I can t realize my ideals, I m at a loss, and I don t know what to do

Chew to the root of the vegetables, everything can be done, be less impetuous, don't look at the masters, pay attention to all knowledge, learn a little reverse thinking ability, and understand the rich. Vast countryside with unlimited business opportunities. The little pumpkins are popular all over China, and the sweet potato seedlings enter the big hotel and sell the seawater into Shanghai, which is a popular successful example, which is the business myth created by our farmers in the new era.

If you don't have business acumen to give you 1 million, you are also a poor egg, and you can earn 10 million with a handful of wild vegetables with a good mind. The quotations of the part-time worker are good, the part-time job is long-term ambition not to make money, run to the future before thirty, run to the money after thirty, and finally send you three books 1"*** Biography" It tells us what *** was doing when I was as old as you and me, and he may not be as lucky as us, 2

Popular Psychology It tells us what other people are thinking3"The Art of Eloquence" will teach us how to bring the dead to life. Ha ha.

If I'm not mistaken, you're in your 20s now, but if Bill Gates had given up at your age, maybe there wouldn't have been Microsoft today, and if Einstein had given up at your age, maybe there wouldn't have been so many great theories. You may say that they are all geniuses and prodigies, but they are not. They are also like us, with one hand and one head.

The biggest difference between them and us is that they never give up. Only with absolute confidence in yourself can it give you the motivation to move forward.

If you lose your faith, you will lose your ideals, and you will lose the direction of your life. So absolute confidence is the key to success.

As the saying goes: 360 lines are champions, and being a farmer is not useless! The key depends on whether you want to be a farmer who is willing to obey the arrangement of fate or a farmer who is independent research and development and independent innovation.

Life is not smooth sailing, everyone has a time when they have talents, the key is to remember that you are gold there, and everything you do will shine! Instead of believing in fate and being a slave of fate, it is better to be the master of fate and control your own destiny. Whenever you keep in mind:

Intertwined fate, the three threads that dominate fate are long in the palm of your hand, and you can grasp it and grasp it at any time.

In the end, don't you want to be a good businessman, then work hard, maybe the change of fate is just around the next corner, and only by turning the corner, you will see your next path.

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Did you know that being successful is not necessarily to be a good businessman, nor is it to be rich, successful people will definitely do one thing with all their heart, do it the best, and help the most! In the end, he is the most successful person, and I would say that if I don't have any noble work in the future, even if I am asked to clean the toilets, I will sweep the cleanest in China! Really become a successful person There will be no special rules Heroes don't ask where they come from Which successful person hasn't experienced a tribulation and succeeded casually?

As long as you believe in yourself, do the same, and do your best to do it well, then you have absolutely no problem achieving your dreams.

I think the ideal, to proceed from reality, your family in the countryside, is not idle, many national model workers, all kinds of champions are from the countryside, you can develop according to the local reality, such as breeding, vegetable planting, etc., but you must pay your own efforts, sit and wait is not waiting, but also persevere. Facing the reality, don't talk about ideals, and your pain may gradually be reduced.

The question you mentioned has also been something I have thought about repeatedly.

My understanding is: never give up your ideals!

If you give up your ideal life, you will lose hope and color.

It is unthinkable to live without ideals.

However, the ideal --- must be actionable, not unrealistic.

Unbounded ideals will bring tragedy to life.

Ideals can be adjusted and re-established.

A correct ideal is the psychological cornerstone of a person's life.

It's actually a matter of career planning as well.

For example, I have a friend who really wants to be a director (to be honest, if he can be a good director, China will have at least tens of millions of good directors). In this way, there is something wrong with the ideal.

Later, his dream became to be an excellent Chinese teacher. His life was bright.

As long as you give yourself a satisfactory answer, I believe that you will not be in pain.

This is a suggestion only, for reference.

On the one hand, your environmental problems are that you're not fighting for your ideals, you're not taking action, and I want to know what you're capable of, what you can do, and you're just thinking, Can you say, there's no use.

Looking for opportunities, you are still young, there are many opportunities, give up now and wait for the future to be impossible again. Hard work is the truth.

To continue to work hard for the goal, everyone has a dream, but not everyone can achieve it, you have to test your skills plus a little luck

If you want to do a big career, you must at least have the capital, the capital is the best to come, of course, you earn it by yourself, you work to earn money, don't you have the opportunity to do a big business.

Hug you First of all, I am happy for you, although you stay up late, skip class, copy homework, fight and answer questions, and feel lost about the future for the time being, but you have a heart that wants to become excellent, but you have not found the way forward for the time being.

If you want to be excellent but don't want to work hard, don't you know how to work hard?

The past does not represent the future, and staying up late, skipping classes, copying homework, and fighting in the past does not represent your future can not shine.

Everyone will experience confusion in their lives, and when they can't find their way, it's normal to slip, don't worry, look for it slowly, you will always find it.

Are there one or several classes in your study process that you don't feel so annoying? Or is there a moment or a certain moment that makes you feel that learning is still a little interesting. How about trying to explore more?

Feeling that life is chaotic, is it because there is no reasonable plan? How about slowly making your life more regular? It allows you to slowly regain a sense of control over your life.

Try to allow yourself to discover more wonderful places in life.

The above is a little bit of my advice, I hope it can help you. Best wishes.

Ideal and reality, in fact, to put it bluntly, is the boundary between spirit and reality!

I'm afraid there are very few ideals and realities that can be taken care of at the same time? There is only reality and no ideals, as if a person only has a shell and loses that "heart"? Only "ideals" and "reality"?

Is that also a kind of eternal "childishness"? Even "survival" has become a problem? That kind of result, or become a big thing?

Or destruction? Just like Van Gogh, he eventually starved to death on the streets for painting, but he created an immortal legend, and his paintings have become priceless treasures today! It should be said that in the end, he was still successful!

And the hazy poet Gu Cheng was finally destroyed in his "hazy poetry", because the "hazy poetry" limited his life, and finally created the tragedy of his life!

I'm not Van Gogh, I'm not Gu Cheng, I'm just an ordinary layman! So, the first thing I have to face is my reality, which is life. Although I also have my ideals in life, I can only secretly "idealize" ...... in the "cracks" of life

The ideal is the mountains in the distance, the reality is the road under your feet, when you are tired of walking, look up at the scenery in the distance, the mood will be better, and you will not feel so tired.

Life, in order to work hard and realize dreams, hard work and pressure are inevitable, difficulties and setbacks are immeasurable, life troubles, workplace pressure, interpersonal cynicism, intrigue, deceit, but also impetuous, complaining, feeling that life is sinful, but being able to endure hardship is also a kind of tempering, to endure hardship, to be a master, life must be firm and strong, unyielding, flexible adjustment of mentality, way of thinking and handling skills, so as to face sudden difficulties and pressure, in order to be optimistic and positive, Take it easy, find ways to solve difficulties, continue to struggle, if you become hesitant and withdrawn, doubt yourself, or even languish because of frustration pressure, then dreams are just fantasies, success is just luxury, so, optimistic and positive, sunny and confident, there is always a turnaround and hope.

ideals, perhaps, are a regression of "thirty-one years to return to the old country"; Maybe it's the future where robots replace all human labor; Perhaps the Creator's rush to an alien planet may be negated; Maybe it's to cherish the contribution of a small grass to humanity. One before and one behind, one high and one low: is your ideal to just think about it, or to aim at a goal and climb without being discouraged?

You didn't say it. What can be separated from is the idea, and what is absolutely inseparable is the reality!!

Ideally, something that is somewhat similar to a soap bubble, you look at it from a distance, it looks beautiful, it can even be chased by you, but once you catch it, it will burst, it will be lost, and you will be frustrated.

The ideal world is a perfect and beautiful world, but the real world is indeed a real and cruel world. When the ideal and the reality are infinitely close, a beautiful and real world will slowly emerge. On the contrary, people's hearts will be broken, and sweet dreams will become bad news in life, and they will become the weight of life that we cannot bear.

Regarding ideals and reality, the philosopher Feng Youlan summarized a few points, let's listen to them and see what the advantages or disadvantages are.

1, Shakyamuni cut his own flesh to feed the eagle, which is a benevolent act, but using the blood and sweat of the Indians to maintain the prosperity of the British, not only Gandhi opposed, even if Shakyamuni was resurrected, he would not agree. The ideals of the British are not only interests, but also interests.

2. There is no law between countries, and there is not much morality between countries, and there are no eternal enemies between countries, only eternal interests. It is better to talk about reality not among countries.

3. Ideals and reality are not opposites, but depend on each other. Reality is inseparable from ideals, and ideals are inseparable from reality.

It was the ideals that I kept pursuing, which hindered my desire to return to my hometown to work and live.

I think this is a very good thing, because in the process of pursuing our ideals, we will continue to make ourselves better, and we will continue to work hard to manage our own lives.

Hard work is the most effective path to any success, and it is also the best way to achieve all your dreams, no matter what situation you are in, as long as you put in the hard work, you will definitely reap the rewards, because life has never failed anyone who works hard.

Opportunities are the same for everyone, many times, who has more opportunities, it depends on who works harder, countless facts have also shown that those who can become excellent people and live better people, the initial success is inseparable from focus and hard work, this good luck, must also rely on their own efforts to get.

Hard work means that you must be diligent, as the so-called diligence can make up for clumsiness, diligence is our inexhaustible ability, but also the basis for determining success in life, there is nothing difficult in the world, no matter what kind of conditions you have, in what environment, as long as you can do positive efforts and diligence, there will be a chance to succeed.

If the goal of efforts is too much, the ability will inevitably be scattered, if the current state is because of the goal that you are trying to pursue too much, then we must quickly reflect on ourselves, find out the most important thing for ourselves and the most able to move towards the goal, and then concentrate on the ability, focus on doing this thing well, and then do the next one, so that our efforts can be called efficient.

Life will not always treat us well, there will be setbacks will experience failure, go your own way, live your own life, life needs to work hard, but also need to learn to choose, choose the right direction, everyone is through their own efforts, to determine the beautiful look of life, don't waste time, don't let tomorrow's self because today is not hard enough and disappointed, the ideal can only be realized in reality by focusing on the efforts of action.

The ideal is a requirement for oneself, a long-term one. If you don't have an ideal, you don't know what your needs are, but you can try to think about what your short-term needs are, think about a few, and do more, maybe you can think of what your long-term goals are.

1.Start with your own interests and see what you are best at.

Grasp a certain point in your body and use it as a support for you to achieve your ideals. The ideal is to do what you love the most, and only if you love this thing enough, you will set a goal for this thing, then how do I do it, and so on.

2.Do everything well in the moment and enjoy every moment of the moment.

No matter how big your ideals are, if you don't face the reality and ask yourself, then you will never be able to achieve it. A very simple ideal is to set too big goals for yourself. Set yourself a short-term goal first, and when you achieve this small goal, you may not be far from this big goal.

When you do every little thing around you well, then your ideal goal will be achieved naturally.

3.Behind the ideals is the support of faith.

When you really can't find your ideals, you just ask yourself to let go, what can I do? What will I do? Doing what you can do best is also thinking that you are moving towards your dreams!

As an ordinary person, have a normal heart, do what you like, do things that contribute to society, and live a peaceful life without shock. Earn a few ordinary people's small money and live this happy little life. It's not about going with the flow, it's about going with the flow.