When I go to high school, I just want to deal with two or three close friends, how should I deal wit

Today's children are pitiful.

You learned too early about the bad habits in society.

Remember, classmates, don't make friends for the sake of making friends, and you can only be good to others if you are good to others.

Don't be afraid to offend others and do things you don't want to do (of course, don't mess around. Also, as I get older, my criteria for choosing friends are different, and it's not like making a friend and getting a quilt, hehe.

Let's be honest, people like to be friends with you.

Do you think it's a friend's hand?

Anyway. We were in high school, too, and we thought it would be so tiring that we couldn't take care of it that much.

But now it's college.

I think it's still a high school friend who is affectionate enough

No matter how it was at the time.

Now they are all very good friends.

And when you get to college, you'll know that a lot of people use each other.

It's still good in high school.

Treat people with sincerity, show your true self in front of your classmates, take the initiative to get along with your classmates, establish authority among your classmates, and don't blindly imitate those who like to give orders, because everyone's personality is different, and blindly imitating will only become contrived. It is very important to care more about others, to help others enthusiastically, to learn to discover the strengths of others, and to be helpful. Be good at being humble, point out carefully what mistakes your classmates have made, and don't scold and fight.

In this way, after a period of time, students will gradually discover your strengths, and will gradually get along with you and become friends. Female classmates, as long as you do a good job of character and learning, they will naturally stick to it slowly. Oh yes, and you have to be good at communicating with your classmates and chatting so that you can find your soulmate

Hey hey share weal and woe, share blessings and blessings, and share difficulties are real friends Oh I wish you to make bosom friends as soon as possible Also, don't be too irritable in your personality, so girls will be scared away Hehe, etc., but also respect other people's opinions).

Because you still miss the friendship you used to have, you don't make close friends with your heart, because everyone is promoted from junior high school, and you will feel the same way as you in your heart, you need to take the initiative to find friendship.

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Questions. High school girls have a hard time making friends at school.

Hello, the main reason why it is difficult to make close friends in high school is because of the busy academic work and the emergence of a sense of independence. If you are busy with your studies, it means that high school is the most intense of all our courses, so it determines that you don't have much time for social activities. The manifestation of the meaning of independence means that in high school, we already have a very complete worldview and values, and if the other party does not match our own worldview and values, then we will not want to become close friends with him, so this is also the reason why it is difficult to make friends in high school.

Questions. High school student she doesn't know how to make friends?

Hello, if you want to make friends, you can choose from two aspects: learning and interest. Studying is to find students with similar academic performance, and generally these students are happy to make friends with classmates with similar grades. The second one is similar interests, for example, they both like movies, reading books, etc., then interest will also be a good way.

Because after going to high school, the age is already very old, after the rebellious period, we have some ideas of our own, so when choosing friends, we have some of our own requirements, so I feel that I can't make close friends, at this time you must calm down, there is no need to be nervous, it should be your friends naturally know.

If you feel that you can't make close friends in high school, it is likely that the study pressure in high school is relatively large, and everyone is focused on studying, and there is less time for playing and gossiping in junior high school and elementary school.

Because high school is an important stage for children's growth, and this stage is also the stage when everyone works hard and is pious, everyone is under a lot of pressure, so it is easy to have conflicts, you don't have to be anxious and wait for this time.

It's normal to feel that you can't make true friends, so you have to learn to be alone, and after high school, you actually have a competitive relationship, because it's all for the entrance examination.

Maybe it's because you changed your environment after you went to high school, and you haven't gotten used to it yet. You should take the initiative to talk to your classmates.

High school is a charge to aspire to the top of the university, at this time you are studying hard, go to a good university, even if you can't find your own friends, you don't want to make friends, just study hard.

After going to high school, many people's minds are very deep, and they will not treat each other as their very good friends, this is because everyone is growing up slowly, and what they should do is to exchange their sincerity for each other's sincerity.

Because everyone was very nervous about studying in high school, they were studying hard every day, and they didn't have time to communicate at all. But this does not mean that there are no friends, you should use your own sincerity to find it.

You don't want to start a small group so that you deliberately exclude many people and thus you can't be the kind of popular person. If you want to make a good impression on everyone, you can try to be sincere with everyone, learn to smile, and learn to greet your classmates. Even if you are in a bad mood and don't want to say hello, you should smile at all.

And show your confidence by walking with your head held high. Introverted but never public, everyone doesn't like that kind of flamboyant person, no matter how talented he is.

Look at others when you speak. Listen quietly and don't interrupt others when they speak. Discuss issues that others are interested in, so that they will not be annoyed even if it takes a long time, but will feel that you are a person who cares.

Don't argue over trivial things, even if you win, you lose your feelings.

The most important thing is to be yourself, as long as it's right (but there's no right or wrong in terms of character) and don't change for anyone. Socializing with others is about making others appreciate you, not anything else.

Do that and you're welcome. If someone is still resistant to you, that's their problem, not yours. Don't deliberately associate with them. A person who doesn't know how to cherish you is not worth cherishing.

That's all. Come back to me if you have questions.