Why is it said that borrowing money now is spending money to buy enemies?

In reality, there are a lot of friends and even brothers who turn against each other because of money and interests.

Money is an indispensable thing in this society, because of money, we can also recognize the people around us, see people's hearts when borrowing money, and see character when repaying money. Have you ever lent money to someone? Have you ever borrowed money from someone else?

As the saying goes, talking about money hurts feelings, and talking about feelings hurts money. Is friendship nourished by poverty? Or are you overwhelmed by the rich?

When borrowing money, friends really love each other? When you pay back, your friends stop loving each other?

Lending money to you is not to pretend to be an uncle, not to show off, but to continue the love, help out, and help people up, but after the money is lent out, the friendship is lost and the intersection is ruined.

When borrowing money, smiling faces are piled up, vows, promise to repay early, hesitate when asking for money, drink and smoke, repeatedly procrastinate, when helping you, Zhuang speaks proudly, urges you, speaks softly, and in the end, the money does not come, but people turn their faces. Borrowing money to verify feelings, debt collection hurts feelings the most, it's easy to lend out, it's too difficult to come back, you will turn your face if you urge, you won't be anxious, you can't handle it well, you will lose a lot of money, you lose your face and lose your face.

Borrowing money is trustworthy and worthy of you. However, it is difficult for the debt collector to speak, because debt collection always occurs when the other party is unwilling to repay or is unable to repay, and debt collection becomes a falling stone, destroying feelings, and being ungrateful......"The person who pays back the money, even if he pays back your money, will not repay your affection, not only will he not be grateful because you helped him in times of crisis, but because you are ungrateful, you don't give face, and you don't help people to the end. The biggest danger of lending money to others is not losing money, but losing love forever, and doing good deeds will offend people.

It is recommended that you do not ask friends and relatives to borrow money until you have to, and spend money according to your ability, as much as you can.

The person who lends you money is the one who really helps you, and the person who does not repay the debt is the one who ignores feelings the most and borrows money, not to buy an enemy, but to do a good favor and make a confidant. It's easy to borrow money, but it's hard to pay it back.

That's because you lend money to someone you shouldn't borrow, as the saying goes, it's not difficult to borrow well and borrow again, if you don't live up to the trust of others by borrowing money, then this person is incorrigible!

Because some people who borrowed money didn't intend to pay it back at all. I've encountered it, and it took me a few years to get it back. Lessons learned.

Because people nowadays are very selfish, they won't pay you back after borrowing money, which leads to the breakdown of the relationship.

Because once the money is lent to others and wants to be recovered, if it is not handled well, it will cause conflicts with others.

Because now the people who borrow money are uncles, and if you go to ask for money, he will say that you are not righteous.

Because now there are many people who do not have the ability to repay their loans, and they do not return them in time.

Because nowadays many people borrow money and don't pay it back. On the contrary, he owes money like an uncle.

Because the money is lent out, few people are able to return the money in time.

Because many people have borrowed money from you, he will not pay it back, and he will become an enemy.

Because, it is very easy to borrow money, but it is very difficult to urge your friend to repay the money, you are embarrassed to let others repay the money, if your friend has a bad character, it may not be returned to you, and it is possible to speak ill of each other, resulting in the breakdown of the relationship between the last two people and becoming enemies. <>

People pay too much attention to money, and now many people who borrow money and do not repay the loan as agreed are not a few, but the people who borrow money are embarrassed to urge, so the vicious circle will inevitably affect the relationship, so many people are saying that friends can't talk about money. <>

Because after borrowing money from a friend, if someone else doesn't pay it back, and you ask someone else to pay it back, others will think that you are very childish and feel that your friend is not worth befriending, and finally your friend becomes an enemy.

Because it is easy to borrow money to go out and collect money, but it is difficult to come back, many people have money, but they don't pay it back to you, what can you do, it's not good to urge, it's not good to urge, there are many people who will play scoundrels, and eventually turn friends into enemies.

Enemies are not afraid of many, when there are more and more, you have to find a way to solve all these people, the premise must be considered well, it must be right to study repeatedly.

There is a Goethe whose name is (Friend), which tells you about the relationship between friends at the beginning: Life is like a dream, and friends are like fog. If you lend money to the fog, then it will be scattered.

Because once you lend money to a friend, if the friend forgets to pay it back, you ask him to ask him to pay it back to you very happily. If he just doesn't want to pay it back, if you ask him for it, he'll say you're stingy. If you don't want it, why should you give him this money, you are lending it to him.

So you won't want to have more contact with him in the future.

The integrity is too low, and you don't want to repay the money after you borrow it, and other people's hard-earned money is not blown by the wind, and you end up spending money to buy enemies. In fact, borrowing or not borrowing is an enmity. It's not surprising that if you borrow money and don't pay it back, you're going to be an enemy!

I feel that people take money too seriously, and now many people who borrow money and do not repay the loan according to the agreement are not a few, but the people who borrow money are embarrassed to urge, so the vicious circle will inevitably affect the relationship, so many people are saying, friends can't talk about money, and now there is a saying that is very consistent with borrowing money should be, and it depends on the mood to repay the money.

The world is declining, morality is declining, integrity is lacking, and people's hearts are not ancient, so the money lent out will not be returned, and friends will become enemies.

Because this thing involves some of our interest disputes, so when you don't agree with other people's ideas, other people will think that you are inconsiderate of them, so they will have some dissatisfaction with you.

Relatives who habitually borrow money and do not pay it back.

Some relatives borrow money more frequently, the kind that borrows several times a year. However, the money borrowed before cannot be repaid, and it belongs to the type of old debts that cannot be repaid, and new debts have to be borrowed. When you meet this kind of relative, you have to be careful, don't always feel embarrassed not to borrow.

Because it is very likely that you are just talking about love, and in the end you borrow too much, and your relatives will pay it back if you don't see it. If you urge him to repay the money, people may bite back and say that you are stingy, so it will not seem good, and he will complain in vain.

Relatives of bad character do not borrow.

If the character of your relatives is not particularly good in the whole circle, try to stay away from such people. Because everyone doesn't like unreasonable, arrogant and domineering people. In the circle of relatives, if a person is good at talking and kind, he is bound to have good popularity.

So you have to remember that if you have relatives in your family, everyone around you will spurn you and your reputation is not good. If he asks you to borrow money, this money must not be borrowed, because it is very likely that there will be no return. In the end, you will be blamed for not being left behind, this is a typical thankless effort, and reasoning with unreasonable people will never make sense.

When encountering this kind of person, you must learn to hide and not move forward.

Take for granted that you should borrow a relative.

If a relative borrows money from you, they always use family affection to kidnap you. You don't need to think about this kind of person, probably this kind of relative, maybe he hasn't realized what it is to ask someone to do something, and he probably thinks that it is a very natural thing for you to lend him money. It doesn't matter if this kind of person is in a relationship, but if it's just an ordinary relationship, it's okay if you don't have a little self-knowledge.

Especially between brothers, borrowing money should be considered even more carefully, and you must not borrow money to lend an enemy like the above-mentioned men.

The so-called "borrowing money to repay the money" is a natural thing, others help you in difficult times, you should be grateful, not after borrowing money to stop talking about it. In this case, it will only hurt the precious feelings between you. And when we borrow money, we must also be aware of it, after all, it is not easy to make money, don't let your money go back and go to waste.

Everyone has times of embarrassment, and the person who can lend you money at such a time without saying much must be the noble person in your life. Maybe it seems to you that you have a lot of friends around you who are good to you, but when you ask them to borrow money, you will know that there are not many people who are really willing to lend you.

Many people borrow money, in fact, they just want other people's money. You can borrow it from the bank and go through the normal procedure. Borrowing money from relatives and friends is to take advantage of it, not to eat interest or even to cheat money.

If you don't pay back the money you owe, if you don't pay it back, there will be retribution.

Because it's hard to give you back the money! If you don't want to give it to you, give it to him. I didn't talk when I came and went.

Because the wolf is always a wolf, he feels poor, and others lend him money