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There is a saying in China: "The right door". It's that the status and wealth of both men and women are roughly the same.
But now the average young person thinks that true love can overcome everything, and everything can be compensated for by true love. But there is truth to both, except that the former applies to everyone, and the latter is not for everyone.
If two people are not in the right place, then there are often many contradictions between the two. First of all, it is economic, if it is not a good match, then it means that there is a certain gap between the two economies, and there must be one side that is relatively rich and the other side is relatively poor. Generally speaking, the lives of rich people and ordinary people are not the same, and the lifestyle, consumption outlook, and money outlook ......There are still some changes.
Moreover, the "poor" side will rely on the "rich" side, and there will also be a certain inferiority complex.
And then in terms of academic qualifications, people with different educational backgrounds must have different education. Everyone in the same classroom has their own three views, not to mention people with different academic qualifications. A very important premise for finding a partner is that the three views should be roughly the same and the ambitions should be roughly the same.
Different ways do not conspire with each other, and different aspirations do not make friends with different wills". If two people have different levels and different aspirations, and everyone has their own views on anything, then how can they still get along smoothly together? You may be able to tolerate it once or twice, but can you still tolerate it after too many times?
If there is a person who "disagrees" with him all day long, will he be very "annoyed".
But can't two people who are "not in the right door and in the wrong household" really not be together, that will not either. There are two methods: one person slowly works his own, makes himself slowly become excellent, and then deserves the other party; The other person will let the excellent person "succumb".
If you really love each other, you definitely don't want each other to be like you, but want both of them to be excellent. In the face of a girlfriend from a prestigious school, first of all, you can't feel inferior, and you can't feel that you are not worthy of the other party. Then read more books to enrich your knowledge and make yourself better.
Secondly, be able to listen to and understand each other's thoughts and opinions.
Girls in prestigious schools are not much different from ordinary people, but in the eyes of others, they are often more "excellent", as long as they strive to become as good as her, then there is no longer a gap.
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I think the educational gap can't be a factor that restricts your love, you should adjust your mentality and use an equal attitude to interact with your girlfriend, so that you don't feel inferior in love.
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I think that although your girlfriend is very good, I think that since he can take a fancy to you, you should not be so bad as to **, so I think you should not be too inferior, and you can play to your strengths again.
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You can date a girlfriend from a prestigious school, which means that your own ability is not bad, so if you want to get along with each other, you only need to improve your own amount of money, spend one! Expressing that you appreciate more of your friends, or you are more accidental to forbid one! There are so many meanings that can be represented, and there are too many bridges to represent.
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