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Won't ยท If you can't forgive, why force yourself to forgive him?!! What kind of friend are you not seeing him beat him once, even if you are very worthy of him
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That's your problem.
You should learn to let go.
He hurt you for his big mistake, almost unforgivable. But you should know that you should be happier when you forgive than if you don't. Right!?
I think there is a good saying: only the unborn fetus and the dead do not make mistakes.
In other words, normal people are bound to make mistakes. You yourself will too, so you need to understand each other at this time.
Of course, if you really can't get past yourself, don't force yourself.
But try to be tolerant too, and your life will be more abundant!
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The world is as black as a crow.
Heaven is not a human wish, and the earth's destiny is a spring of things. Everyone has everyone's emotions, it's predestined, and no one can change it. In other words, maybe fate shouldn't be like this, but someone didn't fight for it and didn't cherish it.
If you are not a sage, who can be without fault? Things in the world are always right and wrong, wrong and wrong, right and right, bad things sometimes become good things, you want to do good things but things backfire, sometimes the world is cold, the world is so unfair. Only forgetting is the best ...... relief
The leaves of the leaves are pursued by the wind or because the trees are not left, they can't be friends because they have hurt each other, and they can't be enemies because they have loved each other deeply.
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Listen to your own heart.
When you feel like he's still in your heart and you don't want to lose him.
The taste has changed and you still yearn for it.
Then try to maintain a friend relationship with him.
If you think that "the water that was spilled can never be recovered, and the person who missed it cannot be returned".
Let's take it lightly.
Only when a woman has dignity can she become an independent landscape.
God will always arrange for someone who suits you to wait for you at the next stop after you miss someone.
Listen to your own heart and ask yourself when you're quiet, Can I do without him?
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If you can't be a lover, let your thoughts fend for themselves, it's best not to have something that is broken, it will be very troublesome in the future!
Good luck!
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As a child, the reason for becoming friends was simple. Maybe I have a common interest in hobbies, Jun lives in the west of the village, I live in the east of the village, and when I want to play table tennis, I can make an appointment at school from afar. It may also be because of the proximity to home, the ability to talk about everything, and the farm work can often be done together.
Because I know enough, I feel at ease.
1. Along the way in life, I have met many people and made friends. But later, some friends became passers-by, some friends turned against each other, and some friends never saw each other again, which was sad. There is a saying, this time, that time.
No one can stop in the past, and no one can stop for you.
Growing up, I found it especially hard to be friends. The years are changing, people's hearts are changing, and the former "dragging the family to meet each other" is just a later sentence. Your life is very different from his; What you want to talk about is not on the same channel as what he wants to hear.
2. No matter where you go, as long as the other party can leave a warm memory in your heart, so that you can recall it, and still feel that those years were not in vain, it is enough. It's not that they are separated for no reason, but the three views have long been different, and their hearts are gradually estranged, and they slowly withdraw from each other's worlds.
Don't be surprised at the fragility and transience of friendship, when the tide of time dissipates and the stone that symbolizes the truth of adult friendship comes to the surface. The truth of dating for adults is just three words: light, cold, and far. Friends, less is less, more often.
3. When you miss the days when the two of you used to stay together, you should also understand that such two parties are destined to separate, and it is better to let each other go than to force them together to increase their disappointment. Just say goodbye quietly, and go to each other's path before the two have a greater conflict, but leave the friendship at its best.
The reason why friends are friends is because they understand each other and take the initiative with each other. He keeps an eye on your news and is willing to listen patiently to see what can be done for you when you have something. And you, too, always remember each other and keep in touch.
4. In the end, many relationships are all about interests and each other's values, compared with the beginning, there may be less love and sincerity, and more reason and thinking. To this day, the truth is still the same. Under the interests, it is difficult to have true friends, whether we are willing to mature or not, the other party may have matured a long time ago.
Gradually, it disappears, just a symptom.
5. When a person no longer meets your needs, and a person can no longer keep up with your pace, you will consciously or unconsciously abandon him, and at the same time, you may also be abandoned by others. We will eventually become the old people of the mountains and rivers. What is a friend?
People who come together based on similar emotions or common interests. Therefore, it is also possible to drift away due to the divergence of interests and emotions that are no longer there. "Don't drag your friends on the road, look for friends on the road.
Everyone has a personality and a direction in life. If you force yourself to walk with someone, you will lose yourself. As a person who focuses on reading, if he devotes a large part of his energy to managing the world, he will be disturbed by the world and will not be able to be a "bystander of the world".
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I said yes! It's like you and someone.
The man who only understands after losing it will not cherish it after getting it again, and the bystanders still need to consider it for themselves. I wish you happiness.
There is real friendship, but you have given up, since you had a good feeling for each other at the beginning, why is your attitude so indifferent? There are some things that should be said, don't let people guess, then everyone will be tired and there will be misunderstandings. Maybe you'll still be friends, but maybe you won't be good friends.