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Some people only scold and never resist, this is determined by people's character, and some people are more honest and introverted, so they don't bother to resist or fight back.
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Habit problem, he may have experienced this kind of education since he was a child, or the people around him are often like this, so he slowly learned to slowly develop such a character.
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Maybe it's because she's the head teacher, that's why it's like this, in fact, as long as you do it yourself, no matter if it's emotional reasons or whatever, you don't have to pay too much attention to it.
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Because sometimes more things are better than less, and resisting will invite more trouble, so as long as you don't bully people too much, don't ignore him.
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That's because it's bigger, if you offend the head teacher, you will give your classmates small shoes to wear, such a person is indeed, such a class teacher is indeed unqualified, you should report him and let the school deal with him.
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Why do some people only curse? Never resist? Does rebellion mean to offer hands? If you do it, you will not scold or beat people to death, but if you do it, you will beat people to death.
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Because he couldn't feel that it didn't make sense, he didn't feel the right to resist.
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Traitors will only scold the Chinese, foreign countries provoke China, as long as someone in the country scolds back these traitor lackeys will say that people are trolls, this kind of people are the most disgusting.
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I think you have to learn to get along with others, sometimes scolding doesn't solve the problem, and even if you resist, it may trigger greater conflicts and be hurt.
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People are always like this, they all think that they will feel more comfortable when they scold themselves, but in fact, the problem is not dealt with. It's always been there, and it hasn't changed anything.
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Others scolded her just behind her back to scold him, and when she was in person, she was reluctant to scold her teacher, and it was not easy for her to feel that the teacher was also a respected professional teacher.
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Why endure it, what kind of society is it now, you have to endure being bullied, there are 10,000 ways you don't need to endure it, it's really not okay to put it on the Internet.
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Parents are also afraid that you will suffer, and there is nothing wrong with being an honest person. Especially your homeroom teacher, if your classmates say bad things behind your back, if you resist and can't bear it, then you will suffer, you see that others don't say it, don't be stupid.
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I think that such a person is educated, and he will only talk about it verbally, and he will not beat people with his skills, and such a person should be highly educated.
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Generally, there will be three situations, the first situation is purely in the mind, when others scold you, at the very beginning, you have not reacted, of course, you also show a certain amount of anger, and powerless counterattack, at that time, did not give others a strong counterattack, just after the fact continued to insult each other in the heart, even for several days did not forget, in the heart of the scolding of him is not happy, although it will slowly pass, but this matter will also leave a certain shadow in the heart.
The second situation is a powerful counterattack, others scold you a sentence, you scold others twice, just like that, without letting the other party take advantage of the slightest advantage, in fact, completely crush the other party, quarrel with the other party, no matter what the language, pay back to the other party, which will make you very excited, even in the next few days did not completely forget.
There is also a situation that ignores it, no matter what others say, the response on this side is to ignore the other party, and there are no ups and downs in their hearts, because they don't care about this matter at all, so what we are talking about today is the third situation, not responding to the other party's insults.
This kind of response is to overcome yourself, in life, although this sentence is somewhat absolute, because no one will not care about this matter, after all, people have feelings, if you really don't care about this matter, then you will become a saint, no one will become a saint, so we can only keep moving forward in this process.
In some things, ignore the other party, this matter is not to make you a coward, nor to let you have the upper hand, but to let you overcome yourself, because when you have a conflict with others, you will inevitably get angry, and the consequences after being angry are only borne by yourself, this is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others, why do you do this? So don't respond to other people's insults.
It's not that you're weak, it's about letting yourself get some advantage and not letting yourself get angry, this is defeating yourself, and on the other hand, you're defeating the other party, why do you say that you don't respond to the other party but you win the other party? Because if you ignore the other party, it is the best response to him, then only the other party will be there to be angry, one person is angry, and it is he who suffers. Ignore him, and he will feel very bored himself, directing and acting like a clown.
Of course, there is also a situation where other people's insults may be pointing out your shortcomings, if you think about it from this perspective, do you find your own shortcomings from other people's mouths? So the attitude towards things determines your lifestyle, and not responding to the other person's insults at certain times is actually to make yourself better, and sometimes being silent is not weakness, but a smart way of life.
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The former may be born soft and sensitive, or they may not have experienced much setbacks and naturally can't stand what others say; The latter may have experienced too much, and his heart has been tempered to the point of iron, and he will know how to automatically filter out the words that make the mood worse. Of course, they may also be optimists or cheeky by nature.
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The reason for the psychological quality is related to the family, I have not been abused, I have not met people with a bad personality, I will not be able to accept it, and it is good to see more.
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Why is it that there are always "people" on Douyin who attack others personally, and then someone says that it can't stand it?
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1. I just want to impose my will on others, but others do not have an intersection with me, so I feel incomprehensible and unusual, so evil thoughts arise from my heart and suddenly I am lost.
2. The problem of swearing may only be discussed in a limited space, but if we want to solve it, I think we can only control ourselves in our own living space, and sometimes we may have to break out in a temper that hurts less. What we can't stop is others, and we can do it ourselves. If everyone does their own thing, it can be solved.
I think we can choose when we are unhappy or angry, and it may not be chic or personality to communicate with anyone in civilized language, but they can be tolerant of themselves or others. At the very least, it can reduce the damage value.
3. There are several kinds of people who scold each other, and the encounter between two power types is easy to cause a "war", which needs to be "solved" by people with a peaceful character; Another situation is that two people with poor quality meet together.
4. Scolding is venting, because some things are beyond your power so you come up with strange words to vent your dissatisfaction, on the other hand, this admits that most people avoid reality, only know how to condemn others, and don't know that this is equivalent to admitting your own weakness and inability, or that it is no longer the category of weakness and incompetence, but it is impossible to change at all.
5. It is recommended to think about how you feel when you are scolded by others when you are scolding.
A lot of times it's not necessarily a good thing to reflect on.
Scolding is just a tool for people to vent, everyone has a mouth, they can scold people, but this can reflect the quality of people. I can control myself, but I can't control others, what is the reason after all? There is no anger, no grievances, etc., people will not want to scold people when they are full and have nothing to do, there is no such person, as long as everyone pays attention to the way they speak.
I don't think there would be so many problems.
6. A person scolds people because of "extremely angry", "angry in the stomach", "panicked in the chest", "very uncomfortable", "angry", "angry" and other reasons, in short, to "take a breath".
"Poor qi" is caused by "poor gas path", and "poor gas path" is caused by "narrow" gas path.
Think about it, is it easy for a narrow highway to "get stuck in traffic"? Therefore, "poor qi" determines "narrow-mindedness" and "impatient personality", and "poor qi" determines poor physique and longevity.
On the contrary, those who "live a long life" are "gentle in character", "broad-minded", and "calm in the face of things" because they.
Of course, netizens with bad personalities may be very frustrated when they see here, but don't be afraid, it's not that the character is difficult to change, and the acquired "cultivation" is also effective.
Remind yourself from time to time to consciously pay attention to "relaxing your mind", and use healthy methods such as "singing", "exercising", "working", and "diverting attention" to release the "excess energy" in your heart.
In addition, after a "serious illness" or a "great tribulation", sometimes a person's personality will change greatly, but some will get better and some will become worse, because the condition of the body's internal qi path is unobstructed.
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Brother Fa can't scold! He may make you crash in all games.
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Personally, I think there are several cases:
1. People with a strong desire for personal control do not tolerate disagreement between others and themselves, and it is difficult to accept other people's ideas;
2. Poor cultivation and lack of respect for others;
3. The personality is more impatient and can not be calm in trouble;
4. People with extreme inferiority complex in their hearts want to obtain self-satisfaction in this way;
5. Bad habits, since childhood, I have developed such a bad habit of scolding people when I open my mouth.
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Mentality, they always feel that everyone else is wrong.
In fact, there are many people who don't use their brains to do things, which is also normal, after all, not everyone is so smart, there are always stupid and stupid, isn't it? I think people with high education will use their brains more, and the right people will use their brains less, after all, people with high culture, and it is not in vain to go to school for a day, if you go to very little, learn to stay at home every day with a housewife or an illiterate person, you don't want to use your brain when you encounter anything, because you have not received that kind of education, and you don't have that kind of life experience. So, this matter is still different from person to person, as long as you don't worry about him, if you want to deal with him, then if they don't listen, it's because it's one thing, if you listen, use your wisdom to defeat them.
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