Would you pour out your heart and lungs to a good friend?

People are not the same. To put it bluntly, you're digging out the wrong person with your heart and lungs. It is good to do what kind of things to what kind of people, but don't be a poor and good person who has no heart, because you can only be treated as a fool in the end, so some people say that a good person is a young string.

In fact, it doesn't have to be like this, doesn't it mean that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water? The first step in interacting with people is to make the other party feel that you are very sincere, because everyone likes honest and steady people, and always makes people feel your sincerity, then your interpersonal relationship will be more and more open in the near future. Confidants are hard to find, you meet ten bosom friends to have one can be your confidant is good, I understand your feelings, because I have also been troubled by this problem, but now I understand, good friends, can not be found, I am sincere to friends, friends can use one-tenth of my sincerity to me is good, so do not ask friends to treat you how to how, people are handed over, the road knows the horsepower, see the hearts of the people for a long time, there is no shortcut in life, time can prove everything.

Instead of asking others to do something to you, you should first ask yourself to be honest and honest, so that you will have no fewer friends, because everyone likes such people!

Of course, people are like a mirror, and if you want others to be good to you, you have to be nice to others first....But you have to understand that even if you are nice to others, they are not necessarily good to you as well....This is the human heart....So, cherish those who are willing to be nice to you, because slowly you will find that there will be fewer and fewer such people....

Everything is possible, there are also friends who dig out your heart and lungs, there are two kinds of this situation, one is that after you dig out your heart and lungs for him, you will form a heart-to-heart friendship, and the second is that he is heart-to-heart for you, if you want to continue this situation, you should learn to take Fu Qing out!

This problem is that you should learn to give in order to have a lasting friendship.

Of course it exists, it's just to tell Sun Que if he can be lucky to meet, in real life, there are many friends who get along very well when there is no difficulty, and Kai Pao will slowly distance himself from each other when he has something to do early.

Summary. This is not recommended, as it may make you more and more dependent on others, and you will not be able to learn to be strong and independent. You can focus on yourself, learn to take better care of yourself, and learn to accept your shortcomings and put more energy into self-growth.

This is not recommended, as it may make you more and more dependent on others, and you will not be able to learn to be strong and independent. You can focus on yourself, learn to take better care of yourself, and learn to accept your own shortcomings and put more energy into the lack of self-esteem.

I know netizens, and I have a relationship with me in the oral hall, and encourage me well. I would like to be with him, and then the two laughing people will get better and work together. And then pour out your heart and lungs to others, what should you do?

I don't know how to love myself anymore? I've become a love brain, how can I correct myself?

Those who are kind to others should start with contentment, help them solve problems, devote themselves to their families, and participate in the small things in their lives. We must learn to look at problems objectively, put personal interests aside, and do something truly meaningful.

You can try to focus on yourself, learn to accept your shortcomings, and learn to better illuminate yourself, such as eating healthy, exercising, and getting enough sleep. At the same time, you can also try to participate in more meaningful activities to increase your sense of self-worth and regain your self-esteem.

I tend to compromise with others, worry about others, and care a lot about other people's feelings. Is it because I'm not confident?

Don't blindly give, Sen falsely told Zhenchun to take care of himself, take care of himself to have the ability to take care of others, digging out his heart and lungs is often not a wise choice, which has nothing to do with self-confidence, it is often determined by character.

I had an emotional breakdown because of a small incident with a friend. I think my friend didn't argue with me, and I was kind to him, and then I blindly compromised him. But I can always feel guilty because of some of the kindness he used to have to me, feel that it was my fault, and then compromise with him.

I don't know if I can continue to be friends with him now, but I don't want to be a banquet inside. Is it still appropriate for me to continue to be friends with him?

Friends are colder, and I'm the more enthusiastic one. He is slow to do things behind closed doors, but I am very fast. I always seem to have unilaterally expressed to him my love for his sedan oak, he was cold, but he didn't share things with me, I was always sharing with him.

If you want to continue your friendship, you first need to be clear about your relationship. You should first consider your own thoughts, such as whether you want to continue to maintain friendship with him, whether you can still communicate effectively with him, whether you can accept his attitude and tell him your thoughts. If you both want to continue your friendship, you can try to re-establish a harmonious relationship that includes communication, communication, understanding, and avoiding repeating the mistakes of the past.

Otherwise, give up.

Summary. It has nothing to do with your character, it may have a lot to do with your style of dealing with people, and the way you deal with people, including your communication skills.

It's good to pour out your heart and lungs to others + in exchange for it.

Hello, very happy and honored to have your question. What do you get in exchange for being kind to others? is not to understand .........

Why is it that the better I treat others, the less people take it seriously, is it my character problem?

Because there is a phenomenon, which is also the law of science: the better you treat others, the more they think you are currying with them.

The more others feel that you should be good to him, and it is your fault that you are not good to him.

It has nothing to do with your character, it may have a lot to do with your style of dealing with people, and the way you deal with people, including your communication skills.

Yes, to others. You are like a treasure to her, she is a grass, you are a man? You are good to this lady, for what? Is it normal to be nice to her, or do you want to pursue her?

If you're trying to pursue her, I think she's right to ignore you, because this girl may not be interested in you. If it is an ordinary person, or an ordinary person, if you are kind to her, normal words will give you feedback, and even say thank you for it.

But you're pursuing a girl, I think it's normal to ignore it, and you need to continue to work hard, it's a long-term process. I hope I can help you, thank you for using the consultation.

I think when making friends, because it's a new friend, I think there should be somewhere, because you don't know what kind of person they are, and what kind of ideas they want to make friends with you, if he is simply thinking about making friends with you, then I think it should be okay, if he has his own kind of ulterior thoughts to make friends with you, then you don't know, so I think when making friends, you must not be heart-to-heart for every friend. Because then you are also vulnerable.

And I think this hurt is really terrible, for example, a typical example is that you tell your secret to your so-called friend, if he is to blackmail you and control you because of this, have you ever thought of a way to solve it? If your relationship is good at the beginning, he won't dare to do anything to you, but if there are some problems in your relationship, they will definitely give you a fatal blow, because he knows your secrets, which is equivalent to planting a bomb in his own hands, and he will give you this bomb in turn.

Also, have you ever thought that if you tell your secrets to a friend you really trust, that friend of yours will definitely help you keep that secret? He is also very grateful for your trust in him and keeps his mouth shut for you, but in fact, he also has to carry a lot of psychological baggage. Because for example, after you drink, you inadvertently tell other people, and then you forget about it, and you think that the friend you particularly believe in said it, as long as your friend will be burdened with that trumped-up crime, and no matter how much you trust him verbally, he will have a psychological shadow, and it will hurt your relationship.

In addition, many people will think that my heart and lungs are a sign of trust, in fact, I think this may have a not very good effect, for example, people actually think you are good at first, but if you tell others yourself, how you are how you are, people will definitely think, oh, so you are such a person.

You must think that as long as you dig out your heart and lungs, the other party should believe you, but I think it's the opposite, because the other party may be wary of you and think that you are trying to trick him. Because it is easy to dig out your heart and lungs to each other, it will make people think that you are an immature person.

I think you should be careful, because only in this way can you make more sincere friends and develop good trading habits.

I think you should be wary of everyone when you make friends, because you never know what the other person is really thinking.

Be wary. Because people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, you don't know what kind of person the other party is under the disguise.

I believe that the best friends to make are to learn to tolerate each other, understand each other, and care for each other. And Peng Kai buries friends to learn empathy and have a certain tacit understanding. There is also selflessness to help friends when they need help!

Friends are determined by their word, never abandoned, trust each other, and respect each other. A sincere friendship between friends can only be made possible by the sincere dedication of both parties.

As long as both parties have the right grasp, it is not difficult to have sincere and long-lasting friendships!

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