How does it feel to have two or three best friends?

It is a very happy feeling, this relationship is not family affection or love, it is the feeling that these best friends are an indispensable part of your life. They are as important as your family and objects, and I am really happy in my life, and I am really happy to have these friends.

I just take friendship very seriously, and I may not tell my parents about anything I usually encounter, firstly, because there is really a generation gap, and secondly, they don't understand many things, and I don't want them to worry. Then at this time, I will definitely tell my friends at the first time, ask them what they think, ask for opinions and suggestions.

When I was in junior high school, I made some mistakes, after all, I was too young at that time, and I couldn't deal with my feelings, and I didn't have a good relationship with my family, and I felt like I was going to quarrel when I met. At that time, I was very rebellious, and now I think about it really naïve, but fortunately I had such a group of close friends with me during that time.

Along the way, they have been with us, and we have accompanied each other and encouraged each other. I remember when I was in junior high school, I was about to graduate, and we met at the gate of the community every day to make up classes, choose the same school together, and go to the next city to take the exam together. Fight for your own tomorrow together, and despise the universities that you can't get into now.

Time is really a good thing, although the past has passed, but now a few of us have not changed, as long as the heart has been pure, the goal is still together, then even if you don't contact for a long time, you can still get back to the previous feeling. Some time ago, we also discussed that we should study hard and work hard to earn money, so that we could buy a house in a community on the same floor in the future. I'm looking forward to what we're going to do in the future, and I'm working it.

Best friends are hard to find, for men to have two or three close friends who can communicate with is really a great blessing in life, after all, we are all human, we are all afraid of loneliness, in this noisy and fast-paced era, each of us lives very carefully, dare not trust everyone around us, because this is caused by this society.

I remember breaking up with my girlfriend of five years when I just graduated from college, and this kind of thing really hit me very hard, and it also affected my life. I was with her in high school, and we were both in the same city, and after graduating from college, the two of us broke up, and she brought it up, and the three of us were young and had been together since we were young. At that time, without the company and enlightenment of the two of them, I don't know how long it would take me to come out, think about it, my heart is endless tears, it's really uncomfortable, after being together for so long, I said that I would be separated.

We've been through a lot with the two of them, we've had fights with each other, and the three of us have had fights, but we've gone on and we've always had a good relationship. Watching the two of them enter the palace of marriage, I must be very happy as a friend, but getting married means that there is responsibility, and we can't get together so often.

Although we can't get together often, we will also make a ** every few days, in order to jointly maintain our deep friendship, one confidant in a person's life is enough, and I still got two. With the two of them, we can have someone to accompany when we are sad, someone to help when we need help, no one cares about anything, money doesn't decide anything in us, we are still us no matter what.

From the beginning of the year, I had my own small group. We were all in the same class at that time. In the three years of junior high school, we have always had a good relationship, and we have been fighting.

Because of them, I spent a junior high school that was not lonely; When we were in high school, we went our separate ways, and we were admitted to different high schools and started different struggles, but we still kept in touch once a month to meet, chat, and encourage each other; After high school, they went to different universities, and they were even more apart, and they couldn't meet once a month. Nowadays, we often only see each other during the holidays. But even so, I never felt rusty.

A dear friend is that we have had a very happy time together, even if we can no longer spend time together in the future, we still care about each other, hope each other is well, and then, always cheer for you.

I was particularly impressed when I was a sophomore in high school, and one of them got off the list. At the time, she was in a high school far away, and she often cycled back and forth for an hour and a half. She happened to be home on the day she took off her bike, and when she came back on her bike, she didn't go home first, but rode directly to my house and told me the news.

She said, I don't know why, she just wanted to tell me.

There was no jealousy at all, but she was very happy that she found her happiness and her dependence. What's even more touching is that after so many years, I am still the first person she thinks of when she has something to share, and that's enough.

I was in a terrible high school, and I couldn't even find any reliable study materials at that time. And when they studied in key high schools, they took on the important task of collecting information. They are all science students, but they often go to great lengths to find their liberal arts classmates to keep a copy of the exam paper after the school exam, and then bring it back to me.

At that time, my classmates around me were super envious of my learning resources for opening plug-ins. And all my pride is in them.

It's enough to have three or two best friends in life.

Modern people's requirements for friends seem to be very low, and everyone we know can say that this is my friend, but in fact, I don't know much about each other, and I have very little contact, so I can only be regarded as superficial friends.

True friends are very difficult to meet, maybe you live under the same roof with the other person for three or five years, and still feel that the other person is not your true friend.

A true friend is not about the length of time you have known each other, but about whether the other party understands you and is willing to let go of their own things to help you when you need it!

A person who has a true friend must be happy, have someone to share with when he encounters something happy, and someone to confide in and ask him for emotional and practical help when he is in trouble.

In the same way, people who do not have true friends are just themselves in everything and will inevitably become gloomy without the nourishment of friendship in their hearts. Even if he is rich or smart, he is always surrounded by many people, and he will feel lonely and insecure. A person who does not have a true friend lacks the solace of the soul, and he must be in some pain.

But at the same time, people who don't have true friends should be relatively capable. He can only do everything and has no support, so he will continue to train himself, less interpersonal communication, but more ability training. Therefore, in terms of personal ability, they are generally slightly stronger than ordinary people, and it is easier to achieve success.

People who have never had a true friend since childhood will feel lonely and lonely when they are young, but they should gradually get used to it later. Man is a very adaptable animal, everyone will find their own place in society, maybe they will watch the excitement of others in the corner, cry silently by themselves, so as to become stronger and harder!

It's just the feeling that I can be friends with everyone as long as I want.

Since I was a child, I was withdrawn, left-handed, and I was born prematurely, so I have never dared to open my heart to be true friends with others. How so? No one knows what kind of person I am, because what they see me as they are is nothing more than a disguise so that they don't dislike me:

I am enthusiastic in front of enthusiastic people, I am calm in front of calm people, I am bad in front of bad people, I am good in front of good people, I love to learn in front of people who love to learn, and I am very playful in front of people who don't like to learn.

So what they see of me is nothing more than what they are. They see me as a friend, and I don't really see them as a friend, but I just don't want to look too unsociable, so I just pretend to be something.

Growing up, kindergarten to college, I didn't go to a class reunion.

Now it's just past the weak crown, but it's still like this.

What does it feel like? Lonely. But I've long since gotten used to this inner loneliness, to enjoying it.

How to say enjoy solitude?

I can make almost everyone who knows me feel like he's great today, or he's so enthusiastic today, and he's so good today. At night, I sat alone on the roof of the city's tallest neighborhood on the edge of the guardrail, drinking and watching the moon.

What does it feel like? That's how it feels.

One step forward is death, one step back is life.

After thinking about it, let's attach a few pictures, and I haven't had a chance to show them to others, or I have never had a friend who wants me to show them to him.

One o'clock in the morning during the summer vacation of 2018:

Around October 2018:

2018 11 copies of it:

Around April this year (at that time, there was a person who drank too much and lay down all night...)

Most of them didn't send it, picked a few photos, and often went for a while in the middle but got tired of taking pictures.

I can't get used to seeing the light squirt, thank you.

1.Generally, when encountering this kind of problem, it may be my own social problem, I am ** offended a friend, and when I deal with interpersonal relationships, I don't have such a subtle look at the needs of the other party, which leads to strangers.

2.I didn't have a true friend since I was a child, this time period is still quite long, and I can't make a true friend for a long time, do you want to reflect on it and see what went wrong.

3.Nowadays, the social steps are so fast, it is easy to be left behind by others, and when you are not in the same parallel line, your relationship will gradually drift apart.

4.If you want to find a true friend, you need to advance and retreat with him, and we should not be idle when he is working hard, so that we can walk side by side.

If a person doesn't have a true friend since he was a child, then you should review yourself well, right? If what you give is all hypocrisy, what you get must be illusory.

There is a very good saying, compare the heart to the heart, plant beans and get beans, and plant melons and get melons.

Don't always see the shortcomings in others, learn to look in the mirror. In fact, the people who give you contact in everything are destined for you. It's just that you don't know how to cherish, if you often don't know gratitude, and blindly know that the fault is someone else's, and the right is your own, then it's a big mistake. No one is stupid, it's just a little slower than you. You have to appreciate the good of others more, and after a long time, you will naturally have more true friends!

If you are an all-inclusive and tolerant person, your bearing will be extraordinary. Don't often say that you don't have a true friend since you were a child, and if you go on like this, you just want to make friends with you sincerely, and you feel quite chilled when you know it. "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are cold in June".

It is often said that it is difficult to find friends, there are more friends, the road is easy to walk, no friends is equal to no sunshine and rain, your life will wither, as long as you change yourself, time and you are very beautiful......

I don't know if it counts if listening to my father's words.

Together here and there.

The daily life of a male high school student.

EF-Wings of Longevity Tears of Truth The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya K-ON That Flower AIR 。。 A lot...

I haven't heard of the name of the flower tear gas.

There are really a lot fewer likes to the circle of friends, I have fewer likes, and fewer people like me. I used to be a person who was called the "little prince of likes", and I kept liking people's circle of friends all day long, QQ space, Weibo, anyway, I would like almost every piece of information I saw with multiple hands, and it felt good at that time, and a like made people feel their own existence, and also made themselves feel their existence.

In fact, the circle of friends really attracted a lot of people at the beginning, and the like function was once reduced to a word in the news. But in response to the sentence, the old will always go, and the new will always come. Use it too much, and after a while people won't do it.

This is the trend, which is temporal and regional. The tide will gradually heat up and then slowly subside over time.

Let me ask you first, do you love him? Or love how you feel when you're with him? Sometimes you can be friends, but you can't be lovers.

I've all been in situations like this, and I think you're just used to it, used to him being around you, used to his care, greetings. It's not love. You can tell him anything when you're a friend, and you're used to telling him everything, but you can't be a lover, and you can't tell him some things, and you don't know where to start.

After becoming a lover, you will no longer be as calm and relaxed as before when you see him. I couldn't find anything to say, and the atmosphere was so cold that it exploded. Not as much of a topic as before.

I hope you can sort out your mood and thoughts well. And most importantly, do you really like him or not? If you don't figure this out, I'm afraid it will be difficult for even friends to do it in the future.