How do you get along with your college roommates?

I have always felt that getting along with college roommates is a very important thing, and I must handle this relationship well, and I have seen the news on the Internet before that the bad relationship between roommates leads to bad things, so there are also many graduates who joke when they graduate and say that they thank their roommates for not killing them.

Although it was a joke, I experienced the importance of roommate relationships.

Why does it matter? Probably because each of us is a baby of our parents at home, before going to college, we actually did not have contact with collective life in the real sense, and then went to college, which must be experienced, several people in a dormitory may come from different cities to go to college, and in the next four or five years we have to live in a dormitory, but before everyone has their own living habits and character, collective life will inevitably produce various contradictions and frictions, if it is not handled well, Then the dormitory life will not be good, and it is embarrassing to look up and not look down every day, and the relationship is not good.

So be sure to learn to get along with your roommates.

First of all, I think getting along well must be based on mutual love, to be respectful, usually to speak politely, after all, a dormitory, meet every day, and usually there will be a request for people, polite is always right, and I think it is very important that everyone's life and rest are different, if you get up early, or stay up late, remember that the movement must be smaller, do not make noise to others.

All in all, the dormitory relationship must be well maintained.

The university is a "small society", which is not too much to say. In college, you will meet classmates from different regions, different customs, and different styles, and at the same time, you will also face a completely different way of learning and a different way of life in high school.

In this particular occasion of college, interpersonal relationship between dormitory roommates is probably the most basic interpersonal communication, it is so ordinary, but it has accompanied our four years of college life and has become an indispensable part of our college life. Harmonious relationship, good mood, good for physical and mental health and learning; However, if the relationship is not harmonious, it will cast a shadow on our already wonderful university life, bringing a series of negative effects.

So how to deal with the relationship between roommates?

No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. If you notice that your roommate is polite when he goes out and even a little rude in the dormitory, it may be a sign that he really thinks of the dormitory as a home where he can behave freely and without defense. You can't hate someone because they have some kind of shortcoming, if it's not a qualitative one, it's not a moral one.

The fact that everyone can come together is a kind of fate in itself.

If you want to fit into their circle, you might as well play with them, they play games, you can also play, play together is not for you to play with them, occasionally play together, chat, do other things when you want to do other things, it's actually a very simple thing.

In the end, just be yourself. Everyone has their own personality, you have to learn to adapt to everyone, no matter what your personality is, just treat everyone with sincerity.

College doesn't want to have a lot of intrigue when you were a child, and if you can't bear it, you have to learn to avoid it.

Don't expect everyone to become bosom friends, there are not many friends, but in the heart, friends can't be maintained by treats and spending money. Know how to go with the flow.