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It depends on the circumstances under which she broke up with you.
1.If she says to break up when two people are arguing, it's because she's too impulsive. Actually, she wants you to coax her.
2.If you suddenly take you seriously one day, let's break up! Maybe she's been planning this for a long time.
3.If you talk about a sensitive topic, she asks you, how about our breakup! I guess she was tempting.
4.If she informs you via text message or **, she is going to break up with you. And if you don't quarrel, then it's not a temptation, but she has this idea in her heart.
5.If you don't care enough about her, don't pay attention enough to her, she says break up. That's because she's tired and she wants to break up. She also wants to remind you that you don't care about me anymore, and you don't care about me anymore. I'm going to run.
Hehe. There are many more situations that I have not thought of for a while. That's all I can think of.
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See if you've made any mistakes, and if you've been cold to her lately, if she says to break up, you joke and say, Ah, it's true, and then what she said is true, you say, "Don't divide it, you look at what the situation is (I don't like the kind of retention that pleads, it's not a man at all), and then if she says it's true, it's broken."
The woman said that if the breakup is a temptation, she would very much like you to keep her, at this time, it's OK to coax her.
If it's true, then it's basically hopeless, it's hard to break the mirror, it's easy to divide it, it's not good to be sad.
Why bother to love a flower.
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Give her a slap in the face to see her reaction, the fierce reaction is real, if you are in a daze at the time, then she is testing you!
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Just feel that she still has feelings for you.
If she says it's because you don't care enough about her.
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When she told you about the breakup, you said, what are you kidding again, stop playing. If she is resolute and has said many, many reasons, do you think about it carefully, is her reason credible? If you look into her eyes, you can tell if it's a temptation.
Teach you another trick, she said she wants to break up with you, you just say oh, let me think about it, you think about it too. If she's testing you, she'll give you a **.
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Looking at the reason and occasion of the breakup, as well as the reaction after saying it, do you want to provoke you to coax her to apologize to her happily, or do you have a calm attitude after speaking. In fact, you can hear it from the tone if you are careful.
The most accurate information about these things is always from your own judgment, if even you can't measure it, then you really don't love her enough.
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First, look at the reason;
Second, look at the motivation;
3. Look at the attitude.
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Can you get it back if you are broken up, look at the score.
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Girls generally say that they break up, but they don't really break up, they just feel that you don't pay enough attention to her and don't care enough about her, she just wants to coax her and treat her better by mentioning the breakup.
Of course, if she doesn't have any noisy and aggrieved emotions and mentions breaking up with you, that is, she really doesn't love you anymore, that is, she is really going to break up with you. And this kind of indifference, not loving you situation, you should be able to feel it in advance.
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Ignore her, wait for her to come to you, don't go more than two weeks, more than two weeks, and the play will be completely over.
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If your girlfriend breaks up with you more than three times after being together, and she doesn't leave you in the end, then the breakup she proposes is likely to be a fake breakup. Because girls are prone to such a mentality, proposing to break up is just to scare their boyfriend, so that their boyfriend will pay more attention to her, care more about her, and take revenge actions. That is to say, those girls who always talk about breaking up and regard it as a means of seeking love, their breakup is a fake breakup.
Bringing up a breakup is all about being redeemed. If at this time, you don't understand her thoughts, and you are discouraged and leave from now on, then this relationship is actually buried in your "don't do something".
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You'd better not say break up, because probably she has a brick in her hand....
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Girls say that breaking up is generally a temptation, and boys say that breaking up is certain. Because in the emotional world, women are passive by nature and retreat to beauty, while men are active and strive for perfection as beauty. Women's logical thinking and rational expression have always left some euphemism, and the meaning is used to test and hone men's hearts.
Men's way of thinking and presentation is objective and has always been straightforward. Test how deep the other party's love for her is, he and she will deliberately not answer **, do not reply to messages, and see if the boy will be anxious for her, so as to determine whether he loves her.
If a woman is really going to break up, then she must have already been heartbroken, she left silently, and she didn't even say goodbye, she will delete your contact**, and she doesn't want you to contact her. And the man is very simple, if he proposes to break up, he will not take the initiative to contact the girl, or he will find an excuse to avoid the girl, and eventually he will break up with the girl. Because of getting a lot of love, wanting to break up sends a kind of data signal:
I'm angry, come comfort me. I expect boys to come to her actively, care about her a lot, and put her in a more important position.
The temperament of girls is relatively more emotionally unstable, and the vast majority of girls who want to break up are indeed more temptations, more precisely, the last temptation - I will give you one last chance, see if you still care about me, whether you will redeem me; Boys are relatively more rational, under normal circumstances, as long as girls are not excessive, they will not casually mention breaking up, and if they really make it clear, they will make a decision after careful consideration.
There is a fake breakup and a real breakup; A fake breakup is not a real desire to break up; Instead, they just want to make others stronger to themselves according to the method of separation; The probability of this phenomenon happening in the hands of girls will be very high, and girls are more insecure. A true breakup is to decide that you want to break up, and there is no temptation or joke; The probability of this phenomenon occurring in men is very high; Men are more objective, so it is not easy to make decisions casually, but it is not very easy to change them after making a decision.
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Here's the thing. Women are very emotional, very insecure, when she feels that her boyfriend doesn't love her very much, she will talk about breaking up, and if the man talks about breaking up, he will become very ruthless, because he is tired of the other party.
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Because girls are more emotional, it is easy to germinate such impulsive thoughts when they are angry, but boys are more rational, and they generally say that they have been thinking about breaking up for a long time.
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Maybe it's because girls are more emotional in their relationships and are generally angry, so they will choose to break up, but most boys are more rational.
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Learn to get news from your girlfriend's family and friends, look at your girlfriend's interactions with the opposite sex around you, and see your girlfriend's attitude towards you.
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You should observe the girl's reaction and tone to see if she is particularly serious, and if she is very serious, it means that she is serious.
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A lot of times, girls are looking for a sense of security, and they also have to take into account each other's feelings when we live under great pressure.
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You can judge whether what she says is true by the girl's words and deeds, and if she is very serious, it is likely that she really wants to break up.
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It depends on whether she is firm enough to say that she broke up, and if she is very resolute, it means that she is serious and not joking.
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If she is very serious and solemn when she proposes to break up, it means that she is serious, not a joke, and not a decision made in a fit of anger.
That's a kind of self-protection for girls! But there is no shortage of some girls who are very pretending,. , B's character! If you want to chase a girl, it is recommended to start with his friends first, and get to know her from her friends
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