Interpersonal relationships and learning pressure of middle school students, anxious

I won't talk about those theoretical words, I have said enough before, and I will give you two treatment plans for you to choose from.

1. The longest-term approach. Because you are in the third year of junior high school, this is indeed a very crucial year for you.

So in the long run, bear with it, don't care what they say about you, don't you still have a few friends? That's enough. Those who are clear are self-purifying.

In addition, adjust the body as soon as possible, the body is the capital of the revolution. Take the entrance examination to a key high school, and go to a good university in the future, and who mixes well depends on the future. Of course, you have to be prepared to put up with other people's fingers.

You're sure you're free from them, and you choose this option.

2. The best way to solve practical problems. But this will more or less affect your studies. This program takes time and effort.

Isn't your tablemate looking for trouble? Then you fight her, but it doesn't mean fight her head-on. If she wants to isolate you, you can isolate her too.

But don't speak ill of her behind your back. Just tell the truth and pluck yourself out. Otherwise, others will think that you are getting more and more black.

Although it is said that when interacting with people, you should exchange sincerity for sincerity. But now the competition is getting more and more fierce, so there are not many people who are really willing to show their sincerity. If you take out your sincerity first, others may not buy it, so making friends now is not about changing your sincerity, but more about using each other.

Then you have to buy people's hearts. Pay more attention to other people's dynamics, stand up and help others when they are in trouble, and then tell them about you as a tablemate when they become your friends. It's much better than if you were to explain them one by one.

This trick is very useful, but it will take a lot of energy. You will meet a lot of people at the same table in the future, and with this experience, you will easily deal with it in the future.

I advise you to choose the first method, endure for a while, and win for a long time. When the class reunion is in the future, we will know who wins and who loses.

Good luck!

To learn to be yourself, you must be confident and believe in yourself. Because everyone has their own different brilliance, only by being yourself will not be overshadowed.

And you have some low self-esteem, you care too much about other people's opinions, it's the third year of junior high school, you should work hard to make yourself excellent, excellent people are always easy to attract others, because they have a kind of self-confidence and calmness.

Now don't care about other people's attitudes, put your own learning up, believe me, it must be useful, because I also came over like this, after studying well, the teacher began to love me, often praised me, so I was very happy all day long, I feel that I am still very good, even if I am a little wayward teachers and classmates will be tolerant, and then slowly change their impression in their interactions, because people's impressions are always very shallow, and later they will think that you are a very good and popular person, Forget what you were.

Learn to walk with your head held high and build your self-confidence starting tomorrow. Elegant and confident girls are always more popular, especially if she is still a very smart girl!

I wish you a speedy success!

I'm in my second year of junior high school I just got into a fight with my best friend We don't pay attention to anyone now I'm also an introvert Now I don't even have a good friend You're in junior high school anyway Find time to relax Listen** Watch the movie Don't think about that anymore Time will be erased Think more What kind of life will you have in your first year of high school In a good high school, you will have better friends You're quite lucky I still have to stay up for two years You're coming out of your head I'm ah

You want to open it.

Why are the girls in your class like this, I am also a girl in the third year of junior high school, I have never encountered such a situation, the girls in our class are very united, never make any contradictions, usually solve problems together, walk and say hello, and have a very good personality, all girls are like this. You're so miserable!!

Hello this classmate, actually, I had a similar problem to you when I was in your grade, but, hehe, very happy, I have gone through that stage, and now I look back and think that in fact, it is nothing. In fact, at this stage, it is normal for you to encounter this problem, and many girls, at that age, will encounter such problems. Everyone, in the second or third year of junior high school, will encounter some psychological fluctuations, there are physical reasons, psychological reasons, and academic pressure.

I think it's good to adjust yourself appropriately and divert your attention, for example, sometimes when you are tired from studying, listen to songs, and chat with cheerful and friendly classmates.

Secondly, I want to tell you, for your co-sitting, in fact, I don't think you have to pay attention to her, every girl in middle school, there will be a few girls like that in the class, and you will meet such girls in the future, in fact, why care too much about their thoughts. If you feel that you can't bear it anymore, you can express your emotions to her. But don't, just do something that hurts others.

I think that after listening to your words, the fault is not you, and the problem is not on you, you just need to go your own way and let others say that it is better to go. In fact, the life of middle school is actually quite happy, and I wish you a happy day.

There is a physical phenomenon where the same sex repels and the opposite sex attracts, which is said to be magnetic, but I think it is also suitable for people. Your tablemate is the person you call a frog, maybe you yourself think it's not too much of a problem to call him a frog, but maybe this girl's mind is very delicate and sensitive, he may not say anything about the nickname on the surface, but the psychological side will definitely still have some complaints about you, so it lays the foundation that she will not become good friends with you. Secondly, junior high school students will be at a stage where they want to make friends with the opposite sex, and if you ignore the man in front of you, she will be jealous, which will deepen her resentment towards you.

You don't have to run in physical education class, and she is even more jealous, and sometimes a woman's jealousy is terrifying. When you explain to her why she doesn't run in gym class, she will feel like a good opportunity to humiliate you. Besides, you mentioned that she said you were sullen, I wonder if it was because of the boy in the seat in front of you, who might have liked that boy, but the boy ignored her, and she blamed it on you.

This is just personal speculation. The speed at which girls spread rumors is very fast, they will spread bad things about you, and they will add fuel and vinegar, "three people become tigers", which leads to everyone thinking that you are the kind of girl in the rumors, and they are naturally not willing to associate with you. You are an introverted girl yourself, and you don't usually interact with many people, so naturally except for a few girls who usually get along well with you, they know what is the real you and are willing to associate with you.

From this point of view, you should know that you are not unpopular, but that people don't know you well, and the misleading rumors lead to your isolation.

You're now in the third year of junior high school, and your first task is to study, and people who don't want to get to know you are not worth socializing. You feel lonely now, but why not think about leaving here to start a new life, when you can make a lot of new friends. And the way to leave is to get into high school, you should now work hard to get into your ideal high school, and then deal with your own relationships.

After the exam, you can use the vacation to meet some friends, read more books to broaden your horizons, and naturally have more topics with others. During the holidays, you can travel, relax, learn how to socialize with people, and make more friends in high school, and then those rumors will naturally be self-defeating. Gossip also has an expiration date, once that strength is over, not too many people will pay attention, why do you force yourself to pay attention.

Understand what's important right now and follow your own path. Listen to what others say if it's good for you, and don't care about what you're not good for, thinking "you don't know why I judge me." Think about it for yourself, what is the most important thing, whether it is your future or those gossips.

I'm one year older than you, a freshman year of high school. I've only been in school for a few days now, and I can't get anything at all, unlike before. Like you are now, very annoying.

Even now, when I think about it, I still want to cry. However, I will not change my personality because I want to blend in with my classmates, never.

Because I'm living for myself, I need friends who can accept me, not force me to change myself in order to fit in. That's true friends, aren't they?

You're just starting school now, and you're just learning chemistry, so you must not be distracted, okay? Chemistry is very simple in the beginning, just memorize concepts, but if you don't memorize concepts well, you won't be able to learn well later. So you must cheer up, study hard, and get into a good high school.

Even if many of your classmates don't have a very good attitude towards you, but you still have your good friends, you are in the third year of junior high school, and you are nervous, most of the time is studying, and the rest of the time is talking to your friends, isn't it good? Everybody is different, and it's impossible for everyone to have a crush on you, and you don't think that everybody treats you badly.

Come on, I hope to live well for myself in the last year of junior high school, study for myself, and get good results in the high school entrance examination! In fact, junior high school is really beautiful, and when you go to high school, you will find out how lovely life is in junior high school. Come on!

1. Treat classmates and friends with sincerity and unity. In school, the interaction between students should be a process of learning and cooperation based on equality and mutual assistance. It is through the interaction with classmates that students can know the aspirations, temperaments and living circumstances of others.

In common activities, students can best know each other's strengths and weaknesses, and in the meantime, in order to approach the goal, everyone will learn to discuss, wait and endure, learn to give in and compromise, learn to be loyal and trustworthy, and in between, for the purpose of approaching the goal, everyone will learn to discuss, wait and endure, learn to back down and compromise, learn to be loyal and trustworthy, learn to be tolerant and trusting, learn to explain and advise, learn to listen and accept, learn to persist and refuse. These are all skills and attitudes that are necessary to handle relationships. 2. Parents and teachers should respect and understand and take responsibility for the spring calendar.

Students should adopt the right attitude when the teacher blames themselves, including: let themselves understand the Internet coldly