The wedding ring was bought by Zhou Huajian at a stall, why do young people have high requirements f

With the change of living environment, the comparison between people has become larger, and young people now have to get married with diamond rings and luxurious weddings, and the form of marriage is indeed changing.

Many parents are watching their children grow up or even start a family, and they will feel that today's children are really more "pampered" and "rich"; In the past, it was good for parents to get married and have a small ring, but now children are too young to have diamonds, and the form of marriage has indeed become very demanding.

First, the improvement of living standards, the continuous change of the environment, resulting in many people will pursue a "better" form of marriage The rapid development of the economy, the improvement of living standards is indeed the main willingness of young people to recognize marriage, and now people care more about material enjoyment.

Just like in the hearts of Zhou Huajian and other people of this generation, marriage is actually a matter of two people, and getting married is already a good marriage, but young people are not; Nowadays, young people are accustomed to a beautiful lifestyle and environment, and they attach great importance to marriage, they feel that there is no diamond ring is not marriage, and no luxurious wedding is not marriage, and the material yearning has changed the identity of many young people to marriage.

Second, the mood of comparison, couples choose to "spend a good amount of money" when they get married, and don't look down on people, of course, leading young people to attach importance to the form of marriage, the most important thing is everyone's comparison mood; said that he didn't care, but in his heart he still envied other people's marriages.

When a young man attends someone else's wedding, he should secretly resolve in his heart to marry better than others. Constant comparison, will make young people get married are very concerned about whether there is a car, whether there is a house, whether there is a diamond ring, etc., the most uncomfortable thing is to take a wedding photo and go abroad, pick the most expensive to shoot! Material comparison has made many young people slowly attach great importance to marriage, of course, this weight is the taste of money.

The improvement of life and the strengthening of the sense of comparison naturally make everyone think highly of the form of marriage.

Because of the lack of some sense of security. The requirement for a form of marriage is due on the one hand to a lack of security and on the other hand to the pursuit of a so-called sense of ritual.

Because today's young people generally like to compare. Therefore, the requirements for the form of marriage are relatively high.

Contemporary marriage, for an ordinary family, is like a disaster, men and women have higher requirements for marriage, there must be a car, a house, a diamond ring and a bride price, but also a decent wedding, and some girls require the man's parents to have social security. Such a marriage overloads a family, makes the ancestors empty their savings for generations, and is not enough to repay the debt, and it will be a problem for the elderly to provide for the elderly in the future. Marriage varies from place to place, such as Guangdong Province, marriage to buy a house, a car, a diamond ring, a bride price, etc., at least more than 1 million, for a very small number of rich people is not a problem, for most of the poor is astronomical, the family can come up with money, can get married, otherwise single.

Most girls do not want to get married because they cannot meet their own requirements, and if this continues, population growth will become a problem, and it is hoped that both men and women will lower their requirements, and they will be happy for a hundred years.

Because many people now have high requirements for the form of marriage, all for the sake of showing off, all for the sake of face.

It is the contemporary young people who pay more and more attention to the form, especially the wedding, a person only has such a once in a lifetime, for this kind of who does not want to do a good job, decent.