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We will face a variety of choices in our lives, and these choices have a significant impact on our lives, such as what kind of choices we should make when there is a conflict and conflict between love and work. In my opinion, whether you choose love or work, the most important thing is to choose to be yourself, and whether you regret it will be the most important of the two. There are mainly the following reasons.
1. Love is sometimes very fragile and vulnerable. Love is not as great as imagined, many times the partner you are looking for now, you don't know whether he loves yourself, whether the relationship between the two of you can withstand it, after losing your job, you will pay wholeheartedly, such a huge consequence, whether the two people have been psychologically prepared to do a good job in the future. Once you give up your job and go to your lover's side, many times the two people will quarrel because of all kinds of trivial things in life, and at this time, for the greatness of love has become a kind of moral kidnapping.
2. Do you really regret it? The important thing is whether you can regret it, if you want to find a job and let go of this sincere love, whether you can still meet a new love, and whether this love has been very true to know that it can accompany you for a lifetime. But if you want to get love, if the relationship between two people is broken, can you bear the consequences, don't complain, and don't hate the other half.
3. Whether you are able to bear the consequences. If you can bear the corresponding consequences, then no matter which choice you make, you will have a different life, if you choose love, do you still have the ability to find a better job than your current job. Perhaps he is also an opportunity to get out of the current environment and embark on a new life, where anything is possible.
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I will only give up my current job for a better job.
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If I have a particularly good relationship with my partner and need to give up my job, I will definitely give up my current job, because I can find a job again, and it is difficult for a couple to meet.
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Yes, because you can find another job at work, but the love is lost, and it is not the current love to get it back, so I will choose to cherish the current feelings.
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No, now that society is developing too fast, food and clothing can't be solved, and what kind of love is there to talk about.
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I will not give up my job for the sake of love, because my lover will not let me give up my job, and even if I give up, it is for myself, not for love.
In real life, many young people do encounter such a dilemma. If love has a satisfying outcome, we must face the challenge of giving up the cause that we have worked so hard for many years, and we are not willing to give up this cause. Faced with the dilemma of love and career, he can only compare the two through personal knowledge and analytical skills, don't be emotional, be calm, and then do something that you will regret for the rest of your life.
Life is precious, love is expensive. Here, the poet puts love and life in the same important place. If young people really find someone who loves you, they won't give up easily.
As for careers, we can continue to work on them, and relationships can be rebuilt. That's how life is. You have to accept your choice.
No matter how much you regret it, you can only move forward with regrets.
In the face of love, life can be flexible. People can have love because of their careers and they can also build careers because of love. Love is sacred and full of responsibility, but human love goes beyond the social responsibility of love.
When life comes into the world, you should be responsible for your parents, family, and social obligations, have love in real life, and complete your life.
At the same time, love needs two things, and that is emotion and bread, both of which are perfect. You are now in a long-distance relationship and there is a certain amount of risk. Society is very realistic.
If men succeed in their careers, they will have everything. Starting a business is also very lucky and painful. It would be a shame if you gave up your very successful career for love.
If the other person really loves you, you can stay where you live for a while. So you can have both love and career.
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I will not give up my job for love, because love is very risky for me, and this is very irrational.
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I don't give up my job for love because I feel that work is very important. Everyone needs to have a stable job to have a better economic foundation.
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I don't give up my job for the sake of love, because I feel that this kind of behavior is not worth the loss, and it will also make me regret it very much afterwards.
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Of course, you will give up your job for love, your career is for better love, if you lose love, even if you have a good job, you will not be happy, and regret will accompany you for a lifetime! You can look for it after work, and if you lose your lover, you really lose it!
A good life should be accompanied by a good lover, if you meet a good lover, you should pursue it without hesitation, and don't regret it when you lose it. What is important and what is not, as a person concerned, should be particularly clear, and there are three reasons to give up a good job for love:
1. Choosing a good job means being lonely.
There will be many choices in life, and between love and work, I will not hesitate to choose love. If there is no love, the work and career will be smooth sailing, and there will be regrets in the path of life.
People who don't have good love are lonely, they often regret it and start to choose for their careers, but later they find that what they need most is her!
When you encounter love, you must have no hesitation, and your life will be happier and happier.
Second, there will be gain.
It seems painful to give up a good job, but you will get the best feelings in the world, on the road of growth in life, we must give up, only give up will get!
The best time in life is to get married, if you give up your mistakes, your life will be colorless and plain!
3. The life that someone shares is happy.
The joys, sorrows and sorrows of life need to be shared with others, when I was a child, I shared my thoughts with my parents, and when I grew up, I had to share them with my lover. If you give up someone you like because of a job, it's not worth it! Cherishing the people in front of you is what you should do at the moment, don't hesitate, don't be indecisive when you meet!
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Giving up your job is a decision that requires careful consideration, taking into account the actual situation of yourself and your loved one, as well as your future development. If the relationship between two people is very stable, you can consider making some changes, but you should not blindly give up on work. You need to pay attention to your career planning and financial situation, don't rely too much on each other, and don't give up your ideals and pursuits because of love.
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The answer is that I would.
First of all, it's not that I don't have my own independent judgment, but after more than 20 years of growth, I haven't missed listening to my mother's words.
First of all, let's put yourself in the shoes of you, who are now three years old, and your parents are faced with 1. High-paying, busy, absent from the child's childhood, but the family's living standard is taken to a higher level. 2. With a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, the old and the young, will have enough living expenses, and they can't save money at all. Parental choice 1, in your perception of whether you would strongly disagree with your parent's choice.
The landlord also said that his parents were strongly opposed, so let's imagine under what circumstances his parents would be "strongly" opposed. 1. There is a "prejudice" against the job you are about to do in your parents' perception. It's a job that parents think they can't do without a job.
2. The advantages of engaging in this job are far less than the disadvantages, such as being far away from home, working under great pressure, and causing great damage to the body.
So, in the face of fierce opposition from my parents, I would put away the rebellious heart of my twenties and choose a compromise solution. It is feasible to find a job that fulfills one's own value within the scope of parental acceptance. Have a job to earn your own living while your parents are also comfortable.
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No, there are few real loves.
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Everyone should manage themselves first and then manage love, but it is not selfish to manage themselves well, only consider all problems from their own standpoint, and only enjoy what the other party gives and do not give. Before you give, you must first confirm whether the other party is worthy of your sacrifice to maintain the relationship, after all, behind every decision there may be more than worth the loss, so be sure to think about it yourself before making a decision. If you want to be clear and not afraid to face the consequences that may occur after your choice, then I think you can choose love, after all, when you are young, you always have to experience some vigorous love, and you can truly understand your inner needs if you have the experience of being carried away by love.
In love and career, we don't need to force ourselves to be selfless, since it is our own life, the most important thing is to think about our own hearts first. Because I have begun to choose between love and career, the starting point of this choice itself is self-interested, so go straight to the essence and think about the two, you will get the most desired and important happiness from **, and understand that it will be natural to make your own choice. Our work and love are inseparable, and the only way to balance them is to consider that it is not work that affects love, reflecting the problems of our work and love.
It is very important to deal with everything calmly and communicate with each other, so as not to give up work and love, work is originally service and love.
The foundation of the work will be more stable two people's love, so is the most effective way to solve, love is beautiful and indispensable, it is the spice of life, in the boring life is an indispensable seasoning, it can bring you happiness, joy, happiness, can also bring pain, sadness, all kinds of emotions. But these are bound to be experienced, if you are willing to give up this seasoning for the sake of work, then life is only left with work, how tasteless life should be every day, work is material, it can create money to support our basic life, it can allow us to have what we want, satisfy our basic desires, and realize our own value.
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If you don't have a good backbone, you can give up, because I feel that this is very stupid, and you can stick to both, but the state is not to give up your job for love.
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No. Of course, it's not okay to be noisy, if the love is gone, you can find another job, and it's hard to find a brother if it's buried, and if there is no job, I can't afford to eat and be respected by people.
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You can't give up, love is just a spice of life, and work can make life have a good guarantee.
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