Isn t it easy to be a friend??? Isn t it good to be friends

Updated on psychology 2024-04-13
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Who says friends are not good to do? You just need to make him happier when he's happy, and make him feel helpless when he's sad."

    Remember.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, to be a friend, you must have your own pay, learn to be considerate of ta, help ta, learn to exchange ideas with ta, or tell ta's own little secrets, so that you can gain the favor and trust of others Oh Whether friends are easy to do, are in your own hands, learn to pay, be considerate of others This is my secret to making friends Come on, I believe you will be able to make a lot of friends!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you have friends, you should cherish them, and you can become friends with each other because you are appreciating each other, and it is not easy to find someone who appreciates you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on how you grasp it. There are many meanings of friends, after all, not most people can be friends, and if you see the small details of life, you can see a person's characteristics and personality, and the friends you want may be among them, isn't that easy??? Take advantage of it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's easy to make friends, but it's really hard to make true friends. True friends will help you in your difficult times and be with you every day. But a friend with a false heart will let you walk into the end.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why do you think it's hard to make friends? Isn't it nice to be alone!? Don't say that, do it with your heart, everyone is your easiest friend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are many kinds of friends, and it is indeed a bit difficult to really make friends, but as long as it is sincere, the gold and stone are open.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How to say it, it's easy to be a friend, but it's hard to make a true friend! That's my point of view.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Friends want to be sincere, laugh at what's wrong with you, are you troubled?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't know if you have a good friend who can talk to everything, but just doesn't call. Outsiders always seem to say: You two are directly together...You can only smile helplessly, and it is really boring to clarify over and over again.

    To be honest, if they are really together with each other, they may really be able to go on, which can go longer than any relationship. They are two people who cherish each other, they have seen everything the other party looks like, and they know what the other party has to say with one mouth, and that kind of life is okay, but there is no heartbeat when they kiss.

    In addition, you may really cherish him, and love is far greater than friendship when it comes to the odds of a breakup. Once he parted ways one day, he may lose someone who can be with him for a lifetime, and such a risk is really unaffordable. I'd rather be clean with you and grow old together.

    It's good to be friends, and you won't have the little emotions in love: uneasy, tangled, inferior, contradictory, sensitive....You can eat meat, hot pot and beer together, and do all the things that a couple can do. There is a premise that it is only fair that you don't call each other.

    Otherwise, one person has a ghost in his heart, which makes our friendship seem so self-deceiving, and the other party is more like taking advantage of the feelings of the person who loves silently.

    Sometimes, some people never mention love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No matter what happens in the end, at least we met, don't we?

    Because there are some insurmountable obstacles in my heart from beginning to end, I especially don't deal with some intimate relationships.

    Whenever I find out that the other party actually starts to ignore me a little bit and indifferent to me, I will be very sensitive and feel that he is going to abandon me, but I am not sure yet, then I will abandon you first to see if you will abandon me, or I will abandon you first, so that I will not be abandoned by you.

    In fact, it was okay at first, and I would think that he actually did a lot of things badly, and I would fantasize that even if I didn't have him again, it wouldn't be good, but after a day or two, I would blame myself in my heart, if only I hadn't said those hurtful words at that time.

    What is a friend?

    I always care about what special value I have for him, and when you start to ignore me, is it because I have no value? So whenever I feel that the other person doesn't need me, I will be **enthusiastic. Slowly moving away from him.

    He is my friend, but he is also someone else's friend. It's that I'm too dependent on him, and I'm ignoring myself while repeatedly relying on him to laugh at him. If I'm disappointed in him, it's because I expect too much from him, those selfish expectations, those unreasonable expectations, so in the relationship we will be jealous and our hearts will be sour.

    There is no one who will accompany anyone all the time, there are too many intersections, and there are always some people who want to get off halfway.

    When we argue, one of us will always say: You're not like that.

    Obviously, we have accumulated a lot of contradictions, but we always avoid communication, and we always feel that good friends are never quarrelsome.

    Obviously, the other party has tolerated a lot, but the fault is that we all think that only we are paying for this relationship.

    When I have a lot of friends, I think it would be nice if I could have more personal space, and if I could be quiet by myself. When my friends left one after another, I thought that it would be nice if I could be in groups of three or five like everyone else.

    I have always believed that the reason for the frequent contradictions lies in getting along day and night, and it has nothing to do with distance.

    No matter how far away you are, as long as you connect every day, there will be conflicts. Getting along with each other is itself a kind of running-in, and after the running-in period, there will be a period of adaptation and burnout.

    So the most comfortable time should be when you first met. I don't know if that state was in the first place, whether it was a disguise.

    Perhaps, it is the ones who seek common ground while reserving differences are friends.

    If you can't be friends, then put it in the heart of Shouru Sen. At least those good memories that we once shared will not be lost, and they will always remain in my memory.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As a child, the reason for becoming friends was simple. Maybe I have a common interest in hobbies, Jun lives in the west of the village, I live in the east of the village, and when I want to play table tennis, I can make an appointment at school from afar. It may also be because of the proximity to home, the ability to talk about everything, and the farm work can often be done together.

    Because I know enough, I feel at ease.

    First, the heart of a friend can not look directly, if you look directly you will find that the heart of a friend will be extremely powerful, when there is no interest involved, it will be peaceful, but where interests are involved, friends will begin to care, so the heart will feel no tired, only more tired, see more between friends of the warm and cold, listen to more friends of the world, rather than to get close to friends, but better to be alone and comfortable, would rather spend leisure time with more family members than accompany friends, friends and relatives are completely different, Friends are interests, friends are there, if interests are not there, friends will become friends on paper.

    Second, first of all, when you have a career, you no longer have more time to be in contact with your friends like you were when you were a student, and you often go out to play with your friends, everyone has to be busy with your own career, if you use more time to socialize with your friends, then your career will inevitably be affected, you are adults, and you must be responsible for your future life, so from this point of view, it is understandable that you are gradually separated from some friends.

    3. The amount may not be much, but it can bring the emotional support you need. As we grow older, we can go on to higher education and graduate, work, move to another city, change cities, etc., all of which may break up our social relationships. Encounters with new people, separations, and constant goodbyes or reunions with old friends.

    We have friends who never leave us, and we will also experience the moment of being ** by strangers. True friends may not need so many, but as long as there are those few people, they feel relieved and warm.

    Fourth, the interests between friends become smaller or the interests disappear, friends will appear different degrees of estrangement, friends of the division and integration of the relationship completely depends on the direction of interests, but friends will not directly indicate the pursuit of interests, usually with high-sounding nouns instead, if in order to achieve interests unscrupulous means, the light will use friends, heavy will betray friends, friends estrangement seems to be an accident that is not close to human feelings, in fact, it is an unsatisfactory inevitable phenomenon.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because everyone's personality is different, Li Zhi's thoughts are different, and the three views are different, so some people are suitable for being friends, and some people are not suitable for being friends. The content on the wild lead is for reference only, thank you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The premise of friends is that they have the same three views, have common pursuits, and common topics, and not everyone can be friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, getting along with people depends on the merits.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When choosing a friend or partner, we can consider the following:

    Inability to respect others: If a person is always verbally intense, lacks basic courtesy, and lacks respect and empathy in their dealings with others, then it may not be appropriate to form deep friendships;

    Lack of honesty and trustworthiness: Honesty and trustworthiness are very important qualities for building stable and long-lasting relationships. If a person often tells lies or lies to deceive others, or fails to keep his promises, such a person may not be able to have a deep friendship.

    No common interests and values: Even if they are complementary and attractable, it is not easy for two people to form long-term friendships if they do not share common interests, ideas, or lifestyles, or have very different values.

    Please note that these are just a few of the factors that can cause problems with deep friendships, and not all of them will be affected. In our interactions with others, we should slowly enter each other's hearts on the basis of mutual respect and understanding, and face and tolerate each other's differences with honesty, patience and tolerance.

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