I have a conflict with my family and urgently need everyone s opinions, and I hope you will express

It's up to you, whether you have the ability to convince your parents Actually, I'm about the same as you I'm from Jining County, my girlfriend is from a big city, and I'm living in Jining now, and then my girlfriend is here, at that time, the family also said the same about me, saying that I was an upside-down door, but my mother was very easy to convince, I said that they were feudal, what age is it now, we are living my own life in Jining, and I don't go to her house to live how to call it an inverted door, but my mother is very good at talking, they said that no matter where you live, Marriage or something must obey them, and then we will follow their wishes, and then we get married here, my family has been to the New Year's holiday, usually come back if there is nothing to do, now we are very harmonious, and don't be too aggressive with your family, that hurts their hearts too much, your family is so opposed to estimate that you are also an only child, the family is afraid that there will be no one to accompany and no one to support when you are old, after talking to them, you remember a little bit, parents will always love their children, he is afraid that you will be difficult to see other people's faces over there, As long as you can make them feel that you will not abandon them, you will live well, I guess there will be no problem, I hope it can help you and me.

What, upside down door? Not at all, you're just starting a business with your girlfriend, and it's normal to get help from her mother's family in the middle. If you have a clear mind, don't do stupid things, and you will regret it if you break up.

Your parents love you, they don't want you to suffer, they want to be taken care of by you, you can promise your parents that they will come back to see them regularly, and if necessary, ask your relatives to help persuade them! Where there is a will, there is a way, and now is the time to identify how deep love is!

lz Don't be upset. Girls are very good, but you have to get to know your parents, you occasionally accompany your parents, because after all, you are studying in other places, and your parents miss you very much, and the two parents have no intention of being helpless! So, you stay with your parents!

Take him out to play with his girlfriend under persuasion, don't let him be anxious. You and your girlfriend both take care of your parents and make them feel comfortable! You don't have to pour tea, you don't have to eat, and then you think about leaving, and by the way, tell your parents to come and see them once a week.

They were also refreshed. Y should spend time with them, and remember to take care of your girlfriend! People only have one life, cherish you and me!

Parents will always love you, he doesn't want to snatch your love away from his girlfriend, understand? Go back and tell your parents, first stabilize their hearts, think about the matter with the girl, remember, let the girl do more work for the house, buy groceries, wash the dishes, it's very simple As I expected. 1 week problem solved.

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Go home and talk to your parents and tell them what you think! We have a person like you, he came back, but it has been almost 8 years since he came back, and the child is getting older, but he has a very poor relationship with his parents, because he has no good job after he comes back, he has no beloved person, and he has lost his ideals.

This is also part of the life experience, in fact, the relationship between people and their parents will change in the process of growing up, and now you are also in this situation, this situation cannot be avoided and can not be explained clearly in a few words, more rely on yourself to change;

In fact, we will also say to our parents, I know, I have grown up, leave me alone, I know how to do it; In fact, in the final analysis, your parents' expectations of you have not changed, and the same is true of frequent nagging, and you still hope to follow the route they planned.

Now what you can do is to do what your parents want, talk to your parents heart-to-heart, this process needs to be controlled by yourself, I talked to my parents, every time I talked about it, I was about to cry, my parents were about to cry, it was nothing more than to explain the reasons that my parents couldn't understand, in fact, it was all for myself and my family to make choices.

Sometimes you really need to communicate more with your parents so that you can get to know each other, but in fact, parents are really like good friends.

Your situation is very similar to my family, we have just bought a house and owe a lot of debts, my son is also in the third year of high school, online classes at home every day, just took the online class test today, you must be a southerner, most of the Northeast are child-oriented, to create the best conditions for children, first of all, you are a sensible child, as a mother, I think your parents are really wrong, can you pick your parents when they are happy, try to sit down and talk to them calmly, or find relatives who have weight to talk, Explain the situation, I think your parents just think that there is no difference between online classes and playing, and if you explain it to them, they should understand you.

Let's just say it. Let's just say that I have classes now, and I only have time to do housework on weekends. Oh, introverts, can make a friend.

Since you have a conflict with your parents. Then you can't be angry, and you can't. Let's go.

You can try to talk to your mother. Make good traffic and let him let you know more about each other's interests and hobbies and communicate more. Right.

can grow you and your parents. Emotional feelings.

A man's world is a career, and a woman's world is a man!

Tell your dad to understand this sentence well and treat your mom well!

As for the gift, I don't think your mother wants it very much, if you really want to give it, it is better to send a gold necklace, a metaphor for the husband and wife to go through the golden wedding year, it is also a blessing, you can engrave words like I love you on the necklace, and you can also engrave a Buddha statue! (It's up to your dad to decide).

Finally, I wish your parents a long life.

Hello, in fact, it is more common for this situation, old husband and wife, bedside fight, bedside fight, bedside closure. In fact, you can also buy a Jade Buddha, it is better to surprise her.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

First of all, check yourself, if you are in society or in the school unit, how should you deal with the problem, and what should be done between people, friends, and buddies? It can't be limited to a small range of you and me, what is broad-minded, leading by example, others are a mirror to measure yourself. See someone else wrong, check if you are the same mistake.

Good mood for you.

Answer 1: First of all, you must know what the contradiction is, understand the cause of the contradiction, and find the root cause in order to prescribe the right medicine, fundamentally solve the contradiction, and take a certain method to solve the problem.

2. When there is a conflict, first reflect on whether you are not good enough, take the initiative to bear the mistake, or when you don't understand, first admit the mistake, take the responsibility down, let the other party's anger disappear first, and then sit down and talk about it, what is the other party angry about, resolve the contradictions between each other, and make the family more harmonious.

3. Think more empathy, when there is a contradiction, you can think from the other party's point of view, put yourself in the other party's shoes to consider what the other party thinks, how the other party thinks, and believe that the contradiction between the other party can be solved soon.

4. Care more about the other party's feelings, don't just take care of yourself, feel that you have been wronged, you think it is good, the other party does not necessarily think so, but feel that you do not consider the other party, so when considering the problem, you should also consider the other party's feelings, and truly meet the psychological needs of the other party, in order to avoid the occurrence of contradictions.

5. Learn to control your emotions, when the contradiction occurs, first of all, calm down, don't lose your temper regardless of it, and don't make a big noise, not only can not solve the problem, but will intensify the contradiction, and it will be out of control. Therefore, when there is a conflict, we must first calm down and solve the problem calmly.

6. Learn to deal with problems with feelings, people get along with each other with feelings, take care of them with heart, there is nothing that cannot be resolved, communicate with heart, use emotion, and the contradictions will only become less and less.

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When they get better, they're talking to him.

When we were so dependent and clinging to our parents when we were children, we were always reciprocated with a warm embrace

Now that I have grown up, there is a gap and an insurmountable gap with them, and the more relatives I have, the more hurt I am, what a sad fact