I am an adult, 26 years old, female, in a relationship, but unmarried

I think you're a little inferior, in fact, it's not that you don't want to love, it's just that you're hurt and scared, on the one hand, you want to find a real sustenance, and then live happily, on the other hand, you feel that there is no true love in the world, and you always suppress your emotions, but I think sometimes feelings are not a person's business, if your parents know about your situation, I believe they will be very sad, and as long as you are happy, I believe you will find your own happiness, you want to put your emotions in the rest of your life, others can't teach It mainly depends on what you think, whether you should let go or resolutely let go, there is still a long way to go.

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I'm not afraid of love problems.

I hope you can return to reality as soon as possible and find happiness as soon as possible.

Twenty-one years old has not been in a relationship yet, don't worry, don't worry too much about love. If you can't find a suitable love partner and can't follow the trend, you should slowly precipitate yourself, let yourself maintain a wise mind and a sober attitude on the road of growth, and don't plunge into it, but it will hurt your body and heart. For young people who have never been in a relationship, I would like to say that we should pay attention to these points:

1. Love has a sequence, don't be in a hurry.

Seeing that Don't Burn people fall in love, and I have always been single, this gap will definitely make people uncomfortable. But we can't be in a hurry and choose a random person to start our first love. Remember, the feeling of first love is particularly warm and beautiful, don't close your shirt because you are in a hurry to fall in love and talk to someone casually, which will only give you a wrong start and leave a sad ending and memories.

Therefore, remember not to be troubled when love does not come; Don't be proud when love comes, and face it calmly.

Second, love with the crowd is unacceptable.

We love someone because the other person is really worthy of our love, not because the people around us are in love, as if we should also talk, so we are in a hurry to find a partner. This kind of love is actually meaningless, just a waste of our youth and feelings. A despicable love, no matter how many there are, is not as happy as a sincere love.

Therefore, it is wisest to keep your feelings and not follow the crowd casually.

3. Always strive to improve yourself before falling in love.

When you haven't met the opposite sex you like, you can put all your energy into studying or working first. During this time of waiting for love, you will find that you have achieved a lot of results because you are focused on studying or working. When you become better and better, it is easier to gain the favor of the opposite sex, which has been proven to us by many people in real life.

You should pay attention to Wang Jing's own words and deeds, master the relevant principles of love and Xunling, and trust, understand, respect, and tolerate each other in daily interactions, and have a heart for him.

When you love someone, don't love too much, don't love without chain touching dignity, don't talk about living with each other, don't answer to do things you don't like, you must choose someone who loves you very much.

You should pay attention to exercising your social skills and communicate with others more to change this situation.

Summary. Hello dear! This kind of person is insecure, the personality is more independent, the outside is cold, the inner stuffy character Oh, in fact, 24 have not talked about it is very normal, there are many such people around, many people because of the previous family caused psychological pressure and trauma, resistance, inferiority in love!

Some people are insecure and afraid of being hurt, which is very normal!

Hello dear! This kind of person is insecure, the personality is more independent, the outside is cold, and the inner character is boring, in fact, 24 has not talked about it is very normal, there are many people like Moqiao around them, many people because of the false family caused psychological pressure and trauma, resistance, inferiority and love! Some people are insecure and afraid of being hurt, which is very normal!

Objects are combusted. Because someone else introduced me to a blind date, Seventeen came out, and then I didn't talk about it once, is it because of personality, she told me, inferiority complex or something, and then got along twice Mu Stool Pei didn't want to continue, and then Xun Wei took the initiative to come to Kuhe, what do I mean.

This is the inferiority complex.

Personality issues, oh dear.

He has no experience.

In the face of feelings, in the face of what the other person should not do, what to say, fear.

But the girl also said that it was very good to get along, and she didn't explicitly say that she liked it, so she said it was good, and then she didn't want to continue with the circle twice, and the second time she came to me, I asked her, she was stupid and said she didn't understand, is it really not understandable.

It's me and the blind date man, the last chat is like this, I said, let's still understand the blind date, I have no clue, I don't know how to chat, he replied, it is a little understanding, I don't know how to chat I don't understand, and then I don't understand it, and said, there is no need to go down to understand, this is the end, there will be no result in understanding, he replied I didn't want to go down, I said that I have understood for so long or so, and there will be no results in understanding, he took such a reply well, and then I said WeChat don't stay, There will be no intersection, good goodbye, he replied ok, deleted, the last dialogue is like this, what do you think.

In fact, you are not very interested in both of you, and there is nothing to attract each other.

It's true. So people don't want to continue?

That's right! To put it bluntly, I just don't like it.

I don't feel it, where can you tell me about it?

You can finish it, and he said that I didn't think about going forward.

Suffice it to say that he didn't feel much at first.

It's not that I said, you don't want to go down, the girl said that she has known for so long, or so, and there will be no results in understanding, yes.

Well, I know dear.

Both sides say the same thing and say the same thing!

So I don't think you need to continue to dwell on it, just start a new life.