Adoptive mothers are relatives. Why do you care about my life?

Hello friend, judging from the description you gave, your adoptive mother is good to you, and she can manage your life, which means that she loves you.

Just because your adoptive mother is your relative, these two layers of relationship are in it, so she will love you very much, and she will control you!

Although she is an adoptive mother, she is also your guardian, and she has a responsibility to you, and there is also love.

Tell her to raise pigs, don't raise her mother, at least raise pigs and eat his meat, you said to raise you white-eyed wolf, the meat has no hardship and is busy with dogs. There is no value at all.

Your adoptive mother is a relative, and if he cares about your life, it means that he loves you very much and respects you, otherwise if he doesn't ask, then you mean that he really doesn't love you.

Your adoptive mother is also your mother and legal guardian, and she has the right to control you.

The adoptive mother is a relative, and the reason why she cares about your life must be related by blood, reluctant, or entrusted to him by the family, and he is obligated to enter him.

Raising an animal has feelings, let alone a human?

Because although he is your relative, he is also your adoptive mother, and he will definitely educate you well and take care of you.

Because she is both your relative and your adoptive mother, she is naturally in charge of your life.

The adoptive mother is a relative, which means that you don't accept her at all in your heart, and the adoptive mother controls your life, which means that she really treats you as her own child. Change your cognition, accept her, and learn to empathize.

Although she is your relative, she plays the role of an adoptive mother, and a good adoptive mother will try her best to let you choose the right path and move forward bravely. Even if your life is normal, proper restraint will help you develop.

It doesn't matter what aspect you have, most people are well-intentioned, so you don't have to worry too much about it if you don't go too far. For example, when I was growing up, I had no one to guide me, so now I like to tell my children that they will take fewer detours.

However, like the older generation of relatives, their ideological vision is limited, and many of their backward concepts really can't help us much. But it hurts to say it, no one wants to be a useless person in the eyes of others, and it is more difficult for some of them to update their knowledge. We still have to encourage and help each other, so that everyone will get better and better.

It's too intervening, learn to refuse tactfully, and keep your distance. Young people learn to exercise restraint and try not to hurt the hearts of good old people.

It's normal for your adoptive mother to take care of your life.

Judging by your description, you were adopted, and they were supposed to have children of their own, so as a child you grew up experiencing a lot of injustice and abuse. But I analyze, your current unsatisfactory, in the final analysis, is caused by your own self-love, you said that you were broken by outsiders, under normal circumstances, as an adult woman, clean self-love and do not make some fox friends and dogs, how can someone be so ruthless? Therefore, if you want to change the status quo, first of all, you must cherish yourself, take your feelings seriously, and know how to guard yourself before meeting a true person, that is, you are no longer a virgin, which will also enhance your value.

Again, you can find a job and work hard after you get better, which is not only insisting on supporting yourself, but also waiting for your future, there are so many men in the world, you will always meet someone who is good to you. In the end, you put aside your resentment, stay away from them to find your own happiness, and send them some money from time to time during this period, after all, you have raised you, you are grateful, optimistic life, in order to make yourself more attractive.

Your adoptive mother won't be really nice to you. They raised you for a purpose in the first place, if you didn't do what they did. They will leak out of their true nature, and they will be sincere to someone who is not related to them,,, and will not treat you as they are to themselves.

So you don't have any illusions about them, it's really good for you.

You looked good at your introduction.

I am very sympathetic to what you are going through.

Does your adoptive mother have a child of her own?

If not. Then you have to find the reason in yourself.

It's just my thoughts, if it's me, I just want to know why I was born, why I didn't raise it, and why I came back to recognize my relatives.

If the answer is me, I will not choose my biological parents, because we know the feeling of abandonment better than anyone else, how can I be ruthless to leave the person who gave me my family in the first place! Whether it's good or bad, it's my parents who have raised me for 30 years, who have given me 30 years of shelter at home, I have called my parents for 30 years, if it were me, I would give my biological parents a chance to make up for my regrets, I will make it clear to my adoptive parents that I will always love you and never leave you, the adoptive parents said, we are just one more person who loves me, we are just simple relatives, to make up for their original regrets, life is very short, please live your own day, you are really happy since you were a child, you know who you are since you were a child, from **, How many children know that they are not biological, but they can't ask yet, and in the end they don't know who they are, compared with them, you are still entangled in what to go or not, if you want to go, take your adoptive parents to go, if you don't want to go, don't go, the relatives on the side of the biological parents, what is it, but you must not hurt the person who raised you, and the person who gave birth to you, we owe them in our previous life, and don't leave regrets for yourself if life is short

This has happened since ancient times, and wise and generous people have treated their own life as the same as their health, no matter what factors cause such an outcome....Reason and law are sunny....You can let go of resentment and acceptance, and prove that you understand and tolerate....Your life will be wonderful later on....I wish you happiness and happiness...!!

Dear, is your home **? I am 28 years old. Back then, because of family planning, the biological parents gave birth to a total of six children, the eldest daughter belongs to now, the second daughter passed away at a very young age, the third is also there, the fourth and fifth are all women who were given away for adoption, I am the fifth, and the sixth is a younger brother.

Back then, in order to get this younger brother, he gave away the fourth and fifth children.

Don't ignore blood relations because of kinship, remember the golden mean.

Now you don't have money to have so many ideas, and when you have money, you won't have these problems.

This is a matter of personal opinion, and you can do what you think. Some people don't identify with their adoptive mothers, and some people don't identify with their biological mothers. It's all about the individual mentality.

The two families maintain normal communication, have the ability, and can house or something.

4 loved ones. Treat it the same.

She may be afraid that you will leave her alone if you get married, time can change everything, as long as you face her from the heart, one day she will find that you are her best daughter

Treat her with a grateful heart, and she will definitely be moved. After all, she has raised you for so many years, and you must know how to repay your kindness.

Karma! Be kind to her, and when you get married in the future, it will be fine.

Treat her with a grateful heart.

Support your approach, you are already worthy of your conscience and your stepmother!

The stepmother's spring noodles change at 3 o'clock a day.

If she doesn't care about you, why are you doing so good to her.

If you don't understand, maybe you have a good heart.

Yes! Legally speaking, her adoptive father and adoptive mother are the legal guardians and have the right to manage their adoptive daughter's life, but if she is 18 enough, they can't manage so much! If your family is on their side, then you are miserable!

You must break up with her! But if your family is on your side, you don't have to worry, they will take care of it for you! You should ask a lawyer about these questions, and they will have more detailed answers to these questions!

I wish you all happiness!

1: You can calmly communicate with them in words, after all, love is free! Even real parents can't stop it!

Unless the man is not a person who can be relied on for a lifetime! You can find a place where the occasion is a little bigger and more crowded, such as: hotel, park!

Ask them out for dinner or shopping, and use words to convince them to agree, but remember to be soft and promise happiness to their daughter! If you get married, you will raise their two elders! But be sure to remember to bring your girlfriend out, this is more convincing, and then see if their answer will be a little more stable, if not, they won't dare to do anything to you, after all, there are more people around them to save face!

2: Ask your girlfriend's relatives to help persuade you! Let them know who you are! That might be a lot easier to say!

The biological parents have no rights, and the adoptive parents have no rights, and marriage and love are freely chosen by two people, and the chairman can't control them.

I envy you.

I used to think that there was no true love in this world.

It's just that I haven't encountered it.

Sorry to go to the police.

The best thing to do is to go to court.

That's more straightforward and has no sequelae.

Human beings are born with basic human rights!

Attaining the age of 18 confers the fundamental rights of the State.

You can go and see the next and off"Human rights"information.

Basically, men and women who reach the age of 18 have various rights, including freedom.

Not to be interfered with by others.

If the warning doesn't work, you can go to court and sue them, and if you don't know anything, get a lawyer, as if there is a free lawyer to help solve the legal problems of the unrich!

Adoptive parents and adoptive children have the same legal rights and obligations as legitimate parents and children.

According to Article 3 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.

Therefore, the behavior of her adoptive parents has constituted an illegality, and you can request the local ** agency to mediate, if not, you can directly sue the court and enter the judicial process.

Call the police directly, or you two go to the police station and cry.

Stepmom is definitely your loved one, no doubt about it! There are two kinds of relatives, one is the stepmother who treats you with love and affection, and the other is the biological mother by blood. For the biological mother who left for some reason, you have a concern complex in your heart, the reason for blood relationship.

You can treat your stepmother like your own mother, and your biological mother will depend on the situation in the future, as long as you don't regret it in your heart!

Both are your relatives. Don't you understand this at the age of 24? It is your biological mother who brought you into this world, who has the grace of fertility and blood relations with you.

Your biological mother is no older than your adoptive mother, and your adoptive mother has raised you for 24 years, and her kindness is better than that of your biological mother, and she has the grace to raise you. They are all mothers, they are all kind, and they are all relatives.

I don't know how you understand the word loved one. It doesn't mean that those who are related by blood are called relatives. Those who love each other and care for each other are relatives. Your stepmother has raised you for so many years, then she is your relative, the mother you should thank and love the most.

Both are loved ones.

Your stepmother is the closest person in your life.

Your birth mother is your blood relative.

There is no conflict between the two. Treat it the same!

Did your adoptive father and adoptive mother give you money? Do you have feelings for you? Since they have no feelings for you, why do you still force their love for you. Just repay them for their nurturing kindness and help them appropriately when they are old.

Since your biological parents gave you 250,000, they still have you in their hearts.

Listen to your description, your health is not good, even if you are not in good health, you must be self-motivated, don't keep thinking that if you are not in good health, you can't find a job, and you can't earn enough money to attributed to your health. You must be strong in your own will, and you live not for others, but for your own better life. Love, don't wait for others to give it, but fight for it yourself.

Work on yourself.

Look at Youku Zeng Shiqiang's Zeng Guofan's way of knowing people, you will be relieved a lot, your parents give you 250,000, do your adoptive parents know?

So understandable, and asked, isn't the money just right, don't blame your parents for being wise!

Take the money given to you by your biological parents to do something for your business, and don't have the attitude of supporting your parents, the money is originally for you personally.

Don't be upset, live separately. After earning money, pay some living expenses to the adoptive parents.

Because they really love you, they are afraid that your dreams are unrealistic, and once you invest in them, there will be risks.

You said you don't want these family affections anymore, maybe in n years, you will understand their intentions.

Times are different, and there will definitely be a gap between various concepts.

It is difficult for individuals to think about the world, life, and the meaning of existence in the same way as their elders in that era.

Maybe you can find the answer on the Internet now, but it may still be a kind of confusion for them.

In a sense, you may be more mature and insightful than them, and the things you pursue are naturally different.

But when they don't find what they want, they will take a step back and pursue something simple, such as a peaceful and harmonious life.

Indeed, the current elders have become out of touch with the current society. They always because a comfortable life is the best. But today's young people want to break through, so it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions, and I personally suggest that you can't completely ignore what your elders say, and you should screen out reasonable opinions to accept.

Then you can do what you want to do, if you unfortunately fail, there is no regret, if you succeed, the result does not need to be said.

Their opinions can be used as a reference to gauge their own ideas and break through something....