. According to the analysis of normal people, it is because of sympathy, and sympathy is spoken. I think LZ knows the result, right?

It's a man, if the woman you like is waiting for you.

Will be happy. It won't be like him.

There are many good men in the world.

If you really have something you can't think of.

Go check out my post. You'll understand a lot.

It's not like this without emotion It's not so much emotionless than no feeling, maybe you're not suitable to be a partner Friends Tiezi is a choice.

Love doesn't have to be deliberately striving.

It's yours, it's yours after all.

In short, be happy.

Warm and cold self-aware. If you think it's good, stick to it.

If it's bad, give up.

Good luck.

If it's yours, he'll be yours!!

It's not yours, even if you're trying!!

Ay! There are some things that cannot be forced.

There are many things in this world that are worthy of sympathy, but the feelings that are worth a person's giving all to love a person should not be sympathyRather, it should be true love. Love that is built out of sympathy tends to diminish as compassion slowly decreases. The two of them will also slowly feel emotionally alienated.

There are only two reasons why you sympathize with him, the first is because the other party has something missing, and he is not able to talk and laugh like us ordinary people. The part of him that he lost was what you thought was important, but he didn't. You're scared because you don't know how you're going to live without that important thing.

But the other side is a stark example. Perhaps he is now hitting a wall or being traumatized by this lack of information. And you, a man who has everything, think he is too pitiful and want to protect him, I want him not to work so hard.

The second is that he loves you too much, and he seems pitiful when he loves you. Your behavior of delaying and giving a reply, his behavior of trying to chase you, he is always being troubled by your various behaviors, but he still did not leave, did not leave. He is so humble in his love for you.

You may think that this man is so pitiful, and you really sympathize with him, why should you like someone who doesn't like him or doesn't like him enough. At this time, you begin to sympathize with him, and find that he likes yourself, and you have begun to pay attention to him slowly because of sympathy. But that's just a matter of attention.

Sympathy will not last long in love, and love based on sympathy is also easy to collapse. When love collapses, you will understand that sympathy is not the same as love, and love that begins because of sympathy is not destined to last long.

The painful experience of torturing each other. Because sympathy together is an act that is irresponsible to both parties and will not be happy. There is only sympathy, but no love, and such feelings are vulnerable.

Sympathizing with others and being with others, this experience can be said to be not very happy, the heart is just to pity a person, and does not like the other person at all, then you will not feel happy after being together.

Because of sympathy for others to be with him, first of all you have to understand that this is not love, you see it as a weak person, so you are with her.

Being with him out of sympathy for others is, first of all, irresponsible to each other. Because it is not a heartfelt liking and love, the experience should be regret, plus self-blame.

Being with someone because of sympathy for him often makes me feel like I have made the wrong choice, which is more emotionally draining.