When friendships and interests conflict, what choices do you make?

In the workplace, we strive to protect the interests of the company. However, some friendships will always be contrary to our interests and create conflicts. What should I do about this?

Some people hesitate because of this, and some people even choose to take risks, and ultimately harm others and themselves. So, what's the right thing to do? Let's take a look at the following example.

A fruit company is preparing to buy a large number of oranges to reserve raw materials for the next season's canned production. When the business manager Liu Shangwei announced the decision, his friend Li Tao came over. Li Tao told him that one of his relatives happened to have a batch of oranges in his hands, and hoped that Liu Shangwei could make this business with his relative.

Liu Shangwei promised to inspect it first and see the situation before making a decision.

However, Li Tao's relatives' oranges did not comply with the company's subscription standards and regulations. Li Tao pleaded with Liu Shangwei: "Although his oranges are a little problematic, they are only part of the situation and have little impact.

As long as you can cooperate, it is easy to discuss. I hope you can see our face and help subscribe to this batch of oranges. ”

Liu Shangwei said to him solemnly: "Although we have a very good relationship, feelings belong to feelings, and work belongs to work, and this is a matter of principle, and we cannot be sloppy in the slightest. If I subscribe to this batch of oranges because of our relationship, it will damage the interests of the company, which is not good for you and me, and may cause unnecessary trouble.

Hope you understand! Of course, I will also try my best to use my circle of friends to help him shout and see if there is a suitable seller. After listening to Liu Shangwei's earnest words, Li Tao expressed his agreement.

I have to say that Liu Shangwei's approach is in line with the most basic value judgment of a person in the workplace. He did not violate his principles because his friend asked for face, but refused solemnly. In short, he chose the interests of the company between friendship and the interests of the company, and did not give face to his friends, which is a manifestation of the overall situation.

In fact, everyone in the workplace should have this awareness. When friendship and interests conflict, how should we choose? Many people may not know what to do, and nine out of ten people will hesitate.

But we should understand that if we hurt our interests, we may hurt more, and our friendship may not be maintained. Only by safeguarding the interests of the company can we pave the way for better development of friendship. So, if friendship conflicts with personal interests, how to choose?

Since you are very iron, why don't you forgive him for once? Because he must be bothered by it at the moment!! Hit a ** and tell him it's nothing. He will never make the same mistake again!! You'll be more iron!!

I've experienced this kind of thing myself, and it's my choice of profit. Maybe think I'm not buddy enough, but ......Anyway, it's all over, and I'll be kind to every friend.

I wish you a speedy escape from this matter! A wonderful life awaits us!!

We still need friends in our lives, and love and friendship are not contradictory.

Love seems to have always been defined as possessive and irreplaceable, so most of the attitudes in front of love are absolutely private, and they will always unconsciously put love at a high level, imagining it as the only pure place in a long life.

It is precisely because of these thoughts that they decide to keep their distance from their friends of the opposite sex, which is called "avoiding suspicion". But they ignore one point, friendship is also the only one in a long life, in ancient times, "death and life are broad, and Zicheng said; Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son" is meant to celebrate friendship, not the love of men and women.

For my part, I would choose to keep in touch with my friend of the opposite sex, because he has been present in my life for too long.

Our two families live very close to each other, we have known each other since childhood, and it was he who has been with me throughout my youth and youth. He never disliked me when I was full of pimples, patiently helped me answer my questions when I didn't do well in exams, accompanied me to skip class, accompanied me to chase boys, passed notes, and even accompanied me through the first relationship ...... my life

I'm glad I met him before I met true love, and for me, his company is as warm as family. In fact, the feelings that real friends of the opposite sex and their partners bring to you are completely different, in love, you will quarrel because of the disagreement with each other, and the disagreement between friends just gives you an extra angle to look at the problem; Love will make you get carried away and want to do something crazy for each other, while friends will always be dull, and cherish it; Love is sweet first and then bitter, while friendship is bitter and then sweet; There will be a lot of demanding requirements in love, and friendship is about mutual tolerance.

Therefore, the existence of a true friend of the opposite sex will only make your world more complete.

Love him well, and then, also live well, and what keeps a person is never humble, but living well and independently. "So, you don't have to give up your friends of the opposite sex because you love him, you just have to be yourself.

And the person who really loves you and knows how to appreciate you will not mind you because of the existence of your friends of the opposite sex.

Faced with the situation of being cheated by friends, we should take the following measures:

1.Be calm and objective: When faced with such a situation, we need to calmly analyze and find documents and evidence to prove what happened. Make sure you make the right rational judgments and attitudes, and not be emotional or impulsive.

2.Communicate with friends: Express your grievances and concerns to your friends and try to find a solution that is satisfactory to both parties. If there is a misunderstanding, both sides should sit down and talk so that they can understand each other's position and reach a consensus.

3.Call the police: If you can't negotiate with a friend to resolve the matter, you may need to seek legal assistance. In this regard, it is necessary to understand the legal terms and procedures to understand which defendants have the best chance of resolving the dispute.

4.Seek support: If you feel like you can't put together valid proof, you may need to find a privacy agreement for co-generated images and files between witnesses or users on social platforms to prove the authenticity of what happened.

In short, in the case of being deceived by friends, it does not mean that we must throw everything away without hesitation, or express fierce emotions stupidly. We should calmly analyze and communicate in good faith to find a suitable solution. If the situation is serious, you may need to seek legal aid and other support to protect your rights and interests.

Friendship and love are really hard to measure, and every loss is a pain for yourself. It has been said that men exchange friendship for love, while women reject love with friendship.

Friendship: Friendship is a responsibility, not an opportunity.

Friendship is based on mutual trust, sincerity and communication between two people, friendship is a pleasant exchange of souls, and it can be heart-to-heart.

Love means that men and women understand each other, respect each other, support each other, care for each other, learn from each other's strengths, comfort and consideration.

Friendship and love really can't be compared. Don't refuse love because of friendship, friendship, don't be afraid if you conflict with your own love, just play fairly. Because love is for life.

Only two people who truly love each other can be together. If your friend doesn't even understand this, you have to give it up. But if it takes a long time, he will understand, as long as you pay attention, he will come back.

Of course, you should strive for it.

Even if you are a friend, don't give up easily when you meet someone you like.

Love doesn't need to be polite.

Whether it is a friend, a relative, a girlfriend, or a classmate, as long as there is no interest relationship, then it is all good.

You see who has a really good relationship, I've never seen such a good relationship, I've heard this sentence many times, I think in my heart there is no eternal friend, only the interests of the side or filial piety.

As I thought, it really didn't take too much to have a conflict between brothers, the reason was that there was a store for advertising, and the brothers quarreled, and the younger brother felt that his brother didn't understand anything, but it was clear that the store opened by the elder brother himself was pulled into the gang due to lack of funds, and the younger brother-in-law also quarreled with the mother-in-law, which became more and more intense, and finally parted ways, and the partnership kicked the elder brother out.

The parents asked the eldest daughter-in-law to settle the matter, let them go home, and the shop was given to the younger son, and their mother said that the eldest daughter-in-law, you can come back and the family can live, if they come back, the family will be ...... dispersed

The kind-hearted eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law chose to come back for the sake of the family, and they took care of the children at home, and the parents of the younger brother's children brought them

Even if you are a brother, you can't last long, and there are few partners in the business, and everyone is good if you don't have benefits.

When you have opposing interests with your friends, the best thing to do is to stay away from each other and not deal with each other, so as to ensure this relationship between them.

I may choose to defend my own interests so that I don't regret it and I don't have anything to lose.

I will definitely protect my own interests, even if I give in for my friend, she will feel that she has suffered a loss, so there is no need to back down, it is my own interests to fight, and I will never retreat in front of interests.

I will choose friends, because the benefits are lost, and there will be a chance to earn them back in the future, but if the friends are gone, they are really gone.

In addition to tears, what can wash everything away is time, and time is used to change feelings, and the longer the time, the lighter the conflict between Zheng and Bi, like a diluted tea.

Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and suppress yourself meaninglessly.

Root. There are very few women who men feel that they are suitable for themselves before marriage, and many women who feel suitable for themselves after marriage.

True love is not about liveliness, pomp, prosperity, and howling.

Love makes people forget time, and disturbing time also makes people forget love.

Loneliness is not something you are born with, but it starts the moment you fall in love with someone.

If you like someone, there will be no pain. Loving someone may be painful for a long time, but the happiness he gives me is also the greatest happiness in the world.

The origin and extinction of the fate, the strong fate and the weak fate, are not something we can control. What we can do is to cherish that short time when we meet by chance.

We may be able to love and be loved by two people at the same time. Unfortunately, we can only stay with one of them until we get old, so please make your choice as soon as possible.

If you were not loved by others, you will cherish the person who will love you in the future.

If you truly love someone, you will love yourself.

Love is not a refuge, and if you want to take refuge, you will be kicked out.

I love you, not because of who you are, but because I love how I feel when I'm with you.

If the people who love you don't love you the way you want them to, it doesn't mean they don't love you with all their hearts.

Love has always been a matter of a thousand turns. If you have never been abandoned or hurt, how can you know how to ease this lover?

Love is an experience, and I hope it lasts a long time.

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