Which one should I choose, the blind date girl that I am entangled

I think you better find another one, the first one can get along, but you also said that you have a bad temper, and getting married is to find someone with a similar temperament, otherwise it will be difficult to get along even if you get married, as for the second one, you have already vetoed it, that is unlikely, and the third one you can be with her, but if you think about it, you will feel very unreliable, and this will not work, and you yourself feel that he is not satisfied with you, I think these three are not ideal partners for marriage. As for this, you have to feel for yourself, and others are other people's opinions, as long as you are.

Hope it helps.

I think the first one, you consider that it costs a lot of money to get married, you don't like her at all, marriage is a lifelong thing, don't choose the wrong person for the sake of marriage. The second appearance can't get by, and you have already vetoed it, which means that you have also considered it, don't force it if you can't accept it, what a painful thing it is to live a lifetime with someone you don't like. The third one, a cheerful girl, if you want to choose, you must be sure to see it, control it, in fact, if you don't like it, don't force it.

If you meet a girl you like, then don't count so much, **inappropriate** bad or something, the key is that you haven't met it yet.

The first one will be dispersed, neither of you is capable enough to regulate your emotions because personality is innate. The second person is good, but there is no eyeline, and you will want to break from prison in the future....The third, in fact, has a good personality, talks about love, knows how to be romantic, and may regulate your atmosphere. If you live your life, you can cultivate slowly.

You can get in touch and see that there are no major quality problems, just try to convey the criteria of your favorite person and see if she is willing to make some changes in the details. If it really doesn't work, don't be in a hurry, do a good job, the object will naturally come up, and the man is not in a hurry to get married. Hope it helps.

I think you can't pay too much attention to appearance, but you should also say that in the past, before choosing others, you should calmly look at your own conditions, (economic conditions, height, appearance, education, ability) and then set a rough standard for yourself, so that you have a standard for choice, you can get along if you meet your standards, and if you don't meet your standards, you will refuse, but if the standards are too high and exceed your own conditions, it is also nonsense, then you may be a fantasy. If the appearance is very good, but it is not virtuous and emotionally dedicated, then you will feel very painful, and it is impossible to be too long with you, so the woman's gentle and virtuous feelings are the most important.

The first one is that you will always obey her in the future, and if she is not happy with you, don't want to stop.

The second should be the best candidate, you should not have too much pressure after getting married, she will be very good to you, and she will accommodate you and tolerate you in case of trouble.

The third one is still young after all, and she is very malleable, but you have to put your heart and soul into taking her.

If you want to get married and find a second, if you want to fall in love and find a third, if you don't like these two, then look for it again, remember that career is important, a man is nothing without a career!

If you're not very good, well、You're a little too demanding、

I don't think you should choose any of them.

If you are "chosen" on a blind date, you can consider the following options:

1. Understand the other party's selection criteria

Ask the other person what their selection criteria are so you can better understand their needs and expectations.

2. Express your thoughts and feelings:

If you are not satisfied with the other person's selection criteria, you can try to express your thoughts and feelings. But be careful not to hurt the feelings of the other person when expressing your thoughts.

3. Find common ground:

If you and the other person share common interests or values, try to find common ground so that you can communicate and communicate better.

4. Respect the other party's decision

Regardless of the other person's selection criteria, respect the other person's decision and don't force the other person to make a choice that you are not willing to make.

Being chosen doesn't mean you don't have a choice. You can find a solution to your problem by understanding the other person's selection criteria, expressing your thoughts and feelings, finding common ground, and respecting the other person's decision.

First of all, you must understand the personality, work ability, and family situation of the blind date before you can decide to get married.

First, it depends on his character, his relationship with his family, and his relationship with colleagues and friends. If you have a close relationship with your family and are friendly with your colleagues and friends, this man is still more reliable.

If the man does not have a good relationship with his family, then the man is unreliable. Even if it's good for you, it's temporary, or pretended.

Second: It can be observed in the details of life, if a man is scheming everywhere, he is not suitable for marrying him.

Third: you can look at his ability to work. If you are not motivated at work and keep making excuses for not being promoted, this kind of man cannot be married, and it will be painful for a lifetime if he marries.

A woman's greatest sorrow is to marry an incompetent man.

Fourth: see if he has the courage to take responsibility. If any wisdom and digital mistakes are excused for themselves, complaining about others, and shirking responsibility, this kind of man cannot be married.

Fifth, the way money is used.

One saving, one wasteful, for example, when you receive a utility bill every month, the party that may save will complain

Why do you always forget to turn off the lights? Why do I keep the water on when brushing my teeth? One buys it when he likes it, and the other always buys a bargain ......The difference in the use of money and the difference in the way of buying things actually contains the difference in the whole value of the previous one.

Sixth, family matters.

In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much housework, but also some trivial things that need to be paid attention to: for example, a love to throw it around, a hanger and a hanger are almost the same distance between them; One loves to collect everything, and the other magazine is disposed of as garbage after reading it; Even as small as squeezing toothpaste, small things add up to big ones, and such details often become the fuse of a big noise.

My opinion is given:

In a blind date, you should not only look at the good side of the other person, but also consider the negative aspects of their personality or lifestyle to get more information. If this choice is made seriously, then the pros and cons of being with everyone must be considered.

If both people are wholeheartedly good to you, then you are faced with a difficult choice. Although you shouldn't like someone because of feelings, it may be an illusion. If you should consider how important you are to everyone and what it means to him if you meet him again.

If he doesn't want to go on a blind date again, then he is not the right person for you. If you think that one of them likes you more than the other, then this should play a big role in your decision.

The authorities are fascinated, the bystanders are clear, you can bring a friend when dating, they may have different Qi Hu's suggestions, and you had better accept their suggestions, but beware of being dug up, or the other party is more handsome and beautiful than you, compare you to it, but this can also see that the other party is not attentive.

Write down your feelings about everyone in a notebook, and it's best to make a ** and make comparisons. First, this will help you understand the real need. How does it feel for everyone.

And make a list of what kind of strengths your future partner needs to have, and what kind of disadvantages you can accept for the gods.

Every woman can get married, every man can find a daughter-in-law, if you have been screened and made up your mind, don't think too much. Trust your instincts to tell you that he is good, and then keep working hard and strive to get married. If you really can't decide, flip a coin in the air and let your family help you.

1. You have all packaged your own blind date, and when the matchmaker introduces you, you probably know the other party's mate selection criteria, and if you really want to lie to you, it is easy for you to think that I am looking for this person and waiting for this person.

2. The suitability of a blind date is different from the suitability of frank and free love and cohabitation, and your blind date will be more accurate than ordinary people to abide by the rules of men and women, which is basically a polite state, but this state is not the norm of getting along.

3. It may be suitable for his family background, and my friend also has a reason for getting married, and the boy's family background is not bad. But the boy was blind at the time and did not have a stable job. So even if the boy makes the hall family four or five thousand a month, it is more reliable than having a good family background and no job.

4. What you think is appropriate, it may be that he thinks you are suitable for marriage, some men are very good at grabbing the hearts of relatives around girls, but for girls, they are all kinds of PUD.

5. Blind dates should not be suitable as the ultimate goal, they should be excellent as the goal, and very good people can get married.