Doctors, experts, and scholars in psychology could please help me analyze what was wrong with me!!!?

Forced. Your life is too stressful.

Look at what you say about your surroundings:

Our company was very small and there were only a few people, and I personally felt that the atmosphere was not very good.

I am also a foreigner, I have no acquaintances here, I lack spare time, I am in the field, I also lack a sense of security, and the interpersonal environment of the company is not what I like.

Try to improve your lifestyle.

Change your mood, socialize with the people around you, and make new friends in a new place.

When you're stressed, find ways to vent that works for you, such as crying. Don't be shy.

Find an old friend of your own and talk about what bothers you.

You say you're a person who likes to be boisterous, but I think you're more outgoing, and you'll be able to find a way to change your mood.

Hope it gets better soon.

If you really can't adjust, you can try to find a psychiatrist, after all, you can't say too much detail on the Internet.

Hope it helps.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder, go to a psychiatrist.

Typical self-defeat mentality.

Let's take an example, lz should understand.

There was a lost driver driving through a desert, unable to make out his direction because it was already night, and to make matters worse, the gas could not sustain the car for too many distances.

At this time, the driver suddenly saw a house in front of him, he was very happy, parked the car aside, and kept thinking in his heart while walking over: The owner of the house should be a not very good person, right? He's not going to give me the oil, is he?

He will definitely sell me for a very high **, maybe he is a bad guy, maybe he still wants to rob me, and maybe hurt me, Well, it must be like this, he can't be so cheap.

So the driver knocked, and as soon as the owner opened the door, the driver dragged him and hit him.

LZ doesn't have to care too much about what he sees and hears.

It's enough to do your part, and if you can't sleep, you can lie down with your eyes open, think about something happy, and listen to some light violin or piano music.

Usually, I watch comedy movies in the dormitory, and I don't think about anything else while laughing, so the effect should be good.

Hope it can help you.

I've also had a time when I came back to check it out after going out, so I went back to see it today. The others are not as serious as the landlord said. Landlords can learn to expand their interests.

Play online games and learn to communicate with others when you have free time. Although I was tired from work, I also had to go to eat and have supper with my colleagues. Look at the movie.

Go shopping. Play ball, take a break, and then work. You will be nervous when you are relaxed.

Mental trance, worry, dreams. Typical insomnia symptoms are accompanied by mental depression and endocrine disorders.

Find something fun to do, and the most important thing is to get a good night's sleep, a good mood is the key to ensuring a good body. If you don't know how to relax and be happy ... Then it's time to take some time to study your life.

Also, if you can, go to the hospital for a check-up.

People have to bow their heads under the eaves, Lin Daiyu has only a dead end in Jiafu, and your way out is to stand on your own, start a business, fly out or fly back to China.

This is a deep-seated contradiction involving class and race, and it is not something that you can understand at your age.

A Yu in "Wenzhou Family" is an example for you to learn, but ordinary people can't be so good, ** is from life is higher than life.

You have to build a strong spiritual world within yourself in the end, and of course, the suffering and suffering now are spiritual nourishment, and the preparation for the future is all wealth. We should look at the world with optimism and deal with suffering.

Seeing your long description, you can feel your entanglement and confusion. We will always meet all kinds of people in our lives, some of whom will make us feel warm and like the sun, and some of whom will make us tangled and uneasy. When we meet the latter kind of person, it is actually an opportunity to test ourselves, an opportunity to grow.

A person with clear self-boundaries and a strong sense of autonomy believes that there may be a completely different approach when faced with a situation similar to yours. In fact, it can be seen that you are a relatively kind person, which is the advantage of your personality, and it is also where you need to grow (because everything has two sides), learn to maintain the autonomy of individual consciousness while being kind, and establish a relatively clear boundary with the outside world. Be kind and strong, just like a snail has a soft body and a shell that can shelter from the elements.

You say that the way you lose your temper becomes a bit like your cousin, and because your boundaries are relatively blurred, you are susceptible to the influence of people with flamboyant personalities and domineering appearances.

Seeing your questioning, you can feel that your inner motivation for growth is still very strong, and you are also aware of some things through self-observation. It is recommended that you can work on self-growth, and if necessary, find a professional consulting agency for relevant consultation, which is a better way.

Good luck! Wei Zhizhong psychological counseling.

I don't know if you have watched the TV series "Wenzhou Family"? Parents asked Ah Yu's cousin to take Ah Yu to Italy for development, Ah Yu is only 13 years old, but the cousin who has guardianship obligations has not been around, it is Ah Yu himself who arrived in Italy from China, and in the cousin's friend's restaurant, work, go to school, self-reliance, and get along with a child, is the boss's son, extremely difficult to get along with, make things difficult for Ah Yu everywhere, but after Ah Yu saved the boss's son's life, changed their relationship. Ah Yu endured hardships and stood hard work, perseverance, and finally held up a piece of the sky and established the Chinese spirit and Wenzhou spirit!

Don't be angry with your aunts and uncles, they treat you as a child and teach you to learn about the company's business. You will learn a lot from them, thank them, repay them if you have the ability, don't be afraid of hardships and grievances on the way to growth, in fact, that's nothing?

You tell me? Have a nice day!

At a young age, it is not easy to drift overseas under the fence.

Maybe it's really because of your aunt and uncle, or maybe it's because you're sensitive and suspicious by nature, and you have magnified things subjectively. In short, growth is about sharpening yourself and making yourself strong and independent.

Say something reassuring, it may be that after a long time, you will feel polite and warm at first, and slowly get used to it. It doesn't matter if they are genuinely good or bad for you, you do your best. Make yourself tough.

In fact, you can just say "no" to your uncle and aunt. But you don't have the courage to say it. Your mother is good to you.

You feel like you can say anything to her. Lose your temper at her. In fact, you can completely ignore the unreasonable demands of your aunt's family.

But because of your own evasions... Afraid. Don't dare to face them directly and say, "I'm not available."

I still have to learn. You just do it" and you just complain in your heart. It's useless.

You can tell them directly. You don't have time. What to do let them do it themselves.

If you say no a few more times, they will slowly stop looking for you to do things.

Regarding your last question, no one knows what you are asking if you don't log in. Does anyone know who you are.

1. There are a lot of people studying abroad now, but it is still not good to study at a young age. When a person is outside, it is difficult for a mature mind to cope with all kinds of complex events on his own.

2. Hurry up and tell your mother about your situation, don't hide yourself too much, don't have a good face. Human life is long and complex, and physical and mental health is far more than anything else. I wish you health and happiness.

1.The person you describe is highly suggestive of personality disorders, among which hysterical personality disorder is preferred, but it is not 100% certain because there are only some descriptions on the Internet.

To explain it simply: personality disorder is not a mental illness, nor is it an ordinary psychological problem, it is a disorder formed by people from a small age to deviate from the norm of most groups, hysterical personality disorder, the most typical manifestation is "performative" and "naïve", that is, always love to be exaggerated, like an actor, the behavior has a high degree of demonstrative performance, obviously an adult, not young, but behaving like a child, or acting very different from the actual age.

2.There is no problem with IQ, if there is a barrier to IQ, then as soon as you go to school, you can see that the counting is not right, the writing is wrong, it is obvious.

3.It's not "what will lead to what the consequences will be", and now his headache situation is already a consequence.

4.Such a patient cannot simply say "can he start a family", because from a legal point of view, he has this power, and from a physiological point of view, he also has this ability, but from the perspective of psychological state and life, his situation will affect the healthy development of the family and the psychological growth of future generations, this is certain.

Hello, generally speaking, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behavioral factors. It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition. If the symptoms are severe and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is advisable to consult a psychologist in person.

Believe that this man lives happily. He does his own blog, and he must be doing a great job. The recognition and praise he wants to get from others in this world may not be obtained in reality, but it is realized in the Internet.

No matter what method is used, he has achieved his goal, he is happy, healthy, and he is trying to be happy and happy. He is positive. But the method seems wrong to you, and you think it is not normal!

Everything is fine with this man, he is just a little boy! Bless friends!

Information Required:

1.Your relationship with the person in order to understand his upbringing.

2.Whether the performance is normal at each stage (early childhood, childhood, adolescence, whether you are starting a family now, etc.).

3.What did he start like this?

4.Do you have a history of marriage?

5.When did you have any hallucinations or delusions? (Hallucination: Seeing or hearing something that doesn't exist.) Delusion: incomprehensible, seriously deviated from normal thoughts).

6.Whether there is a family history of psychiatric abnormalities.

7.You can take an intelligence test to see if you are mentally retarded.

I can't give you a conclusion if I don't see it.

Your description is a bit like a delay in mental development, but also like a pre- or incipient psychopath.

People tend to show their second ego on the Internet, for example, some people are usually polite in front of others, but they become rebellious and obedient in the Internet, and some people are good people in reality, but they are sabotaging everywhere on the Internet.

This second self is a good thing in a sense, it can buffer one's psyche and bring it into balance, according to the Book of Changes, if yin and yang are balanced and flow with each other, then this is natural, and conversely, if a person is an angel 24 hours a day, or both are devils, then the person will definitely collapse!

Going back to your case, if the man is relatively comfortable in real life and does not have a serious impact on his own life or the lives of others, then this is the orientation of a person's personality, and others have no right to interfere.

It's not an IQ problem, it's not a psychological problem, you didn't introduce his life background, such as his family and work situation, but from what you described, the mind is not mature enough, plagiarism is actually a kind of lying, he is lying on the blog, it shows that he doesn't think he has done wrong, he has a tendency to lie. But there is a question I think you should be clear first, whether he is also lying to you, such as his age, you said his blog, you and he will not meet on the Internet, it is recommended that you understand his family, although the family can not determine everything about people, but the growth environment can give people a basic background concept, and the influence of parents on children cannot be ignored.

Since you have both reached the point of considering starting a family, it is right to know each other so much, as far as the current situation is concerned, it is definitely not suitable for marriage, and you should be more worried about his impact on the child's growth than the health of the child, I don't think he has enough sense of responsibility to become a father.

Everyone has joys, moods, and joys, and it is necessary to analyze his current personality from his parents, friends, and all aspects of dealing with things, and I hope you will observe more.

Psychological problems. If it's an IQ problem, I won't plagiarize the article and revise it.