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There is no law, in this world, there are all kinds of people, you will find that no matter what kind of person has his friends, existence is reasonable, be true to yourself, even if there are few, there will still be people to adapt, if you want universal principles, that is to listen carefully, understand each other, and talk about the concept that you also agree with.
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Rule: Learn to look at people first, and use whatever way you want to socialize. Be honest with everyone and you'll be the only one who suffers in the end
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Be sleek.
The main thing is to be sincere and to behave in a way that is personal.
Don't try that everybody likes you, be a favorite version of yourself.
Mutually beneficial relationships can easily become friends.
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There are different ways to interact with different people, I recommend you to watch Lejia's "Learn Character Color from Lejia". I think I should be respectful.
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Sincere, as long as you work hard, you can make true friends, if you are not sincere, you will see people talk to people, and you will talk to ghosts!
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As long as the attitude is not too arrogant, it is fine, and there are basically no regulations. And now it's a person, and it's not an exam, understand?
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Of course, be honest with each other! This is the most important thing, followed by giving satisfaction in terms of interests!
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I think it's about keeping your distance, not too close and too far away.
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When you meet people and say three points, you can't throw away all your hearts.
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I think the main thing is sincerity and enthusiasm!
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To help others is to help ourselves ...
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Treat people with sincerity and be kind to others.
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When interacting with people, remember these 2 rules (the truth of human nature).
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There are indeed many skills in dealing with people: in adversity, you need to be sincere, and in good times, you need skill. At all times, sincerity is nobler than skill, and it can even be said that sincerity is the greatest skill in human interaction.
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The weather is getting cold again, and I am freezing to death 3690!
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Recognize who you are when you speak. Anyone, speaking on any occasion, has their own specific identity. This kind of identity is also at the time of his own"Role status"。
For example, in your own family, you are the father or mother to the children, and you are the son or daughter to the parents. It is inappropriate to speak to the elderly or elders in the same tone as a child, because it is impolite and wrong"Measure"Target.
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1. A few bunches of punch lines:
1. More communication, less problems.
2. Know more and make more friends.
3. Be calm and solve problems.
Second, think differently:
Put yourself in other people's shoes and feel how they feel, and you'll know how to act without messing things up, and that's the benefit of thinking differently.
Now add: Especially think about the problem from the customer's point of view, think about yourself as a customer, and you will know some of the other party's ideas.
Three, two people get along:
When two people get along, in addition to the basic sincerity, it is more important to understand (understand each other's situation or difficulties or hardships or performances), and then do self-adjustment and improvement (that is, adjust their mentality and improve their behavior), followed by care and care (more care can bring each other closer, and more care can deepen each other's understanding).
Now add: As Lianzhi said, when there is a contradiction:
1. Find problems in yourself first, don't complain about others first, and push the problem onto others.
2. To change things, first change yourself; To make things better, make yourself better first!
3. If you want others to respect you, you need to respect others first.
At the beginning of 06, a senior surnamed Liang, who had been in the supply and marketing cooperatives for decades, gave the lotus branch this sentence when chatting: things are reasonable, and the heart is peaceful! To comprehend the lotus branch more, it is really very philosophical, and I will also send it to you here to think about and comprehend.
Fourth, we must pay first
Everyone wants to be understood, cared for, and loved by others, but how? Hee-hee, just one sentence: if you want others to be good to you, you have to be good to others first.
That is to say, if you give your understanding, care and love first, you will get a correspondingly better return, believe it?!
Now add: Do you understand the concept of "giving"? Give it up before you get it.
As long as you understand the phrase "giving is happier than receiving", you will understand. Lotus Branch Lotus has been doing this, giving up its own knowledge, experience, experience and cases, to help friends who are destined, so that they can learn related knowledge, including health knowledge, and help them improve their health step by step, and Lotus Branch is the opportunity for others to understand, recognize, recognize and generate a small business. Even if there is no business, helping people is happy, isn't that good?
Accumulate virtue for this world, haha...
Fifth, be a person and do things:
A sage said to me: To learn to do things, you must first learn to be a man. To be a human being is to do a good job in the relationship between people (including family, relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues, neighbors, other organizations, etc.), which is also interpersonal relationships and connections.
Good connections can help you develop and help you succeed; If you mess up your connections, you'll have nothing and bear it alone.
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6 basic principles: 1. The principle of mutual respect; 2. The principle of equality and mutual assistance; 3. The principle of sincerity and friendship; 4. The principle of moral bottom line; 5. The principle of tolerance and open-mindedness; 6. The principle of honesty and trustworthiness.
1. The principle of mutual respect for the brigade; 2. The principle of equality and mutual assistance is a harbing; 3. The principle of sincerity and friendship; 4. The principle of moral bottom line; 5. The principle of tolerance and open-mindedness; 6. The principle of honesty and trustworthiness.
In addition, some interpersonal communication skills, hope is helpful to you, 1. Use your own heart to push others; How you want to live is how you want others to live. If you don't want others to treat you, don't treat others like that; 2.Start from your own heart to understand whether others will feel the same way as you. 3.
As a friend, you have to learn to listen. When your friend encounters frustration and annoyance, he will find someone to vent his feelings, and you, as a friend, can listen to the other party sincerely and patiently, which is an emotional outlet for your friend.
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1. Respect others. From birth to growth, everyone is equal, and there is no distinction between high and low, and there is only a difference between worldly eyes. No matter what kind of environment you grew up in, if you don't understand respect, then you will not get respect.
Treating people as equals is the foundation of human interaction, and it is also the first lesson you need to learn in interpersonal communication.
Second, learn to listen to others and give feedback appropriately. When talking to people, listen carefully and give feedback and ask questions as appropriate.
Listening is to respect others, and seriousness is to affirm others, and at the same time, care should be taken not to interrupt others' speeches at will. When you have different opinions, you must know that at the right time, you must first affirm the opinions of others, and then put forward your own opinions reasonably, be modest and prudent, and try to avoid conflicts.
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Third, learn to affirm others sincerely and not be stingy with words of praise. This is true both in life and in the workplace. Proper compliments can help boost the confidence of others and are also good for the development of relationships.
Of course, the praise here is not flattery, let alone flattery, it is sincere and sensitive, and it can be moved by feelings. If you blindly exaggerate, ignore the margins, or even pass on the accusations and slanders of others, it can only deepen the contradiction and annoy people.
Fourth, learn to be tolerant and understanding, and try to be considerate of others. To err is human. Anyone has both disadvantages and advantages.
When interacting with people, remember not to look at one side, there is no such thing as nothing in the world, and no one can be perfect. Try to empathize with other people's mistakes, learn to understand, and learn to be tolerant.
As big as the heart is, there is as wide as the heavens and the earth. To be harsh on others is to be harsh on oneself, and conversely, to be tolerant of others is also to be tolerant of oneself.
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Fifth, abide by the law of the group. We live in a group, and we must understand that the individual cannot be separated from the group, and the individuality cannot be separated from the commonality. Respect and pay attention to the needs of others, do not influence others because of yourself, and at the same time assume your own responsibilities and obligations.
Sixth, maintain independence and treat others with courtesy. When interacting with people, the most taboo is to follow the clouds. It is necessary to have their own unique opinions, learn to judge the situation, speak, and do things, and be reasonable.
Not blindly arrogant, not arrogant, not arrogant, know your own proportions, grasp your own language, be humble and prudent.
Have you learned the seven principles of interpersonal communication?
Seventh, keep smiling. A smile is the first impression a person makes on others, and it is also a person's best business card. Especially in public, the ease of smiling will allow you to achieve twice the result with half the effort.
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