Dad fell ill and passed away in the first month of this year, leaving an 80 year old mother so pitif

I don't think it's realistic! After all, they are not their own biological parents! But the premise is that if the mother feels very identified with the future father, I think as a child should support her!

After all, the biological father is no longer there! The road ahead will be very hard for the mother to go down alone! All children have to do is to be counselors to their mothers, and they can talk to their mothers about what is wrong!

In fact, the main thing is my mother's own opinion!!

The line in the mother's hand, the wanderer's shirt. Before leaving, I am afraid that I will return late. Who is careless and repays Sanchunhui? ”

I understand your mood right now. Mother's love is great, and no love can surpass it!

Keep your father's love! Don't hurt Daddy! Father's love is as great as mother's love!

It was Dad and Mom who brought you into this world together. (Although Dad has a bad temper and even inadvertently hurt you, it is very likely that he just hates iron and steel!) For the sake of being your dad and taking good care of mom in the end, forgive him!

Your generosity, your tolerance, is the basis for the integration of your father-son relationship. ）

Everything in the world is better to go with the flow. Since you can't stop Dad at all. You respect your father's choice and get ready to get along with your stepmother!

People have feelings. Stepmothers are also human. She and your dad are both from here.

People of their age don't necessarily seek money. The main picture is to have a filial child, a stable and united home! Suppose the stepmother is a sensible person who loves her children.

She'll not only be nice to Daddy, but she'll be nice to you! (That's a big possibility!) ）

I wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart!

It's uncomfortable to agree, and I feel that I can't be so selfish when I don't agree. That's how I feel now.

The nurturing grace of our parents.

We can't repay it for the rest of our lives.

Now that my mother is gone suddenly, she won't even give us a chance to repay her, so we have to honor the living.

Maybe there's someone to keep them company, maybe they'll be happier.

He is only 71 years old, your mother is gone, he has physical needs in addition to loneliness, these you children can not be given to him, only the wife can legally help him, I hope you will understand him, support him, so that he can live a happier life in the future.

Hehe, don't think about your father's badness, after all, it's your own father, you don't want your father to live alone.

You don't have to ask this question, I think you understand it too, so decide for yourself.

Old age is a stage of happiness, and I think it would be better for your father to look for a second spring At least a good mood is good for his body, and every child wants to have a healthy parent, isn't it? As for relationships and whatnot, it's good to remember that he's always your father.

Let your dad find it.

Don't mind if you don't hear it, you're over 70. There are not many days left. You can't let the old man spend all this little time alone, can you? Don't say you'll accompany him, can you guard him 24**? Let's find a wife to take care of each other.

On October 1 last year, my mother took me to Banchangyu. I was very impressed with it because it was so steep and so majestic. ( Wanjing Literature.

As soon as you enter the mountain gate, you first have to climb a mountain road made of stones. It was a very difficult part of the trail, but we kept climbing and finally saw the amazing view. It looks like a mountain split by an axe, with a small slit in the middle, and when you look through the crack, the sky looks like a thin line.

I admired the beautiful scenery and felt sorry for the many people who retreated in fear of hardship. After a winding mountain road, we came to the Yanglai Building in Hengshan. Although the bricks have fallen off in some places due to disrepair, it is still so spectacular from a distance.

The trail is still difficult to climb because it is uneven and slippery, and if you are not careful, you will have to fall. Sometimes you even have to use both hands and feet. The ancient Great Wall is also particularly majestic, looking from a distance, it looks like a long dragon lying on its side on the top of the mountain.

But because of its disrepair, the ancient Great Wall also has a fly in the ointment: some stairs have collapsed, and the highest can reach about 50 centimeters. Although there is a small staircase next to it, but because it is narrow and small, and there is a cliff on one side, such a road can not be walked by children at all, so the steps are too high for parents to carry me down, I thought while walking:

The ancient Great Wall is so high, how did the working people of ancient China build it?

I was very happy on this trip, because we not only saw the beautiful scenery, but also realized a truth: infinite scenery is in the dangerous peak. Only by persevering can we win.

It's really well written. All my children have children

The father is so speechless, the child's problem is to help the local civil affairs agency to apply for subsidies or subsistence allowances!

Poor child, help take care of it. He could sue his dad, but it didn't work.

It depends on who the child's current personality is like, from a certain point of view, a person's blessing is born with a fixed number, if you want to increase, you need to worship the Buddha and other offerings to the Three Jewels in the future to make merit and do good deeds. Today's children can already see that their personality is more like the person in the family when they are close to one year old, which is a subconscious performance, and many of them do not learn from others. If it is like your husband and the people in his family, it does not seem to be a blessed thing, and you will cause trouble for yourself in the future.

If you or your family members are more temperamental, they may be very sensible and filial in the future. However, everything should be bitter first and then sweet, if the child is like his own side, you can also consider letting her husband bring, although it is bitter and painful, on the one hand, you can avoid your husband's excesses and make you or the child a lot of harm; On the one hand, let the child endure hardships and grow up on his side, you can watch the child occasionally, and the child will always know who is good. Of course, it must be bitter for children to have stepmothers, but they can really exercise their growth, whether it is in the hour or after work, it is an indispensable way for life to grow, of course, it is excellent from an early age, because the really blessed child matures in a harsh environment and grows up very fast.

Let me tell you a little, don't think that there is no custody of you is not yours, you have a lot of inconvenience, a lot of powerlessness, in fact, the child is a person, not an object, never anyone's, you don't worry too much about him, let him be sensible as soon as possible, if you are with you, I am afraid that when you go to college, you will have to help him with the dormitory tower mosquito net, clean, help this gang that, like a nanny to stifle the experience and growth he should have.

I feel that your husband doesn't want to divorce you, so he uses having children as an excuse to make you not divorce him because you can't bear to have children. Do you just bring it to him, but you have to make it clear to the judge or the agreement that you don't want the child, it's your husband who insists on it, if he doesn't bring it well, you still ask the court for your custody back, after all, the child is not because you don't want it.

In fact, you know the answer, but reluctant to have children, adult divorce hurts the most or children, but since it has become a fact, you can see the point, children and mothers, compared to the father to take care of life well, but there is a point, if the child reaches adolescence, if the child is well-behaved, don't worry about it, if rebellious, the mother is difficult to discipline the child, not as powerful as the father, and with a boy after remarriage must be a little more difficult, if the father loves his son very much, You can consider letting your dad take it, and you can care about it every week, so you can also But your child is only more than a year old, if you want a child, under normal circumstances, the child will be awarded to you!

Listen to what you said about this situation, it's better to be with your mother, if you definitely want a divorce. The first child was still young, and I remember that there seemed to be a legal provision that divorced children during lactation should be with their mothers; Second, children need a good environment for their growth, and if you and your husband are likely to be affected by violence, it is not conducive to future growth; Thirdly, raising a child requires a sense of responsibility, not an impulse, and if it is handed over to an irresponsible person to take care of it, the first problem to face is safety.

You can negotiate with your husband that custody of the child will be given to him, but you will raise him until he reaches adulthood, during which time he can come and see the child at any time, and even during this period you can not ask him to pay child support.

Children up to two years of age will be awarded to the mother, unless the mother has special circumstances. He doesn't give it, so go through the legal process if you want it.