I went on a blind date many times, but I didn t have a suitable one, and I was a little panicked.

There is no rush in the matter of marriage. Fate hasn't come yet. Don't be in a hurry, just find someone to marry you off. That's not right. Go your own way. Don't care what people say. Happiness is not far from you, come on.

Hold on You have to know now how much you have in yourself What kind of man you want What kind of personality should be right for you Don't get married in a hurry You have to know that it's hard to maintain a marriage The tears that come out of marriage are the water in your head when you are impulsive before you get married Be a new age woman.

28 is not young, but there is no way to panic and be anxious about marriage, fate has solved everything, don't blindly go on a blind date, let alone blindly engage, otherwise the consequences will be more serious.

Fate has not arrived, the right person has not yet appeared, and there is no urgency.

Don't panic, I have the power of the wilderness. Actually, my brother is not married, so I have to take my time. Don't go out for a walk if it's okay.

I'm 30 years old, I haven't been on a blind date yet, and I'm not panicking, fate hasn't come, don't worry. They are anxious to let them go in a hurry and live their lives.

Mo Dao has no confidants ahead of him, and he will always get together if he is fated. Men and women should be cautious in their marriages, and they should not be reckless in their obedience.

It's normal for people not to get married at this age.

Woman, what are you afraid of, my man hasn't been found yet.

Don't worry, I'm single too.

Help you use feng shui to see if it's okay.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, there is a process of psychological change for the blind date. The first blind date will be with apprehension and hope, hoping that fate can allow you to find an all-round match, so you will be very curious about each other when you meet. Driven by curiosity, you may want to touch and learn more about the other person, and even have expectations for the future of the two of you.

But by understanding each other, they find that they are not suitable for each other, and the other party is not the person they want to spend their lives with, and disappointment is inevitable at this time.

So there began to be a second, third, and countless blind dates later. But with one blind date after another, after meeting one person after another, you will find that you have long been numb to the blind date, and even the other party's appearance, family background, education, etc. can not arouse your interest, and it is possible that you are embarrassed to leave directly in front of your parents, relatives, and friends, but in fact, your heart is already very tormented, and it is like sitting on pins and needles.

This is the boredom caused by too many blind dates, I don't want to go on a blind date, but I want to find a suitable person to marry as soon as possible, what should I do at this time?

First of all, I think that both boys and girls should give up the rules and regulations in their hearts about their other half. Many people already have standards in their minds before looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend, and then pick and choose according to the standards in your heart in reality. In fact, this kind of thinking is wrong, because the interaction between people can only be completely and truly understood through long-term contact and understanding.

Don't miss out on the person who really fits you because of external conditions.

Second, don't use material conditions as a measure of a person. Many people take material wealth as the criterion for making friends, this idea is wrong, because what can really make two people go to the end together in life is the fit of the soul and the same three views, even if the material conditions are rich, but after marriage, they find that the person's behavior and conversation and living habits are not in line with themselves, so such a married life.

It won't last long.

Therefore, a good marriage is a heart-to-heart fit, and only by starting from the heart can we find the truly suitable person in life.

In reality, everyone hopes that they can find the perfect Hongchunhui love, but in the process of blind date, they may not be able to do so for various reasons. After experiencing n blind dates, I will have a lot of insights, specifically including the pursuit of love needs to be forced by fate, only if you have a stronger ability to win favor, and you have to learn how to show yourself.

1. After experiencing n blind dates, you will realize that the pursuit of love needs to be casual and cannot be forced.

One of the things we often say when we do things is that as long as we work hard, we will be able to succeed. But this sentence does not necessarily apply to blind dates. In many cases, I am very attentive when I go on a blind date, but I can't get a perfect result.

This will make you realize that love needs to be fateful and cannot be forced.

2. Only if you have stronger abilities can you win favor on a blind date.

When I went on a blind date n times, my deepest feeling was that if my conditions were poor, it would be difficult to succeed on a blind date. Only when you have a stronger ability can you win favor on a blind date, and then pursue your own love. Therefore, you need to go the extra mile to improve yourself.

3. In the process of blind date, you must learn how to show yourself.

When you go on a blind date, sometimes you will find that although you are very attentive and your conditions are very compatible with the other party, the other party does not recognize you. After analysis, you will find that this is caused by your own poor presentation of yourself. Because they can't show themselves, their abilities and talents can't be shown, and the blind date is not successful.

Therefore, if you want to succeed in the blind date, you must learn to show yourself, so that you can fully understand yourself, and you can succeed in the blind date and pursue love.

If there is no follow-up to the first side of the blind date for many times, the appearance factor is the main factor. Generally, if a man is interested in a woman when he meets for the first time on a blind date, he will determine the time and low point of the second meeting, and send the woman back to the model's house.

In this case, it is easy for girls to feel whether a man is interested in a woman or not. Observe some of the man's speech and behavior, and you will probably understand.

They ran out to meet the boys, and when they were not satisfied, they turned back to the black face all the way, and the men saw that there was no play, and it was easier for them to retreat than anyone else. Blind date men pay more attention to emotional experience, and their psychological tolerance is not high, and they will not be stalked when they see girls who have no interest in them.

The blind date is not successful because the girls are more face-controlling.