My boyfriend always doesn t take me to meet my parents, and my boyfriend doesn t want to bring his g

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe he is a local, you are a foreigner, and he is afraid that his family will not agree, because the elders are very concerned about this.

    Why don't you take him to meet your parents first? Is he willing? If he doesn't like it, maybe he's playing with you and hasn't thought about marrying you.

    If he is willing, it means that he really hasn't figured out how to tell his parents, give him more time, care for him at the right time, encourage him, and when he thinks the time is ripe, he will take you there!

    Bless you all! Hehe......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe he really didn't think about it.

    Perhaps his family knew that he had an out-of-town girlfriend, but the family disagreed.

    So I didn't take you to see them all the time, probably thinking that I would wait until he had made sense with his family before taking you there, so that you wouldn't be in an awkward position.

    Wait patiently.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's very simple First: He has no confidence in his family, so he will take you there when the environment at home is better Second: He is not married yet Third: I don't want to marry you at all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let him understand you, you said that when a woman reaches this age, it is the best time to give birth to a child, and if it is delayed, it will be an advanced maternal age. It's not good for adults and children. If he really wants to marry you, he will obey. This is how my wife used to be forced to get married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm in the same situation as you! But my own way of dealing with it is to give him more time. I also had a falling out with my boyfriend because of this, and now I figure it out, because he wants to start a business first and then start a family! If you love him, give him a little space.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's a good thing. It shows that this man is principled. It's not that I don't do it, it's just that the time has not yet come

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you take him home to meet his parents. See if he dare.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hey, I'm just the opposite, my boyfriend keeps taking me to meet my parents, but I'm actually quite scared, I think it's embarrassing to go to my parents, so I keep holding it!! Ay.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you love someone, you must trust each other, and you can only say that there is no time yet!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's possible that my parents are divorced, so I don't want you to know.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, take him to your parents first.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The boy and the girl have been together for two and a half years, and they still don't want to take the girl to meet their parents, and the reason is this. This boy doesn't like this girl very much, and the boy has been using this girl as a spare tire.

    In the past two and a half years, he has not met the girl he likes, but "rides a donkey to find a horse."

    That's it. His idea is quite beautiful, if he finds a Ruyi girl, he got along with her before, even if he solves his loneliness, if he can't find a Ruyi girl, he will marry her, and he will not miss anything.

    It may also be that this girl does not meet the requirements of his parents, he is reluctant to leave her, and he does not dare to take her to meet his parents, and has been running away. Or he's unmarried.

    I don't want to get married and I don't dare to tell the girl, so I drag it aimlessly. Girls should make it clear that they can't cover it like this anymore, youth is very expensive and can't be wasted, and it's not a matter to drag it out like this.

    And some men are because the family conditions are not good enough, drag on a day is a day, take a girlfriend to see the parents, the family is surrounded by four walls, the girlfriend may not agree, everyone works in a big city, looking at the days are very bright, young There is no pressure to raise children, Tonghuai goes on a date to watch a movie after work, and the days look very good. Once you meet your parents, talk about marriage, house, bride price.

    Something has to be put on the agenda, and such a big expense starts from **.

    Men have no confidence in getting married, and drag their girlfriends, this kind of mentality is unacceptable, but there are too many men in life, and they have everything in their hearts, not everyone thinks about others, and there are selfish people. Feelings also need to be rational, and with the sensibility of a game of friends, it is likely that we will miss the opportunity to embrace a lifetime. Maybe it's a sale, but it's also a summary of personal experience.

    The goddess who had a crush back then never dared to confess. A big problem is that my family background is not the right one, I feel inferior, I don't have the courage to say love, and I leave a regret in vain! I don't know if there will be unexpected surprises if I speak out boldly, but now I regret only the lack of courage to love back then.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    That's because your boyfriend hasn't thought about it yet, whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, or there are some special circumstances in his home, and he doesn't want you to know, and there is another possibility that he is not ready for everything, and he is ready to give you a surprise when the time comes.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is likely that the boyfriend thinks that this girl is not hungry and is the girl he likes very much, or because the boy feels that now is not a good time, and he is not ready to get married, so he doesn't want to take the woman to meet his parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because my boyfriend thinks that his girlfriend is not the person he likes, he thinks that the time he spends with his girlfriend will not be too early, so he is reluctant to meet his parents.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Probably because the boyfriend feels that the relationship between each other is not stable enough, and it has not yet reached the point of meeting the parents, and he still needs to look at it again, in fact, the boyfriend's concerns are understandable, after seeing the parents and Hu Liang, they will be very embarrassed to do Jane.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's because this boyfriend hasn't been mentally prepared for this excavation, or this boyfriend feels that his relationship with his girlfriend is separated until the end, so he is unwilling to let him meet his parents.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It may be because his family environment is afraid of destroying the relationship between two people, so he will not see his parents, and he should be asked for specific reasons.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe he is not ready to meet his parents, and at the same time, he doesn't particularly like his girlfriend, so he still doesn't pay his heart to this relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It may be because your boyfriend doesn't want to marry you, and your relationship hasn't gotten to the point of meeting your parents.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This shows that your boyfriend doesn't plan to marry you, but just wants to keep it like this first, but he finds someone who really wants to get married, and then tells you to get rid of you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It may be that the boyfriend doesn't want to be responsible for the relationship of the side liquid, and there may be a model that the state does not have enough confidence in this relationship, so it is necessary to judge whether the two people are together according to the actual situation.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This shows that your boyfriend doesn't approve of you in his heart, and he doesn't think that you will eventually get married, and you should break up immediately when you meet this kind of person.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's because they haven't decided whether to spend their lives with this girl, or maybe they don't want to get married, but just want to fall in love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The boyfriend doesn't want to see his parents, so it's not common for him to accompany the search. You can grind potatoes a little more to get along with each other and cultivate feelings.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends on how far the relationship between the two people has developed, if the relationship is still unstable, the boyfriend may think that it is earlier to meet the parents now, and Shiqing should get along for a while, or it is possible that the boyfriend is more introverted and will be more nervous when he sees the parents. If your boyfriend doesn't want to see him, don't force him to get along slowly, as long as the boyfriend is single-minded to himself, when the two of them talk about marriage, they definitely want to see their parents.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This key core is also more positive as usual, it may be that the boyfriend feels that the time is not yet ripe, or he doesn't want to have a result with you, so he doesn't want to bring unnecessary trouble to himself!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's hard to say, it mainly depends on what your boyfriend's excuse is, just one question, who can help you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Seeing your parents is an official announcement, unless your boyfriend's purpose is not to marry you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In the process of falling in love with her boyfriend, she will not take the initiative to meet her parents, because as a girl, she must remain absolutely reserved. If the boyfriend proposes that both parents need to meet, they will consider the time when the two people are in love, and it is only suitable to meet the parents after 2 or 3 years of falling in love. Qin Minyin otherwise has been in love for a short time, and she is not sure that the two people want to enter into married life, and after proposing to meet her parents for a banquet, it will cause trouble to her parents.

    Take the initiative to meet your parents as a girl, and maintain absolute reserve in the process of falling in love. If the boy does not ask for the initiative to meet his parents, the girl must not ask her boyfriend to take the initiative to meet the man's parents, and should think that it will always be the man who is in a hurry to get married. Girls can't be too anxious to urge boys to get married, blindly urging each other will only make the other party feel that their girlfriend hates to marry very much.

    Even if you want to marry into your own family earlier, the so-called catch-up is not necessarily a good thing. Girls who don't like to catch up with boys should take into account that girls are the dominant party in the process of getting along with their boyfriends, and they can't easily get a manuscript from their boyfriend and ask their parents to meet them. Wait until the boy thinks that it is suitable for the parents to meet after spending a long time with each other before arranging for the parents to meet again.

    If neither of you is sure that you want to enter into married life, there is no point in meeting your parents early. When parents meet, most of them let their parents meet because of the engagement, so that they can discuss the marriage between their children. The man's parents want to see the girl earlier, and both parents want to see each other earlier when they learn that their children are in love, and the woman's parents obviously don't feel in a hurry.

    Because considering that as long as the person her daughter is looking for is a decent person and a gentleman, she can rest assured that her daughter will fall in love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You don't have to be early to please your boyfriend's family, just go and see it during the New Year's holidays. If his parents don't accept you, it is recommended that you break up and stop the loss as soon as possible, so as not to meet Ma Bao Nan and trap yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    When two people have a perfect relationship and each other takes each other as their own marriage partners, they usually choose to take each other to meet their parents, hoping to get the approval of both parents, so if your boyfriend doesn't take you home, what is the real reason why your boyfriend doesn't take you to see your parents? Let's analyze it together.

    If a relationship talks about the degree of marriage, it is necessary for your boyfriend to take you to meet your parents, which means that he has already made you the goal of marriage, and if your boyfriend refuses to take you home to meet your parents, then you have to analyze the reasons, which may be in the following aspects:

    1.The relationship is not stable enough, it is more prudent to take a girl home to meet her parents, he may feel that the relationship between the two parties is not stable enough to take you home to meet her parents, so he is not ready to take you home to meet her parents.

    2.There are concerns in his heart, it is possible that his parents do not approve of you, do not agree with your feelings, he feels that the family will not accept you, so he does not dare to take you home to meet your parents.

    3.There are unspeakable secrets, such as your boyfriend's family conditions are not good, and he is afraid that you will dislike him after taking you home to see him, so he will not take you home to meet your parents.

    4.He doesn't want to marry you, usually the relationship between the two parties will meet the parents when they talk about marriage, and if he doesn't plan to marry you, he won't take you home to the parents.

    5.The possibility that he has a significant other and can't take you back is relatively unlikely, but there are some cases like this.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I've also encountered this problem, my boyfriend is the same as you, I love him too, we love our family too, but we just can't get married, and we don't want to hurt each other, so, we keep going like this, and we don't know when it's going to end, but we don't want to give up, we still want to be together, we don't want to hurt anyone, so, we don't want to get married, but we don't want to give up, we don't want to hurt anyone, so, we don't want to get married, we still want to be together.

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