Is it really good to be friends with people who like it?

Updated on society 2024-04-11
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't deliberately do things for him, so that he will feel that you are like a nanny, thus reducing the status in his mind, too easy to get, the most will feel that it is not the best, so you just need to be yourself, don't take the initiative to show love, wait for him to slowly find out, maybe not the best, but the most suitable, you will succeed.

    It is very important for girls to maintain a good image, both now and in the future. Either whitening, or cosmetics and clothes, there is nothing you can't change, as long as you work hard, you will find that not only yours, all boys will be attracted to you, when the time comes, you have to choose the best and most suitable one.

    I wish you to get rid of the shadow of broken love as soon as possible, move towards a bright noble road, and finally hold hands with the prince who misses you day and night!

    Hope it helps, giggles.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you are very brave enough to confess to him, which is very valuable.

    His answer is that he "really" doesn't like you. And you really like him.

    In fact, there are many ways to like someone, since you have done so many things for him, why can't you respect him well now, do what he says, and be friends.

    Sometimes, liking someone doesn't have to be possessive of him, being together all day. Keep your likes in your heart, do something else that you like to do, and slowly enrich yourself and improve yourself. Let him willingly change his answers.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, because you like him, your feelings for him are not just friendship, there are other things, and you will have a hard time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This one... It's useless for you to force it for a while, so let's agree first, if you really like him, you have to be conscious, use your "heart" to impress him, and be able to change for him and become the girl he likes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to think of him as your best friend.

    I know it's difficult, but feelings can't come by.

    Maybe you're in the future"Yes"After him, you will find that being friends is also a good option...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In our lives, when we are a boy or a girl, we will fall in love or several relationships when we reach a certain age. But this does not mean that everyone's relationship is satisfactory, and there will also be people who have really liked and cannot be friends. It's actually very sad when this happens, because everyone wants to be with someone they like.

    Even if some people say that they can't be lovers, they can be friends, so I think people who have really liked can't be friends.

    Increase your own emotional woundsI think that people who have really liked can't be friends anymore, there must be a certain reason. If you really like that person, then your mind will be all on one person, and then the other person will not like you at this time. And he will also share with you the girl he likes, so it will be very uncomfortable for you.

    So instead of being very uncomfortable, it is better to forget about each other. If you stay by his side as a friend, this will not only cause some trouble to the other party, but also increase the scars on your heart.

    can't be distracted, and secondly, people who have really liked can't help but be friends, because lovers are lovers, friends are friends, and the feelings between the two cannot be mixed. If two people like each other, they must be together, and if they are still friends after being together, they will feel very uncomfortable even when they meet. What's more, you have to be friends, no matter how big your heart is, it is impossible to be friends with the people you once liked without distractions.

    It will be very embarrassing for yourself, so there will be a very popular saying on the Internet, that is, the best ex is like a dead son. That is to say, after the breakup, it is best for two people not to associate with each other, and not to be so-called friends, so being a so-called friend means that one of them has a bad mind and wants to get back together. But a situation like this can cause a certain amount of distress to other people, and if the other person still likes you, then this statement is definitely feasible.

    If the other person doesn't like you, it will only make the person next to you very embarrassed, and at the same time, it will also make your situation very embarrassing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No. Because the status of people who have really liked them is different, it is difficult to get along as ordinary friends, so I don't think I can be friends.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People who really like can't be friends, the relationship between two people is different, and there will be a gap in the heart to be friends after a breakup, in this case you will feel very embarrassed, so it is impossible.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the other party doesn't like you, you can only be friends, and if you like him and him, there is no result, you can only start with him as friends, at least not as a stranger, otherwise your heart will be even more uncomfortable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, as long as the other party is like each other

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, you can be friends, but ordinary people can't really do it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The euphemistic way of refusal, the attitude is clear, and the "good guy card" and "inappropriate card" are distributed in batches. Now the girl's refusal is becoming more and more subtle, as if she wants to talk about it, so that many ignorant boys don't know what they mean, and they always feel that there is still a little opportunity, and they are reluctant to refuse, but they can't help but invest more and more.

    The most euphemistic and nice girls are even more cruel, they first know that they can't accept boys, but they are reluctant to let boys leave their side, to put it bluntly, they are not willing to be good to boys to themselves. The boy understands that there is no loss for himself, and he feels that he has the opportunity to continue to pay for himself, so he is used with peace of mind as a "friend", anyway, she has not agreed to be their girlfriend for a long time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be friends or lovers?

    Be friends or lovers?

    Many people will have such friends in their lives, which are better than ordinary people but do not reach the level of lovers, very vague and difficult to define, similar to love but far less than love. Some people will choose to maintain such an ambiguous relationship, while others will be bold in principle and try to develop a further relationship - that is, a romantic relationship. There are very few successful people, most of whom end up in failure, and the relationship is not even as good as a friend.

    A friend used to be like this, he told me that I don't know how to describe the relationship with her, they have always been friends, and the relationship is very good, they usually care about each other, and they will share some deeds with each other. Slowly, my friend felt that this relationship should be raised to a higher level, so he confessed to her, but what he didn't expect was that he was rejected, and there seemed to be a gap between the two, and the relationship deteriorated, and it was even worse than the relationship between ordinary friends before. Some people will say that since others have confessed to you and you have not accepted it, why are you still so ambiguous with others before?

    Actually, I feel the same way, but when I experience it a lot, I may understand this feeling.

    Another friend just joined the company, and slowly she became friends with a male colleague in the same company, the relationship between the two is very delicate, the friend told me that she is like buddies between the two, and slowly they are together when they do a lot of things, shopping, eating, commuting together, and going home together. But my friend always felt that there was a "wall" between the two, which made him in a dilemma. After some time, the boy confessed to her.

    She was so surprised that I asked her how it turned out and my friend said she didn't accept the boy. I asked her why, and she said that if she agreed, she felt that she was not so free, and she felt that she would be trapped in shackles, so she was carefree in front of her friends, and she didn't have to think too much about being friends all the time, and she was like a good girlfriend. Listening to this made me very insightful.

    Many people think that two people who are too familiar are not suitable for love, but in fact, this kind of ambiguous relationship is also like this, it is not suitable for love, there is a difference between love and friendship, and it is difficult to pass the past between the two. The best way is to keep it like this, and no one will try to pierce the ultimate layer of paper. There may be some people who are only suitable to be friends in this life.

    If you really want to confess, you can tactfully probe the other party's mind and know the other party's thoughts before making a decision.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since the person you like says that you are good friends, it's good, the implication is that it is not suitable for the two of you to be lovers, at most you will be good friends, in fact, he doesn't want to make the words white to avoid embarrassment to you, which is a refusal to say.

    Since you can't be a lover, what's wrong with being a close friend? Since he can understand you, it means that he has thought twice, it may be indeed inappropriate for you to be together, and there is no need to force such a relationship, lest you end up making trouble and even being friends.

    You must remember that there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Did you confess? Like a fool. I used to play very well, but I had to push myself to a dead end.

    People are dependent, you always accompany a person, that person will be dependent on you, get used to your company, she will always think of you from time to time. What do you think is the difference between this and boyfriend and girlfriend? There is no difference at all, so what are you still confessing like a fool?

    This time it's time to finish the calf! There is no way back at all, and your confession has driven both sides to a dead end. You say you're not stupid.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Can't force it and wish you a better one.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Make friends, I firmly believe that many people will, and some people become friends for some reason, but they are a little weird how the other party has to be unforgiving. Sometimes, people don't know what the reason is, and they become each other's friends, and everyone has a different understanding of friends.

    Some people think that if they only need to have a meal, they can talk about a sentence or two, and they have common hobbies, they are considered friends; Some people think that they don't need too many friends and want to know themselves, so the rules are very high, and ordinary people can't get into his eyes.

    What if you want to be friends with someone you like? Making friends with special people can be regarded as targeted, but at this time, you shouldn't mainly show your purpose, otherwise it is easy to be resisted.

    1. Making friends pays attention to sincerity, which is undoubted, whether the other party is a boy or a girl, is the most important

    If you just start to contact each other because you like them, try to forget your own purpose and go on an outing, and get to know each other sincerely. The heart is made of meat, you take her to heart, as long as the other party is not intentionally unable to see, it is generally not easy to be unclear.

    2. The best way to make friends is to make an appointment, interact and chat, so that it is very easy to understand others and let others understand you.

    The sincerity of the first point is only the mentality that making friends should have, and the second point is the point, there should be more interaction and chat among friends. Most of the emotions come from that, and the decades of friendship that these people say are actually accumulated bit by bit.

    If you want to mingle with the person you like, you have to get acquainted with her first, just get along with her as a friend at first, and be sure to pay attention to your smile.

    It's very easy for a friend of the opposite sex to notice that you love her gaze.

    3. We must remember the good of others, learn to benefit others, and respect others.

    If you make friends, it doesn't mean that others are tools to help you. Among friends, we must learn to respect and understand, and we must understand the difficulties of others. Some people ask their friends to help, but their friends can't help them, so they feel that the other party deliberately doesn't help.

    This is a big mistake, we have to understand the reason for the matter and then think about it.

    The assistance of friends, always remember, a lot of friendship is you come and go, don't always take advantage, sometimes you also need to suffer a little loss. No one wants to be with someone who wants to take advantage of you all the time.

    It should be like that to be friends with the person you like, many boys like to rush to pay, and sometimes let girls pay, some people don't want to be treated like that all the time, especially those who really want to make friends with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no doubt that you must be sincere when talking about friends, so if you want to be friends with the person you like, you must be sincere and interact with each other more.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Be friends and look at fate, some people are lucky enough to have a good relationship for a period of time, but when they encounter a certain opportunity, they will disperse. We will meet a lot of people, but there are very few who can actually be friends.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You must restrain your feelings, and then don't care too much about some things about the other person, so that you can be friends with the other person.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can get to know each other, establish contact with each other, and know each other's preferences, so that you can better cultivate feelings and be friends with each other.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What's it like to be friends with someone you like? Falling in love at the moment is a very distressing thing, especially before you have expressed your intentions, that torturous time is what many people have had, and it is the youth of many people. Because of our lack of confidence in ourselves, so when we face the people we like, we always twist and pinch, want to express ourselves but are afraid of self-defeating, causing the other party's dissatisfaction, in this hesitation we spent that good time, and then pedestrians shuttled, everyone rushed to their own future, the world was separated but left the most innocent beauty.

    Someone asks what kind of experience it is to be friends with the person you like, in my opinion, this is a better thing than falling in love, in life we always unconsciously want to possess each other, so their own pursuit, but this possession will produce qualitative changes after a period of possession, two people are still friends when they do not have this feeling, but after falling in love, the other party's emotions, the other party's life has become a focus of our attention, so that many people have to distract their energy and time to deal with, As the days went by, life became impatient.

    And being a friend does not have so many worries, I put the heart that likes you into the depths of my heart, life is still centered on myself, when I want to contact each other to share their emotions, doubts and other issues, wait for the other party to reply, or spend every day in laughter, this kind of feeling that I don't have but is around is the most beautiful, no burden, and I can harvest a pure friendship, without paying too much attention to each other.

    So when you don't have confidence in yourself, or you haven't thought about a new relationship, make friends with him first! From being friends, you can start to understand each other's habits and understand each other's preferences, and the feelings of two people will also change in the uninterrupted meeting, which is a matter of course, needless to say.

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