Would you bring about a breakup because you didn t buy a house? Why?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, buying a house is also a major event in our life, it is a rare thing in today's real society, we need to work together, and then save money to buy a house, we can't break up because of this.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I won't break up because I didn't buy a house, because buying a house is a very difficult thing nowadays, and we need to work together, and we can't rely on one person. Two people can work together.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, buying a house requires us to work together and rely on the efforts of two people to buy a house, and not because of this breakup, not every family can afford the expensive house price.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I wouldn't break up because I didn't buy a house. After all, it is not the man's responsibility to buy a house, and I feel that the house we bought together is more emotional. It is a wealth that belongs to two people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, in today's society, if you don't have a house, you don't have a place to settle down, and you must have your own house, so that you can have a sense of security. Everyone's wants differently.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, if you really love someone, you will work together, if you don't have a house, you will work together to make money and buy it, and if you look at your boyfriend if she is self-motivated, will it be good to me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, I like him because of his people, not because of his economic conditions, as long as I work hard, there will always be a house. Happiness comes from struggle.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, because happiness comes from struggle. As long as he is motivated and knows how to work hard. Life must be especially good in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because buying a house and wanting to break up is a very normal choice. Usually, a couple will only have the intention of buying a house when they reach the point where they are talking about marriage. At this time, the two people are still in a good time, seeing each other's strengths.

    It is only in such a big event as buying a house that it is easiest to see a person's true face. Because everything about the house will basically involve personal interests. Linlin's boyfriend met through close dating, a tall man, with a neat and neat body, a gentle personality, and an office worker.

    The son, who has only one side, was moved by Linlin, the two have been going back and forth for more than a year, and they are quite satisfied with each other, and the man agreed as soon as he proposed to Linlin, after all, he is a twenty-six-year-old person, and his parents have been urging him to get married.

    <> was very pleasant to see the property, and the two people ran away.

    Seven or eight days. Conflicts began on how to pay for the house and whose name was written on the title deed. Lin Lin was in a state of love, and thought that the man would not hesitate to do anything on his house, only to find out that if he paid for it, his name could be written on the property certificate, and if Lin Lin wanted to bear half of it, he would write the names of two people, only these two plans, saying that he and his family had this idea, and it was impossible to go to Lin Lin's house, because,"No one knows what will happen.

    He said. > Linlin believes that he lives a married life wholeheartedly, and he has no determination to grow old with himself"Not sure", is neither believed in Lin Lin nor believed in him, thinking that he calls himself Lin Lin"For a lifetime"When buying a house, they are worried about harming their own interests, and their attitude is very clear. Several times"Discuss"As a result, Lin Lin was both angry and sad. One thing depends on a person, this person is not worth her life to do.

    She eventually chose to break up. On last year's National Day, Lin Lin married her pet Da Li and lived her own happy life. When it comes to personal interests, people are most likely to show their true colors.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1.There is no sense of security without a house, so I will break up.

    For me, the house represents a sense of security, if I struggle in a big city and don't even have my own house, I can really bear it, but if I have a child in the future, will the child have no fixed place to live? So if I don't have a house, I don't have a sense of security, and I will choose to break up with my boyfriend, for some people, people like me are too materialistic, but I think this is the real reality, and many people must be like me.

    2.The house is also a kind of proof of your boyfriend's abilities. Count the ears.

    For every girl, I want to find a boy who I can rely on, when I have no economic income, a boy can help myself, when I can't do something, a boy can also help myself, and my own child will have a dependence in the future, so I want to find a capable boyfriend, but if a boy doesn't even have a house, this also proves that the boy has no ability, for such a person, it needs to continue to exercise the ability.

    3.If the relationship between two people is very good, it is also possible to buy a house together.

    Although I think that the house is a sense of security, the house is essential, but it is not necessarily really going to break up with the boyfriend, because I think that if the relationship with the boyfriend is very good, the two of them can work hard and then buy a house together, all in all, the house is a must, otherwise the child has no sense of security, and he has no sense of security, but the house can be bought by two people working together or by the boyfriend alone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't want to live anymore? Die, and no one stops you, you don't dare to die, as far as I said, you dare to die, you shouldn't say this now, I tell you, a man, no house is a waste What woman doesn't want to live a stable life If you want to be with her, you should create a career If you don't work hard now, you will regret it in the future The man who only cries is a waste Do you know Live well for a long time This thing can't be resisted? Then all I can say is that you don't deserve to be a man, cheer up for her, for your own sake, cheer for you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    True love is not interfered with by external forces, brother, your love is still not strong enough, and she can't be chained at home 24 hours a day, if she really cares, she will run to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To live is to live decisively, and to live out the color. Be strong!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A lot of people who rent a house and get married. It's not a reason to break up without a house.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Now ordinary salaried people can't afford to buy a house, what are you worried about, or look carefully at the right person, it is the most important thing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The power of love is huge, buying a house has nothing to do with love, and no power can be stopped with true love. Let time test whether you have true love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    At this time should be strong, how to really love him you will find a way.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Actually, I feel that your girlfriend is just using this way to threaten you to force you to be motivated, if in the end, you have tried your best but still can't afford to buy a house, then your girlfriend will also be with you, but after so much effort, it is impossible to afford a house, right? Unless it is to buy a house in the first-tier cities of Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou......

    Taking a step back, the current marriage and love relationship is so tense, I don't think it's too much for your girlfriend to ask you for a house, right? And which family do you see that doesn't buy a house when they get married? Chinese families are such a model, you have to have a house and a car before you get married, and now even in rural areas, this is a requirement, if you can't meet the requirements of your girlfriend, then it's not normal for people to break up with you?

    What's more, the girl is with you, and if you don't have a house, you will live **? You can't rent a house every day, right? And renting a house is not cheaper than buying a house for you, and again, you will feel at ease living in a house that may not be your own home at any time?

    I think you should really think about it, young man, you think, if you were a girl, you wouldn't get married if you didn't have a house? Don't have a house to be with your boyfriend?

    I think your answer is no.

    So, working hard to make money and buy a house is the most important thing for you at the moment, or it's very likely, tomorrow your girlfriend will run away with someone else haha, just kidding!

    However, if you think that your girlfriend is unreasonable to make such a request in your current situation, and the people around you, including relatives and friends, also think so, then it is probably your girlfriend's fault, of course, I don't know what kind of situation you are in now, so I can only give some suggestions according to my own understanding that I think is feasible, and it is up to you whether to listen or not.

    You have to know that marrying a daughter has always been a matter of great concern to parents, do you think, the daughter you have worked hard for more than 20 years is married, you can't suffer, right? So many parents will ask the man's family for a car and a house, to put it bluntly, it is also for the sake of their daughter, you have to understand this, from this point of view, your girlfriend may be influenced by her parents' ideas!

    It's not easy to fall in love, it's not easy to meet two people by fate, you don't want to break up with your girlfriend because of the house, that's how wronged, right, manly, go out and work hard, learn more skills or something, and worry about not being able to buy a house? What do you think you should do? Of course I don't agree, then go and work hard, work hard, and strive to give your girlfriend a home!

    Give her a good life and happy days!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your girlfriend says that you will break up without buying a house, then I suggest you carefully analyze whether your girlfriend loves you and whether she is really willing to marry you, if your family conditions are okay, then you can consider buying a house, if your family conditions are very poor, then you can't do anything to buy a house, at this time if your girlfriend is not willing to marry you, then you have to think carefully.

    Personally, I think that as long as your girlfriend really likes you and loves you sincerely, even if you don't have a house, she will consider marrying you. Because she knows that your family conditions are not good and you can't afford to buy a house, she will be willing to work hard with you, and then buy a house together and divide the loan.

    If your girlfriend thinks that your family conditions are too poor and is unwilling to marry you, it means that her material requirements are still quite high, and she also values material things, emotions, and love between you. I don't evaluate whether your girlfriend really loves you, but society is very realistic, and a girl like this is hurt too much, and you can't complain about her. Because the house is the foundation of the life of two people, the guarantee of life.

    But we often can't afford to buy a house, the conditions in the home are also very poor, and even our parents are still waiting for us to raise it, so in the face of this situation, we should discuss it with your friend to see if she is willing, wait a few years or rent a house first, and then buy it when she earns money later. If he really doesn't want to wait, or feels that there is no future and no development with you, then it is recommended that you give up the relationship and not be too forced.

    Society is too realistic, because people have to live, like eating and lodging. So there's nothing wrong with saying that your girlfriend wants love and material things. Then at this time, you should think carefully and weigh your economic conditions.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think your girlfriend said to break up. It's not necessarily true, maybe she's just threatening you, and maybe you'll buy a house if she threatens you. But I can't guarantee that your girlfriend really won't break up with you, after all, it's a real problem.

    If you don't have a house, you will live in the future, even if the two of you can get married, but what about when your child is born. They can't live in a rental house from a young age, of course, you can buy a house quickly if you have the conditions, but if you don't have the conditions, then create the conditions. Otherwise, your girlfriend will really run away, hey, but there are still many people who want to raise a son, raise a son, and need to buy them a house and marry a daughter-in-law, it's really too much of a burden. If you really want to marry your girlfriend and go home, you can borrow money to buy a house. It's impossible to say you won't buy her it, but if you don't plan to marry her, then you can talk to her.

    If it doesn't work, break up when the time comes. What can't you do, it's impossible to say that you bought a house for a girl you don't want to marry back home. When the time comes to divorce, if her name is written on the real estate certificate, then you really lose it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    According to their own conditions, it is nothing more than two results: first, buy a house; The second breakup.

    Buying a house: Do everything you can. Dating a girlfriend has reached the point of talking about marriage.

    It proves that you have been in contact with each other for a long time. She must know the conditions of your family. So according to your own situation, if you have the conditions, then buy, but this is before marriage, when you buy a house, you can write your parents' names on the real estate certificate.

    This can avoid the loss of property due to other reasons after marriage. You can also take out a loan to buy a house, discuss with your girlfriend, whether you can pay half of the down payment on each side, and the couple will repay the loan together after marriage. At this point, you can have both of your names written on the title deed.

    Breakup: If the conditions do not allow you to buy a house and you can't take out a loan, then you can only break up. It's understandable that your girlfriend wants to buy a house, but be realistic, after so many years, doesn't she know the conditions of your family?

    If she still asks to buy a house, it means that she is too materialistic. For this material woman, it is much luckier to understand it a day earlier than to understand it a day later.

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